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The Importance of Conversing with Our Children |
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by mcm (February 2009) (rank 2nd) |
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We met with our children's teachers this week to discuss their learning. They discussed what they expected of the children to help them optimise how and what they learn, such as being prepared for the day, having breakfast, getting enough sleep and not running late for school start. As well
as bringing water to school and other little important things.
What I thought was worth sharing with other parents, is how we speak to our children. Children are bombarded with so much visual stimulation and this can affect the neurons in the brain. Limiting time at the computer, especially playing video games and not watching TV especially in the mornings before school is a good thing.
Most importantly, lets talk to our children. Asking open ended questions is the best way to learn about anyone especially our children. If I ask my son, "How was school?", he will say "Good." with a huge smile on his face. I ask my daughter the same question she may tell me what her friends are up to. But I have learnt if I want to know something in particular, I need to ask the right specific questions. For example I can ask, What are you up to in Maths? What are you learning about now in other subjects?
Conversations and just plain old talking teaches more than any tv show or whizz bang computer game. If you are too busy to sit down for a chat, you can still talk. Cutting up the vegies? Tell your child about it. Look, I have cut the carrot in half! How many pieces do we have now?
I am very happy with our childrens' school. I would like to homeschool (unschool) but if I can't, then being aware of what my children are doing most of the day without me, is of utmost importance.
On Tuesday, my daughter turned 9. I took her out to get milkshakes and look at the shops. I was delighted to see shop assistants respect my daughter, talking directly to her and engaging in conversation with her. I like that she can grow up understanding how to talk to people and maturing the way she is. Children are people too.