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Top ten ways to get your baby to sleep

matthew by matthew Minti Founder(February 2006) (rank 44th)
The order is not important here:

1.  White/background noise. Some use a the sound of rain or a hairdryer sound on continuous repeat while your baby is daytime napping and at night. It's a supporting approach that helps baby sleep well while parents sleep well.  There don't appear to be any bad side effects, and it makes sense to gradually lower the volume and move on from white noise after a few months.

2. Swaddling. If you are a parent then you have probably already heard about this technique.  A tight swaddle in a comfortable blanket keeps your baby from swinging their hands around and waking themselves up, it is a key to good sleep. You may want to spend the money on a Miracle Blanket but a tight swaddle from a normal blanket can work fine. Again its a good idea to transition out of this technique as the months go by because you don't want your child becoming dependent on the swaddle for sleeping.

3. Don't react to everything:  Small noises should be ignored at night. Often first time parents are ready to jump up and feed or comfort their child on the basis of any sound at night, this can be fine in their early weeks when the child isn't a good sleeper. Remember that a baby will really tell you when it needs something; peeps and snorts can be safely ignored because babies will rise out of heavy sleep into light and back into it many times a night. Better to wait for real noise--not minutes of screaming, but a real "wah wah".  It's tough but you will find that you can suddenly start to have some real sleep, making more quality time available when your baby needs it. From all reports it doesn't damage the child whilst if you leap up every time he or she peeps, you're disturbing his or her sleep. 

Some have suggested using a clock or watch and really waiting for that 10-15 mins to go by - one minute of crying can seem like half and hour to a heart struck parent and the use of a clock or watch can help deal with the pull of the child's sounds.

4. Make night-time feedings, changings, and comforting "dark, quiet, and boring". There is no need to sign and rock late at night to get your child to sleep.  You can see instant improvement from this technique and can apply it pretty much straight away. If you really need to rock your baby back to sleep at night, then perhaps do it rhythmically in a glider chair in the almost dark with perhaps a few nightlights. Avoid the daytime "play sounds" or singing too much as your child will think it is time to wake up fully.

5. Sleep/Baby Positioner. Consider a foam positioner that elevates your baby especially if you have issues with some reflux which is common among infants. Positioners with side sections can also restrict rolling around and make for quieter nights.

6. "Vitamin  A&D ointment" with nightime nappies:  Then don't change unless you really have to overnight. You may find that you do need to change your baby at some point during the night, but often you may find that 6 to 8 hours can go by before a change is required.  The Vitamin A&D Ointment prevents diaper/nappy rash.  As infants get older their nighttime diapers/nappies may shift from being a mix to almost entirely wet and not very. Check whether you can wait until morning but probably best to be cautious early on or the cot/crib can become a real mess.

7. Consider a Co-sleeper crib/cot. Basically a co-sleeper is a bed sidecar. It means parents can keep their bed as the adult bed whilst keeping your child nearby for nursing and other nighttime needs. Your baby will get used to sleeping in his/her own space, without being too far off.  Arm's Reach seems to make the only co-sleeper and it may be tough to get your hands on one if you are outside the US.  Some may not like this idea as your baby's every move/grumble is likely to wake you.  Another more high-tech option is to buy yourself a baby monitor (which monitors sounds from another room) and then you can listen in or tune out depending on your preference at that time.

8. Daytime naps every 90 to 120 minutes. Babies should generally take a nap from every 1 1/2 to 2 hours during the day. The nap can last from 30 minutes to 2 to 3 hours, but should be in a normal room: maybe a crib/cot with all the general noise and light of the daytime. Remember this is a nap, not nighttime sleep.  Start this only after about 6 weeks and remember to put your baby on their back not just allow a sleep in other positions, also try to use the same cot as you use in the evenings so that your baby is more used to this space for sleeping. Infants may fight the nap for 10 to 15 minutes but with a little rocking, singing, or bouncing on a ball your child can nap well thereafter. These naps can help a lot for the nightime stretch.

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LibbyS
January 2008 | LibbyS
Re: Top ten ways to get your baby to sleep
Thanks for these tips!


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jd2
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | jd2
Re: Top ten ways to get your baby to sleep

Excellent my sons just got to the age were he likes there to be a certain amount of white noice as you call it, with warm weather he's become reliant upon the sound of the fan so mummys having to tk a recording now for when the fan is not required...lol infact we use all the techniques you have mentioned and they really do work i wish id read this sooner wld have saved alot of time with trail and error.

Hugs Jo xxx



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merlin0903
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | merlin0903
Re: Top ten ways to get your baby to sleep
great advice matthew,  there are some wonderful tips in there and i'm sure that they will help lots of new mums and dads out there


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safetymom
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | safetymom
Re: Top ten ways to get your baby to sleep
Also, one of the quickest and surest way of getting your baby to sleep is by maintaining a sleeping routine. Through this their bodies can adapt to the time difference, and feel that it is already time sleep.

A great fitted and comfortable baby furniture would most likely help your babies sleep through the night. At Baby Toy Town.com, you can find all sorts of baby furnitures and baby accessories that would fit your needs. Visit at: http://www.babytoytown.com for more details.


