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I’m not a religious person – but this one really touched me

Tammy13 by Tammy13 Talking(September 2006) (rank 104th)

I recived this email from a friend, who passed me this article written by an American. I am not a religious person myself – but what he wrote touched me, and I wanted to share it with you. So here it is:

Subject: By Ben Stein   If they know of him at all, many folks think Ben Stein is just a quirky
actor/comedian who talks in a monotone. He's also a very intelligent
attorney who knows how to put ideas and words together in such a way as
to sway juries and make people think clearly.

The following was written by Ben Stein and recited by him on CBS Sunday
Morning Commentary, Sunday, 12/18/05.
 

Herewith at this happy time of year, a few confessions from my beating
heart: I have no freaking clue who Nick and Jessica are. I see them on
the cover of People and Us constantly when I am buying my dog bi scuits
and kitty litter. I often ask the checkers at the grocery stores.
They
never know who Nick and Jessica are either. Who are they? Will it change
my life if I know who they are and why they have broken up? Why are they
so important?
 
I don't know who Lindsay Lohan is either, and I do not care at all
about Tom Cruise's wife.
  
Am I going to be called before a Senate committee and asked if I am a
subversive? Maybe, but I just have no clue who Nick and Jessica are.
  
If this is what it means to be no longer young , it's not so bad.  

Next confession:   I am a Jew, and every single one of my ancestors was Jewish. And it
does not bother me even a little bit when people call those beautiful
lit up, bejeweled trees Christmas trees. I don't feel threatened. I
don't feel discriminated against. That's what they are: Christmas trees.
 
It doesn't bother me a bit when people say, "Merry Christmas" to me. I
don't think they are slighting me or getting ready to put me in a
ghetto. In fact, I kind of like it. It shows that we are all brothers
and sisters celebrating this happy time of year. It doesn't bother me at
all that there is a manger scene on display at a key intersection near
my beach house in Malibu. If people want a creche, it's just as fine
with me as is the Menorah a few hundred yards away.
I don't like getting pushed around for being a Jew, and I don't think
Christians like getting pushed around for being Christians. I think
people who believe in God are sick and tired of getting pushed around,
period. I have no idea where the concept came from that America is an
explicitly atheist country. I can't find it in the Constitution, and I
don't like it being shoved down my throat.
 

Or maybe I can put it another way: where did the idea come from that we
should worship Nick and Jessica and we aren't allowed to worship God as
we understand Him?
  I guess that's a sign that I'm getting old, too.  
But there are a lot of us who are wondering where Nick and Jessica came
from and where the America we knew went to.
 
In light of the many jokes we send to one another for a laugh, this is
a little different: This is not intended to be a joke; it's not funny,
it's intended to get you thinking.
 

Billy Graham's daughter was interviewed on the Early Show and Jane
Clayson asked her "How could God let something like this Happen?"
(regarding Katrina)
 
Anne Graham gave an extremely profound and insightful response. She
said, "I believe God is deeply saddened by this, just as we are, but for
years we've been telling God to get out of our schools, to get out of
our gover nment and to get out of our lives.
 
And being the gentleman He is, I believe He has calmly backed out. How
can we expect God to give us His blessing and His protection if we
demand He leave us alone?"
 

In light of recent events...terrorists attack, school shootings, etc. I
think it started when Madeleine Murray O'Hare (she was murdered, her
body found recently) complained she didn't want prayer in our schools,
and we said OK.
 
Then someone said you better not read the Bible in school . The Bible
says thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal, and love your neighbor
as yourself. And we said OK.
 
Then Dr . Benjamin Spock said we shouldn't spank our children when they
misbehave because their little personalities would be warped and we
might damage their self-esteem (Dr. Spock's son committed suicide). We
said an expert should know what he's talking about. And we said OK.
 

Now we're asking ourselves why our children have no conscience, why
they don't know right from wrong, and why it doesn't bother them to kill
strangers, their classmates, and themselves.
 
Probably, if we think about it long and hard enough, we can figure it
out. I think it has a great deal to do with "WE REAP WHAT WE SOW."
 

Funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then wonder why the
world's going to hell.
 
Funny how we believe what the newspapers say, but question what the
Bible says.
 
Funny how you can send 'jokes' through e-mail and they spread like
wildfire but when you start sending messages regarding the Lord, people
think twice about sharing.
 
Funny how lewd, crude, vulgar and obscene articles pass freely through
cyberspace, but public discussion of God is suppressed in the school and
workplace.
  Are you laughing?  

