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Getting Things Done (a bit at a time)

Frontier by Frontier Young Parent(September 2006) (rank 23rd)
Some jobs just seem to never get done. We promise we will get around to it bit we never do. Sometimes we get the job and before we know it it is time to do it again but we don't have time because we have all these other jobs we have to that we have been putting off. There is too much to do and not enough time to do it! Oh well, I will just watch TV this afternoon and make a start on cleaning up the laundry tomorrow. The kitchen will have to wait until next week, so what if this what I said last week and the week before. Nobody looks at the dirty air vent of those stains on the carpet anyway - except me of course, ...... every week.

Does this sound familiar?

It was me 4 years ago when I began my career as a stay at home dad. After leaving the work force to look after my 2 boys and the house i thought it could not be much different to running the multi million dollar department I was charged with in my job.

I soon discovered that without a routine I would get nowhere so I created a routine.
I soon discovered that with a newborn and a toddler  a routine is a loose term for swimming through your chores as best you can.
I soon decided it was not going to be a cake walk and those DVD's I wanted to watch would have to wait (lets watch the Wiggles again instead) until I get the house cleaned.

I gave up cleaning the house in one day and broke it up into segments that would be completed each day. Bathroom Tuesday, Floors Monday, Thursday and everytime theres was a spillage, Windows and mirrors Thursday and so on. This way I found it much easier to keep the house clean and achieve other chores (gardening decluttering) and then by chance I came across a website that it all even easier.
I followed the guides on the Flylady website recommend it to anyone having trouble getting things done and to everyone for ideas of parts of the house we seem to forget about. Visit the Flylady Website Here.
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JadieLady
October 2006 | JadieLady
sounds great
My partner and I actually hvea very slight roster printed up and put on the fridge. basically it says what we need to get done each day, and so that noone can't do what they are supposed to because we both run out of time and one of us needs to be with bubs, I have put when so and so is doing this, the other erson could be doing...... baby friendly chores basically.  it has been a great help in getting us more orgnaised.


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MumKim
September 2006 | MumKim
Thankyou for the Flylady website
Frontier
Thankyou for the Flylady website. I read your advice about a week and a half ago and signed up with Flylady. I am making babysteps and gradually taking it on.
I am 3rd generation domestically challenged so I have a long way to go but I feel like I am actually on my way. Thanks


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mcm
4.50 (Excellent) | September 2006 | mcm
Housework
I had someone say to me, " When do you do your washing?" as if I do it all in one day! I said I do a little every day. Its the only way especially when you have 3 children and so many things to do every day. I doubt ignoring the kids for a whole day to catch up on house work will work!
Plus the house work is never done...
Now my big kids are quite helpful. I tell them if they want me to help them, they have to help me. So they tidy after themselves and they have the main job of tidying the loungeroom every night (mostly putting toys where they belong).


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Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | Izzy
routine

Absolutely.. gone are the days when you can clean your house in a day.  

I also don't get to watch any TV programs I used to love watching so I got a DVR. I tape my shows and watch them when I can - inbetween teh Wiggles, Doodlebops and Sesame Street.    OR when my son has finally gone to sleep, I watch my shows instead of doing chores.



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allyp
4.08 (Good) | September 2006 | allyp
Thats right

Tha'ts right. I agree. I would remember putting it off because I would rather take are of my newborn and be close to her. But now that she's older, I do have schedule on housework. Expecially when my husband come's home from working(he works out of town) I get him to take care of our daughter and I do alot of cleaning. Expecially laundry, doing his and mine and then our daughters! But it works out great when it's broken down over days.

Good advice



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wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | wildrose
House works
House works are the things that will never finish. It's not like where we work at office Mon-Fri, 8am - 5pm. It's a 24/7 duty. You have to make a schedule (well you might get away from it sometime, just to break your routine). It's always good too, to share your house works with the family member who live in the same roof. Let's say if you the one who cook, your partner will do the dishes. I also have the rule that no one could leave their dirty laundry in their room/bathroom. It has to be straight away put in washing basket, ready for me to do the laundry. So, basically, little help from each person would be a big help for whoever do the houseworks.


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