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Toddlers are People Too

PantherSue by PantherSue Walking(September 2006) (rank 500+)

The other day I was out in a crowded area of a mall, and watched a young mother angerally addressing her little guy for bumping into people as she tried to maneuvre through the crowd. I felt so sorry for the little guy and wished "mom" would have stopped

to take a minute to see life through his little eyes.

All a toddler sees in a crowd is the back of peoples knees and tushes. What a view. No wonder little ones get fidgety when mom or dad is stopped to look at something or is trying to walk through a crowd. Imagine if all you ever saw was his/her viewpoint. Plus adults seem to forget that for every one step we take, the little ones are taking 3 or 4 to keep up.

My advice to anyone with toddlers. Take the time, at home sometime, get down on your knees and view the world through your little ones eyes. It will truely give you a new prospective on things, hey its also a good way to notice the unseen dangers lurking in your home that you would have never noticed if not for this little exercise.

Remember, the world is seen by everyone differently, especially the little folks.

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wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | wildrose
Be in their shoes
I think some people forgot they were kids before. I saw many adults who were not giving any respect to small children. If there were a machine that could make them be in little children shoes, wonder how they feel. They way I treat little children is by thinking I am small as they are. It's unpleasant sometime when we're on their level, everything seem so tall and high. But this day, you can't expect much from people out there, I suppose you just have to be extra careful and protective with your own children.


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mcm
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | mcm
Toddlers
Its so true that toddlers are often not respected. I dislike how people wont address my son. They will ask me rather than him. He is so aware and I think it upsets him and he says people 'don't like me' He has severe eczema and ppl talk about it in front of him. He knows he has eczema! Maybe that is why ppl don't talk to him.
I think its a great idea to be conciderate of how they are feeling even though I also understand how parents feel.


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hrs2004
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | hrs2004
Toddlers

My daughter is tiny and often too busy looking at things to notice all the people around, after all, there are cars and cats and walls and birds and trees and lorries and ... to look at! She regularly gets in people's way, even though I try and keep her at my side. Shes is not quite 2 1/2, though, and I want her to have some freedom and she needs to get walking as much as possible. A few times she has been sent flying by people who just haven't spotted her. One guy almost walked straight over her, knocking her backwards; luckily he caught her just before her head hit the pavement.  

It makes me angry when people don't apologise to children or thank them for letting them pass, because children are people too, and need to learn manners. So, I agree completely with you. Toddlers should be taught to try and avoid people (not shouted at) but everyone should understand what they go through, too!



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rusha
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | rusha
Poor Guy!
Poor guy...it's not easy being short and he probably didn't mean to bump into anyone! I will keep this in mind.


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Neeters
4.00 (Good) | September 2006 | Neeters
Toddlers are people too
Great advice.  We took our toddler to an airshow this past weekend and I made sure I picked her up a lot so she could see what was going on.  She also loves to ride on my shoulders and it helps tremendously.


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rkcrtbrown
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | rkcrtbrown
Toddlers
Thanks!!! Having three toddlers, i am most of the time on the ground playing with them. Excellent Article!!!


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angelmum
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | angelmum
Toddlers are People Too
I think as adults we should be watching who we are bumping into especially little kids not the other way around.  I teach my kids to say excuse me or sorry if it happens but they certainly don't get in trouble for it.


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