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Appreciate What You Have

wildrose by wildrose Young Parent(August 2006) (rank 24th)
I found these days many children or adults are not appreciating to what they have. It seems 'the other grass is always greener'. Why we don't we think the other way around.

If you think again, there are many people who are less fortunate than yourself. We could start
with what you are wearing at the time you read this. At the other end of the world or even few block from your home, there is someone that might not have nothing. When your child is whining about food that you serve, has she/he ever think that many other children that would struggle to have what your child has. When a healthy young woman is going to have a breast enlargement, has she ever think that other woman is struggling to battle her breast cancer. This only a little example. When a man working long hours, so he could earn as much as his friend, has he ever think that his family needs him too.

I do believe that we all have a dream to be better person, or better look, or better than others. I agree that if we work hard we reach our dreams. But I also believe that some people just forget about their limit and capacity, and they do not see what they are missing out.

Let us start appreciating what we have. Appreciating your look. Appreciating what you earn from your hard work. Appreciating every single minute you spend with your love ones. Teach your children from early age, bring up their self esteem, tell them that other people are not always better, prettier, richer, smarter, luckier than themself. All those glimmering things or dreams are not always better that what you are and what you have now. I believe appreciation of ourself will also bring healthier and happier relationship.
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MumKim
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | MumKim
Excellent advice

Excellent advice. I posted a similar quote in my blog just the other day

There are two things to aim at in life: first to get what you want; and after that to enjoy it. Only the wisest of mankind achieve the second
Logan Pearsall Smith

It is something I try to do, but it is so easy to forget and think about the what ifs. In the last two years we have dealt with a miscarriage and my husbands medical condition but we are now in a pretty good situation. I am very lucky, I have a terrific husband,  a baby on the way and two delightful little dogs . We have a house and car and my husband has been seizure free since January thanks to brain surgery. I have much to appreciate.



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dolphins30
4.00 (Good) | October 2006 | dolphins30
Spot on
I totally agree with what youve written. I have struggled all my life too and it makes me sick how the rich people are always saying their poor etc. Great statement youve made.


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Frontier
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | Frontier
There is a lesson in every day.
After having our youngest son have a skull reconstruction at 6 months of age we have discovered the value of life and everything else is what you do while you are living. I left my good paying job to look after my son resulting in a 50% drop in income. I have had the privelege of brining up my 2 sons in the early years of their lives (one is 6 and the youngest is now 4) and this is better than any amount of money.
Every time we return to the Childrens Hospital we are reminded how lucky we are and that we are well off compared to a lot of other people. Tomorrow I will be reminded again when my boys jump on my bed and say "breakfast please"


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TheMentorMom
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | TheMentorMom
Excellent Advice
Excellent advice Wildrose!  I try to write donw five things that I am grateful for each day in a gratitude journal.  It is tough on those really bad days, but I always come up with five.  I try to instill this sense of gratitude in my children as well.  We start a fund at my husbands coffee shop each year taking donations from patrons to purchase Christmas gifts for needy kids, e.g., kids in foster care, etc.  They feel so good picking out and wrapping the gifts and then delivering them to the agency (wearing their Santa hats of course!).  Thanks for the reminder to all of us to slow down and count our blessings.


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rkcrtbrown
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | rkcrtbrown
Thank you!
thank you for helping me remember that there is always some one else out there that is going through harder times than you are. Appreciate what you have today.


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JadieLady
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | JadieLady
exactly
recently my family was faced with perhaps not having that roof above our heads. it was hard and ahd us down, but more than anything all we saw was our fantasticfamilies supporting us to help us through.

although i dont know many people with families that work long hours to earn as much as their freinds, more to support the family, but i do know of one particular sinlge person who has no mind ofhis own and literally does everything my husband does!


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mcm
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | mcm
So grateful
I am so grateful for what I have especially my husband, children and family. For things we have, that are less than some, much more than some have.


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mewannaboy
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | mewannaboy
Appreciate what you have
I really agree,we do not look at what we have and focus too much on what we don't.I am so happy to have a roof over my head,4 healthy children and food on the table.I want for no more than that. I do think of all the children in our world no matter how far away they be with every step i take and each time i tut because i cant afford two donuts. imagine the faces of others in want for just clean water and a home without war..


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angelmum
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | angelmum
Appreciate What You Have

So agree, every time I feel like life is hard, my mum points out to me that I have a roof over my head, 3 healthy children and a husband and family who love me, think of those who dont have any of those things!!  I thank god every day for what I have



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