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School aged 3

exquisite-flower by exquisite-flower Young Parent(September 2006) (rank 9th)

At the moment I am spending half an hour each day with my daughter working on 'school' things.  Alphabet, Numbers, Date, Time, Seasons, Month, Day of the week for starters.  So we started with her name two weeks ago.  She has cracked it already!  She loves her school

time and each day we try to do something different.  She is three, so will be starting shcool in one years time. (Here in the UK the school year starts in September - go figure).  We have massive bright posters which I get out each morning with the months, days and numbers on them.  Each day she tells me which month it is and which day of the week we are on.  There are some that are always on the wall with numbers, colours and alphabets also which we use for backup - but she is so used to seeing them that I will have to attach them to card and make them into decent posters which can be presented on occasion as opposed to always being available.

At the moment we are using one of her toys which is a school bus and has letters and numbers on it.  We are learning the letter sounds and names as well as the numbers.  We also 'join-the-dots' for the letters, so that she does a written part to her work also.  Because we only do a half hour each day it is generally concentrating on one activity only.  It has been great for her concentration levels and she has absorbed much more than I realised.  (she shows off to my family)She has known the alphabet song for about a year now and it is beginning to make some real sense to her. 

My parents have a couple of spelling games here which we have been doing this week while we have been here.  But I have nothing like this at home and have as yet found nothing in the childrens shops - I may have to borrow their games.  We also have this simple math game at home that uses interlocking bears as counters so do addition and subtraction.  The cards that come with the game are far to advanced for E yet.  But next week I have planned to start some 'one plus one equals two' and see if we get anywhere.  

I am a bit clueless as to what is appropriate and what is too advanced for her.  Or even what is required for when they start school.  When I started Kindy I had to know certain things - and here in the UK nursery seems to be an option.  Also with us moving soon I have just taken her out of her nursery school where she was learning great social skills but I am loathe (since plans have changed slightly) to put her in just anywhere as I dont want her moving moving moving all the time and getting unsettled from new friends always.  So this school scheme seems to be working on a few levels.  I just dont want to push her too hard, or teach her things that are no way what she should be learning at this age to the neglect of something else.

The main reason we have started doing this is because I noticed she was having trouble concentrating and devoting time to activities - especially if she found them unstimulating, which was often the educational ones.  She adores her telephone convos and putting dollies to bed, but there was little variation or stretching of the imagination in these games.  So i thought that if we started learning and accomplishing things at least I would have a target to work towards and she would benefit properly. 

Peace
EF.x 
(I hope all this makes sense and that it inspires others to also do concentrated sessions as planned study times)

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LibbyS
November 2007 | LibbyS
Re: School aged 3

Good ideas! Can I be selfish and plug my website, lots of great maths activities for parents to do at home.



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exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | exquisite-flower
Update: Helping out in Reception
In the past month or two I have been helping out in the reception class at the school where E will be going in September.  The class I am in is the class she will be in and the teacher and the classroom assistant are the ones she will have.  I am very happy about this as I appreciate the way they work together and they style is similar to the one I have employed at home. 

The children have learnt how to write their own names this year, how to type their names, how to colour in - mostly between the lines, and how to listen to instructions.  They recognise all the numbers from 1-10 and some can do more too.  Each day they are taught simple words and how to work them out for themselves.  Some children even read books out loud. 

As a result I am reassured with what I have done here at home, and I am happy that E will be competent next year and that if she is at all ahead that she will be encouraged instead of being allowed to become disruptive through boredom. 
Peace
EF.x 


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hermy
4.00 (Good) | March 2007 | hermy
school
ryan is 21 months i am not as far as the months and add & sub.....but i have thought him several things when i ask him his name he answers ryan....i ask how old are you  he ans.one and puts one finger up i ask where do you live he ans...dapto....we count and he now can count to 10...you hear him sometimes when he is playing he is counting he does it quite well we have alphabet cards with pictures on them and he knows them all even xylophone....we have cards with sea animals and he knows them all.....we have started with colours and he is doing well he starting to get blue red and green right most of the time he still need work with the others........it is so important to spend this time with them.......your advice is great and very important very well done........


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      exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | exquisite-flower
school
Thank you.  E is now 4, and still instigates her own learning speed and topics.  We have moved onto simple math - addition and take away (subtraction).  Reading simple words that she can sound out the letters for and so on.  Telling the time etc.  I have started helping one morning a week in the local school reception class and she does many things that they do there, so I know that she will fit in fine when she goes to school. 

