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A lively boy

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I am a TA working at a middle school.  My son has two years before he reaches middle school.  He has alway been a lively sole and I have had to deliver strict guidelines

as to what is acceptable behaviour and what is not because he has an

amazing imagination  but as soon as he goes to school he behaves in quite a different fashion.  Its not because home life is too strict because he tells me what lovely days he has and he goes to bed generallly beaming.  The reason for his different behaviour at school is because he enjoys making people laugh by pretending to jump like a frog..... or fall to his knees in a kind of faint. ie dead  he is basically the class clown.   What the uk government states is put in on an education plan and behaviour plan.anyone that displays anything abnorma  I would be worried if my son could not explain what he is doing but fortunately  he can explain his actions quite nicely.  He is only 7......  why can't children behave like children rather than little adults?

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KirstieA
October 7th | KirstieA
Re: A lively boy

I too do not see the advice in this article.  Why would you want you child to not act silly?  That is apart of growing up.  Even as adults it's still fun to act silly and play around of course if this is an ongoing issue then a behaviour plan needs to be put in place. 



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mystikal
October 6th | mystikal
Re: A lively boy

Sorry but I don't really see any advice in this other than to put kids displaying what you call "abnormal" behaviour on a behaviour plan. I don't consider imaginative play abnormal. I'd say school aged children often have wild imaginations and this should be supported and nurtured.

School aged children try to find their place with their peers. This sounds rather innocent - He seems to have found that his peers think he is funny so has adapted to trying to be a class-clown. It's human nature to try to fit in and to be accepted by others. Sometimes these behaviours are harmless and other times the behaviour can be over-the-top.

I can't seem to figure out whether you support government behaviour plans or oppose them?



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Izzy
October 6th | Izzy
Re: A lively boy

Kids act silly for no reason, especially if they get a positive response from it and sometimes they just want to be silly.  I think as adults, we expect silliness from our kids but as they grow up, we extinquish the silliness a little at a time until there is no more. It's sad really.

My husband and I encourage silliness with our kids. My son (4 1/2) loves saying that we are a silly family.



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