Funny how when you forward this message, you will not send it to many
on your address list because you're not sure what they believe, or what
they will think of you for sending it.
 
Funny how we can be more worried about what other people think of us
than what God thinks of us.
 
Pass it on if you think it has merit. If not then just discard it... no
one will know you did. But, if you discard this thought process, don't
sit back and complain about what bad shape the world is in
   

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jenaya04
May 5th | jenaya04
Re: I’m not a religious person – but this one really touched me

This is great and so true. I am not and have never been religious. Not because I have not wanted to but because I know nothing about religion. I have meny friends of all different religions and I like to hear about them but I dont feel that I need something like that in my life. I regards to life now compared to many years ago when religion played a bigger part, I would have to agree. People are less tollerant, much less respectful of religion, although I do think people should make their own choices...believe what you wish.



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cathbusymum
May 5th | cathbusymum
Re: I’m not a religious person – but this one really touched me

Couldn't agree more with his sentiments. I often wonder the exact same things.



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lexiw
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | lexiw
Re: I’m not a religious person – but this one really touched me

I think this is a lovely article thankyou for sharing

 Lexi xxx



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JadieLady
3.33 (Average) | October 2006 | JadieLady
Nice sentiment
It is a lovely sentiment, and it really makes sense. I just don't really think it belongs in 'advice' , be better on your blog i think.


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      Tammy13
3.80 (Good) | October 2006 | Tammy13
Nice sentiment
You're probably right - I've published it here in my first days in Minti, and just wanted to share this with all. understanding Minti more now, I probably would have blogged it. Oh well - no harm done.


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Tammy13
3.80 (Good) | September 2006 | Tammy13
THANK YOU ALL!
JUST WANTED TO THANK EVERYONE WHO TOOK THE TIME TO READ THIS AND COMMENT!  IT IS GREAT TO KNOW, THAT ON A GENERAL BASIS, WE ALL FEEL THE SAME! HAVE A GREAT DAY!


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Considering
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | Considering
Hmmm

Agree with the references to political correctness gone mad but Anne Graham's comment that God was a gent and backed out of our lives (because we asked him to) and therefore wasn't there to protect the poor people from Hurricane Katrina sounds like a crazy justification.

Also think the reference to poor Benjamin Spock was a little below the belt. The man lost a son. The fact that he didn't believe in beating your kids, quite frankly, is admirable.



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      winniesanders
September 2007 | winniesanders
Re: Hmmm
Sorry to butt in,however I felt I just had to clear up an urban myth. Dr Benjamin Spock has two sons,both alive and well. It was his grandson who so sadly took his own young life,on 25th dec 1983.Again apoligies for butting in.Luv Winnie.


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michellei
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | michellei
I’m not a religious person – but this one really touched me
We as a community all have to take responsibility for our actions and how they will effect others.

It is so hard to do these days as kids know their right and governments stick there noses in to too many places.

The chidren we bring forth in to this world should have grace and compassion for all - maybe we can teach them that or have we forgotten?

Very thought provoking


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elizabeth
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | elizabeth
We need more people like this.

Articles like this give me reason to believe that we as a "human" race can change things for the better. We just need to learn how to work along side and with eachother. We don't have to give up what we believe in, nor do we have to force others to comply with our beliefs. Thanks Tammy.



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mewannaboy
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | mewannaboy
yes i know
i really cant think of thing im kind of silently stunned.


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tinker79
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | tinker79
I agree
 How true!! I am not  a religious person either.  But I do believe in things in my own way.  We have to teach our children right  from wrong for the better well being  of the world. If us as parents don't,  who will?


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allyp
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | allyp
I'm not either.
I'm not a religious person either but i do agree with you and it touched me to. It's nice that you posted that! :)


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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | Jessgore
I agree as well....

Every point he made was a great one.... 



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ClanMiller
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | ClanMiller
HOW TRUE
I haven't read something as true or as thought provoking since my father retired from the ministry. I have always been a fan of Ben Stein and knew he was one smart cookie. It's nice to see someone of note not afraid to speak about God and share their beliefs. God bless!! If it is possible could you email that to me so that I may pass it on to my friends and family? Thank you


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yularaangel
4.58 (Excellent) | September 2006 | yularaangel
I agree

As a Christian I have seen this in many schools that i have been in. No wonder why the world is in such a mess.

Love thy neightbour.

Don't Steal

Don't murder

simple to us, but some people just don't get the concept of what you sow you reap.

If I plant sunflowers I expect sunflower not sweetpeas. If we continually sow negatives to our children then what else do you expect from them.



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