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haleysmom2007
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | haleysmom2007
Good advice
It was good advice, I am trying to find ways to retrain my 8 month old to sleep in her crib instead of with me and I can't stand to hear her cry for that long.


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TinaL
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | TinaL
White Noise is Essential!
I agree Matthew! I've found that using "white noise" calms our baby down, almost instantly. I'd recommend a CD or MP3 like the ones found here: www.thewhitenoisealbum.com We got one from this site and it works great. Plus it's only $4.99 for an hour of white noise (which you can loop for a full night if needed) and it works better than those expensive machines some baby stores are selling.


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      exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | exquisite-flower
White Noise is Essential!
On the occasions I used white noise I did the vacuuming in the rest of the house while she went off to sleep, by the time I was finished she was resting peacefully, also running the bath, using the washing machine and reading something 'boring' thus using a monotone to read ... this one was particularly useful in the early hours of the morning
Peace
EF.x 


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DragonEgg
4.41 (Good) | June 2006 | DragonEgg
Swaddling
In the hospital when our first was crying, the doctor came into the room and after checking her vitals proceeded to swaddle her.  The utter silence with his last tuck just floored us (which I'm sure he enjoys that reaction)! 

When we asked him to show us how he did that, he said "By the time you get good at it, you won't need to do it." but he showed us it.

He was right, by the time we got it figured out, we didn't need it so much anymore... but it has been a lifesaver with the other 2 (once we remembered)!


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mammyrebs
3.23 (Average) | April 2006 | mammyrebs
Well written
These are all the things i do myself and i have also learned a few new things such as the possitioner to help with reflux, this article was written well so that it is understandable to everyone


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Anonymous Member
3.20 (Average) | March 2006 | anonymous  
Scrogging
We found gentle scrogging to be quite effective in helping Gertrude fall asleep quickly.


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      matthew
3.18 (Average) | March 2006 | matthew
Re: Scrogging
Hmm - is scrogging like hugging? :) sorry but I don't know that one and google did not help me much...


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Anonymous Member
3.74 (Good) | March 2006 | anonymous  
But there are only eight ways listed???? I want the other two!!!
Can only think the author got disturbed by his baby crying before nine and ten happened?;-)


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      matthew
3.05 (Average) | March 2006 | matthew
Re: But there are only eight ways listed???? I want the other two!!!
LOL - good point - I left space for futher suggestions so the top ten is a bit of a marketing gimmick - apologies but I shall try to search for at least 2 more :)


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           ClayCook
3.03 (Average) | April 2006 | ClayCook
Re: But there are only eight ways listed???? I want the other two!!!
Still waiting for points 9 and 10 ;)


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rachelcook
3.18 (Average) | February 2006 | rachelcook
Cute pic
cute picture by the way, it's amazing how much you feel you have accomplished when you see your little one asleep. All the techniques are worth it.


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ClayCook
3.65 (Good) | February 2006 | ClayCook
Points 5 & 7
Point 5: Not sure I agree with the Baby positioner. According to some it is a concern regarding SIDS.

Point 7: Also with the co-sleeper, I wouldnt recommend this. Parents need their sleep and babies are quite noisy even when they are sleeping! :) What we did was buy a baby monitor. Only cost us $150 on ebay and we could watch and hear our baby (and control the volume level) from our bedroom.


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      matthew
3.41 (Average) | February 2006 | matthew
Re: Points 5 & 7
Got any reference for the SIDS concerns? Would like to write about it but I think that anything in the Crib/Cot is blamed for SIDS these days.

Will amend for the co-sleeper.

Thanks for the feedback


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           ClayCook
2.91 (Average) | February 2006 | ClayCook
Re: Points 5 & 7
I hear your point regarding SIDS, that a lot of things get blammed for being possible SIDS concern.

However I guess it is something that you can try minimize, so I believe it is worth doing anything in your control, especially when they are young. ie: Have very little in the crib/cot when they are young.


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ClayCook
3.75 (Good) | February 2006 | ClayCook
Use a watch
Matt - I really like this article.

In regards to not reacting to the baby crying, we definitely used control crying. What I found very useful was to make sure I used my watch. With a child crying, it appears like 15 minutes have passed... but in reality only 1 minute may have passed.

We would put Codi down... and if he was crying we would give him 10 minutes then re-settle him. Then we would increase the response time to 15 minutes, then 20 minutes and then 30 minutes. It wasnt long before he would only need to be re-settled once and then it wasnt long before he didnt need to be re-settled at all.

A watch is especially good for mothers, I believe a baby crying really pulls at their heart strings and they want to run in and help immediately. I really had to use my watch so that Rachel would know when we could go in and re-settle.

Hope this helps.

Clay


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      matthew
3.55 (Good) | February 2006 | matthew
Re: Use a watch
Thanks will add these thoughts to the list.

Not that the top ten list has only eight items so there is room for new idea too :)


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           rachelcook
3.52 (Good) | February 2006 | rachelcook
Re: Use a watch
hey guys funny thread. awesomme article, tried all this and most of it worked for us. Codi did have a little tummy/colic issue, so what I would do is roll up a towel and put it under the mattress, his head end and this would raise the mattress up slightly. This helped with Codi not lying flat but raised slightly. This also may help with the SIDS issue.


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