glad it works for you

Hi, I was mislead by the title a little, I thought this was going to be about one particular child and the problems/solutions you learned and were sharing with us.  I understand the idea of confiscating an item as punishment, however after a torrid weekend with a 3yr old being particularly naughty, I am determined to find more positive ways to reinforce good behaviour and concentrate less on the negative.

For example, instead of taking away your child's bike, wouldn't it be better to go for a ride with them if they behave extra well?  If your child tidies their room, wouldn't it be a good idea to play a video game or read their favourite book instead of taking them away?  How about going to a movie with the child that is happy and friendly or makes some small effort to contribute the household... Each child is different, therefore each reward would be different, however it has to be better than scolding and punishing all the time... I find it weary as a parent, I am sure I'd hate to be on the receiving end.