Keep up the good work and encourage your child, but just allow him to go at his own pace as well,because it moves so much faster then.
Peace
EF.x 


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           hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | hermy
school
ryan trully enjoys the learning ....yes i do it at his own pace....he enitiates it all....he will ask for his cards, and then we begin......thanks


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MadMel
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | MadMel
school time for 3 year olds
what a great idea. I love it! I will start this tomorrow with Jaidan and Chase starting with their names also!


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      exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | exquisite-flower
school time for 3 year olds
How are they doing with it? 

I am still only doing a half hour each day with E, numbers or letters.  I dont want to take away from what she will learn at school - but I dont want to hold her back either.  Sometimes we play shopping instead, she sets everything up, and all the copper money I get goes into her money box.  So I raid it and give her some real money, then I give her real prices and she has to count out the right money for me.  It is good for math, but also for money awareness. 
Peace
EF.x 


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RebeccaDorant
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | RebeccaDorant
just a thought
have you considered home schooling it sounds like you have laid a good foundation for it already and it would be a shame to just hand it off to a teacher who cannot tailor the lessons to suit your obviously intelegent daughter. you might find she gets board in kindy. i dont know about the uk but here in oz our kindy programs require little prep work by the parents and are basicly about socalisation and art  and although these skills keep 25 plus children from tareing the teacher apart ,they provide less mental stimulation and life skils for the children than you can provide with you half hour at home.


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      exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | exquisite-flower
just a thought
Before she was born i looked into home schooling and decided that if there was ever a need to do it I would.  As it turns out she is registered with a real good school and one I intend to get involved with as a parent and maybe as an employee when they expand depending on what they offer when they expand. 

The schools in our area are improving, and if that is the case then I have decided to send her to the school.  I can encourage her from home, we have a good learning environment here and that is just who I am, so I cant see that it will change much. 

Giving serious consideration to your suggestion right now i am confident in the decision I have made and appreciate the boost that you have given me in my ability to take over should I ever decide that the schooling was not right for her.  Currently our local high school is below par, and unless i take her private it looks like I will be home schooling from 11 years old, but we may move town, or the school may improve so who knows what will happen.  When she was born there was not even a decent primary school in this area!

Thank you
Peace
EF.x 


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mumof1girl
3.00 (Average) | January 2007 | mumof1girl
school time

 

Even though my daughter will be 4 in March, i've already started to teach her all this in the school holiday's. She's been going to kindy since she was 2, and she love's it as much as your child does. Good luck with the teaching, and it's a great thing what you're doing with your child too. It's a bonding time also i think.



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      exquisite-flower
January 2007 | exquisite-flower
school time
Thanks, i hope that time you spend learning with your daughter will be as rewarding as the time i put into mine.  It is truly amazing
Peace
EF.x 


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MumKim
4.07 (Good) | September 2006 | MumKim
Pre literacy activities

It sounds like you are doing a great job and are really developing your daughers attention and concentration (and giving her a love of learning). That in itself is an excellent foundation for school and life in general.
Some important pre literacy activities in addition to what you have already mentioned include rhyming (early rhyming ability has been found to be a good indicator of later literacy success), hearing sounds in words (start with first sounds) and oral story telling. You may like to check out some of the articles on minti on these topics. 



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      exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | exquisite-flower
Pre literacy activities
Thank you for this comment!  I will certainly look at what else has been written on here.  She does love rhyming and often makes up her own, or has a big giggle when someone rhymes and she realises first.  It is fun.  I am trying to work out a plethora of activities and games that cover as many things as possible.  We did a nature trail by accident the other day which was interesting to say the least, and something she keeps on referring back to so often - and it was just as we walked to the shops on the other side of the reservoir!
EF.x   


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michellei
4.07 (Good) | September 2006 | michellei
School
I don't think you can teach your child enough. If she is enjoying what you are doing now- keep it up. She will soon tell you when she's had enough.

Well done for presenting learning is such a fun & innovative way


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Jessgore
4.53 (Excellent) | September 2006 | Jessgore
Great stuff...

It is great that you are making learning fun.... And that you only do it half hour a day as children still need to be children... It is fantastic that she enjoys it.   I find that is the hardest with my step daughter, when she has homework how to make it fun for her to want to concerntrate and want to to a better job (she is 10 now but this has been an issue ever since she started school).. I wish I had the same for me. I did not enjoy my learning very much and my spelling is horrid now, and math.. Ahhh don't even ask....   

I believe the more fun the learning the more kids will take in.. That is great sounds like your daughter will do well.....



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