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teaching children to behave in public

racechick23 by racechick23 Speaking(August 27th) (rank 246th)

ok im not the best person to write about this cos im only a new mum myself. but in the 16 months iv been one iv learnt somethings to keep my son calm and happy when shopping, so i am goin to share them with you.

1) try not

to take your child out close to nap time or lunch.

2) Do not bribe your child with sweets or toys as this will backfire the next time you go out.

3) pack a bag with their stuff so they have things to play with while your shopping

4) I have seen some mums bring a portable dvd player along and the child watches that when shopping ( yes not everyone has one or has a child old enough to use one)

5) try and remember your child has to take 2 or 3 steps to your 1, so if your in a hurry leave child at home with a babysitter or slow down when you walk.  you wouldnt like to be dragged through the shops

6) child harnesses are the best thing to have when bubs learning to walk but remember if they fall and you dragged them its a form of abuse so take your time with them and try and avoid them wrapping themselves around other people.

7) remember children have short attention spans so anything to shiny, flashy, noisy will distract them.

8) most shops have playgrounds in or near them so take 20 mins out of your day to let your children play it might make them behave better plus you can use it to have a cuppa or a bite to eat.

9) if you run into a friend while shopping remember your child will not stand still for 20 mins,

10) children grab things if they see you do it.

i hope this has helped a little and feel free to add anything else you can think of.

 

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emmie
September 6th | emmie
Re: teaching children to behave in public

thanks for sharing x



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llmunchkin
August 30th | llmunchkin
Re: teaching children to behave in public

These are great tips for distractions and good for kids around your sons age especially.  You could start teaching him that he is not to grab things though and training him not to run away at this age though.  I would use a harness if I had a problem with more than one child, however it is safer over all to teach them to respond to instructions; that way, if an emergency situation occurs, you have better control.  Just practice it all the time, at home or where ever you are and make it part of your daily routine.

Many people I know pack enough snacks to last for a week each time they go out... Since Jaydee was about 12mths old, I have limited it to water or milk & some crackers.  It is better to time your trips outside of meal times & kids need to learn that they can't ask for food or expect it all day long & get in the habit of eating at meal times no matter where they are; it makes life easier for everyone.

I like how you remind parents not to stand around and chat while their kids become bored... I remember being bored out of my brains when my parents did this and I always apologise and move along when Jaydee is with me.



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winja
August 27th | winja
Re: teaching children to behave in public

 Good tips for a new mum.

I'm big on distractions! Shopping does not have to be a chore.

I use the time to chat to my children and talk to them about things we see and are going to do, I get them to "help" as much as possible and if they get a treat they are given it at home AFTER we finish what we are doing if they behave themselves the whole time only.

I've actually been fairly lucky in that both my children ( seven and 21 months) behave themselves and I have never had to use anything like a harness, if they walk they hold my hand or they arent allowed to walk!



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sandra106
August 27th | sandra106
Re: teaching children to behave in public

Great advice here I always took snacks so they were readily available so there was no lining up in ques to get something to eat.



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zoolooau
August 27th | zoolooau
Re: teaching children to behave in public

 Yes i think some people forget that kids get bored shopping very quickly then get angry at them when they act up..... no, YOU need to keep them occupied!

As they get older you can get them involved, get them to cut up some junk mail and make a little book, then when you go out shopping, see if they can find things. Or get them to find things on your shopping list and teach them to read at the same time! :)



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