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Taking away the pacifier

Angel321 by Angel321 Speaking(August 2006) (rank 500+)
When I had to take away the “Binky” from my oldest someone passed a great idea to me, and it worked like a charm, she was broken from it in about a day. Spend a few weeks weaning them. Only let them have it at nap time or bed time.
(This is not necessary, but it made it easier on me.) Then when they have become adjusted to that, cut a hole in it. Cut the tip right off, not prick a hole in it, cut it off! When they can not get the sucking sensation they will become annoyed and stop wanting it all together. This way you are not taking it away from them. Just say “uh-oh it’s broken. I’m sorry, I don’t have anymore.” This is actually usually a smooth transition and not hard to do. Many, including myself, have said it was easy. Once you decide to do it......
  • You should only have one Pacifier in your possession. This takes away your temptation to pull out the uncut one.
  • Remember if in a moment of weakness you “Find” one that is fixed you have lost, because then they will know you can get another one.
  • People do away with the Pacifier at different ages. Of course this works best with a child over one, because they understand “it’s broke”. My advice though is to do it before 2 years. Why? Because Emily was 2 years and she began developing her speech through her “Binky”(speaking with her pacifier in her mouth) causing a slight speech impediment. She has outgrown it, after having to correct her pronunciation of things, but you can avoid the bad habit altogether. Plus, as my Dental Hygienist mother-in-law would add it is not good for their teeth.
      ~Angel, 1smartmom.com
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Adrienne
February 2007 | Adrienne
"Noonie yuck!"
My little boy turned 2 in December and getting rid of the pacifier has been on my agenda since his birthday.  He only used his "noonie" during his nap and at night.  However, he gave it up at his sitter's a few months before his second birthday.  At home, it was a different story.  He'd ask to take a nap for a little while just to be able to use his pacifier.  I decided that if he could do without it at the sitter's house, then he should be able to do the same at home. 
To do this, I coated his noonie with "stop the bite".  It's a yucky tasting stuff that's used on children who bite their fingernails or suck their thumbs.  Well, it worked....he's told everyone he knows that his noonie is yucky and even threw it away himself!


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dolphins30
October 2006 | dolphins30
pacifiers
It's really hard isn't it when you have to take a pacifier of your child when they get too old for it.


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Rachall
October 2006 | Rachall
taking away the pacifier

I am curently weaning my 16 month old son off his dummy, but he only uses it for bed so I am starting by taking it away at his afternoon nap and then when he is used to it I will start on night time. I found that when I gave him a teddy he grew attached to that and then I got the idea of taking his dummy away and leaving teddy.

It worked today.



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michellei
October 2006 | michellei
Taking away the pacifier
I have just been through this and what a trying experience it has been.
I have documented in my blog what we have been through.
Good luck.


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dramamom
September 2006 | dramamom
I think I'll try that soon
My daughter is 16 months.  She's only had her soother at nap and bedtimes for quite a while.  We tried to take it away just at night time and then at naptime.  It only worked for two days.  By the third day, she got hysterical when I told her to lie down and go to sleep.  Maybe this little trick will work. 


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Jessgore
August 2006 | Jessgore
Sounds good...
Our son actually never took the dummy... We'd try to give it to him, but gave up... It was actually amusing, not that he would not take the dummy, but when we were at the in-laws or other friends, they kept telling us to give him his dummy when he would cry (When he was still to small to do anything on his own) They could not believe that he refused to take it...


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rkcrtbrown
August 2006 | rkcrtbrown
Great idea!
wow great idea. i have been thinking about taking away my son's pacifier soon. my son is almost 16 months. since about six months, he is only allowed to have it for naps and bedtime and if he is sick. i will definitely give it a try over the next couple of months. thanks.


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Izzy
August 2006 | Izzy
pacifier

I heard of this tip before and I actually tried it when my son was about 15 months old.  From 12 months on, he usually just has his pacifier at nap time and bedtime. One day as I was getting ready to throw away a couple of pacifiers to replace them with new ones, I cut the tips off a couple and handed it back to my son. He put it straight in his mouth, had a curious face, and just kept right on sucking. After a few seconds, he took it out of his mouth to look at it and shoved it back in his mouth. I wasn't ready to wean him off of the pacifer, so it was just a test. Based on the test, I don't think this trick would work with him.   But I have heard it work for some other people though. It's definitely worth a try.

A month ago my son started using the pacifier during the day again. I was surprised by this, but a few days later I saw that his last 2 teeth are trying to break through.



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      robyn460
October 2006 | robyn460
pacifier
hi  you no what i did i told both girls that someone like a pricess was going to come get he dodos and leave a special surprise for them.so i found all of them put them under there pillow like a tooth fairy and they got a special surprise.i no its bribe but guess what it worked


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ollie71
August 2006 | ollie71
Dummys are mysterous things

As mine really did get lost I told my nearly 2 year old that I could not find it and he had to have his afternoon nap with out it.  He was so tired he just did.

I was going to cut it off at 2 but this seemed to be a ok excuse for him.  I am constantly trying to find them.

Now with my daughter I had over 8 and they seem to disapper.  I even bought the dummy clips and I've even lost two of them with the dummies attached.

Now my daughter is 14 months and she is quite attached to hers that she will not sleep without one.  Especially during the daytime.  So your wonderfull idea of cutting it will come in handy.

I personally think it is disgusting to see a older toddler with a pacifer stuck out of it's mouth.  But hey.  I sucked my thumb instead till I was ten.   My mum constantly told me to stop.

So a pacifier would be better then a thumb.  I'm sure it does not promote bucked teeth.

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      Angel321
August 2006 | Angel321
Dummys are mysterous things
I totally agree about the whole Thumb thing, I was 11 before I sucked mine, so I was determined to have my kids take the Binky. I knew I could take that away.
~Angel 321


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