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It is ok to ask for help

demonikangels by demonikangels Standing(February 2009) (rank 478th)

I think it is important for new mums to realise they dont have to do it on their own if they are not managing with the baby and the over all household, it is ok to ask for help from people.
You shouldn't feel all less of a good mum

because you had to ask, it takes a lot of strength to admit you need help; but if you are struggling, asking for help could prevent you slipping into a post natal depression because you feel like you have to do it on your own.

Remember, its always ok to ask for help if you need it, there are people out there to help including family members and health care professionals; and if someone offers you help, accept, because you can always have them help you with meals or washing so you can get back on top of everything and function to your best ability.

it is important to remember, if you are feeling like your not coping that you do talk to your doctor about it, as you may have Post Natal Depression.

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liswal
February 2009 | liswal
Re: It is ok to ask for help

Great advice,,,Let's face it ,,,,,it's not easy at times! You really should ask for help and don't ever feel bad for asking. Also, I would like to ad,,,,If you notice a friend who you think needs help,,,,,give it!!! It can make so much difference.

Lisa :)



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Ju0101
February 2009 | Ju0101
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Great advice!  I had the baby blues with my second quite bad and family were worried I was beginning to have PND, I did help but I still felt down.  It took I think around 6 weeks for me to get back to normal, did this by making myself go out with both the boys, and also a weekend away at friends.  Friends have had PND and were calling me regularly to give support.



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leclaire91402
February 2009 | leclaire91402
Re: It is ok to ask for help

I am one of those that hates to ask for help.  I have always wanted to take care of things myself.  When you have a child it is different.  For their sake take the help.



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Rukia
February 2009 | Rukia
Re: It is ok to ask for help

I fear that a mum will slip through the system like I did and end up on a road that I still am recovering from almost 5 years later. I sliped through the system and didnt get help and I ended up almost taking my life.

PND is not something that should be taken lightly.

great advice



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