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    3.45 (May work) from 18 votes (1601 Visits) |
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playing wit himself |
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by Dawn (August 2006) (rank 24th) |
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I am wondering how to explain to my 3 yr old to stop playing with himself? His hands are down there all the time it seems like. Everytime I tell him he just laughs/ smiles and says that's my pee' er . Or is this just normal for boys ? I hope so .
HE IS ONLY 3, AND HE IS JUST PLAYING WITH HIMSELF, HE'S NOT PLAYING WITH HIMSELF! ITS VERY NATURAL FOR BOTH BOYS AND GIRLS TO CHECK THEMSELVES OUT. MAKE A BIG DEAL ABOUT IT AND AT THAT AGE, ITS JUST A GOOD REASON FOR HIM TO DO IT MORE BECAUSE MOM SAYS NO OR DON'T. INGORE HIM WHEN HE DOES IT, KIDS DO ANYTHING TO GET ATTENTION. NOW AS FAR AS DOING THIS IN PUBLIC, ARE YOU KIDDING HAVE YOU EVER SEEN A BASEBALL GAME? MEN SCRATCHING HERE THERE AND EVERYWHERE PULLING AT THEMSELVES WHEN THINGS GET TIGHT FOOTBALL ISN'T MUCH BETTER. SO I WOULD NOT WORRY TO MUCH ABOUT PUBLIC DISPLAY, IT IS MORE EMBARASSING FOR YOU THAN HIM. THE THING ABOUT KIDS IS THAT THEY ARE UNINHIBITATED ABOUT SUCH THINGS THEY DO NOT UNDERSTAND SOCIETY AND ITS DOS AND DONTS. THEY ARE FRESH NEW NORMALHUMAN BEINGS EXPLORING THEIR BODY PARTS. HE MOST LIKELY DOSEN'T DO IT A MUCH AS YOU THINK IT JUST SEEMS THAT EVERYTIME YOU LOOK AT HIM HIS HAND IS IN HIS PANTS. HAS HE RECENTLY BEEN TOILET TRAINED? MAYBE THATS WAY HE HAS A HOLD OF IT AND CALLS HIS PENIS HIS PEE'ER. JUST A THOUGHT, BUT REST EASY EVENTUALLY HE WILL LET GO.