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Make helping with dishes easy!

travelgirl8 by travelgirl8 Talking(September 2006) (rank 131st)
As I was unpacking our kitchen in the new house 6 months ago, I did something that I am ever so grateful for. I gave the little man his own cupboard down low. My aunt had done this in their HUGE kitchen for some toys, extra diapers, etc... But, in our small kitchen I made it his own cupboard with his own dishes. He was very excited about this from the beginning and now helping with the dishes has become routine - and even exciting for him to pick out if he's going to eat on Spiderman or Spongebob.

I encourage him to get out his own bowl for cereal in the morning - and he has his own slot in our utensil drawer for just his. He will also get his own plate, cup, etc.. for dinner.

And I've been able to expand putting away just his dishes, to all of the silverware AND since he bakes/cooks with me often he can usually put the mixing bowls, measuring cups - all the non-breakables away. He knows where more stuff goes in the kitchen than his father does. (And when I'm gone the little man usually tells his dad where everything goes - haha)

I almost always emtpty the dishwasher with him, so it also becomes fun time spent together. And I believe it is teaching him independence as well as learning how to take care of himself.

His aunt recently moved in with us, and because she was so much younger than Aaron, she was basically raised as an only child. Now, so was I so what can I say here... but somehow I DID learn responsibility and how to take care of myself. This was her first time moving away from home (and her mother). Without being too harsh - she was clueless. Didn't know how to do laundry, doesn't know to at least offer to help with dinner, set-up or clean up... etc. etc. This is something I want to avoid. And by making it fun, hopefully it will continue throughout his life.
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LaRenae
October 2006 | LaRenae
Jacob loves cabinets
We just moved and Jacob loves cabinets .... Nothing harmful is stored in the bottom cabinets that he can reach ... He so loves pulling out the harmless pots and pans on his own ... I spend all day putting things  back ,,, but Jacob loves it so !


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tinker79
October 2006 | tinker79
We do this too.

It teaches them so much all at once. My 3 yr old loves to put the utensils away. It is his chore to do. He learns matching, sorting, resposiblitiy and pride in knowing that it was a job well done.

He also has his own dishes and matching utensils. He loves eating off of Spiderman and Bob-the-Builder.



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Emsmom
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Emsmom
Great idea!
Thats a really good Idea!! Thank you!   My daughter is starting to push chairs and stols around the kitchen so that she can "DO IT MYSELF" I don't know why I never thought to make her, her own cupboard!!!


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dolphins30
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | dolphins30
Miss3 does the same

Miss3 is always helping me out in the kitchen like your child does. I think it's great that they do it. It's teaching them also with out them realising it, that it's a chore to do, but i also make it fun for my daughter, and she enjoys doing it too, as she gets to put her own things away, and other things too, and make her feel special when she puts some thing of mine or of her dad's things away like a glass in the fridge etc.



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michellei
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | michellei
Dishes
I beleive it's never to early to teach kids about responsibility, your advice sounds great for the younger kids - to get them involved & help out.


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      Jessgore
4.38 (Good) | September 2006 | Jessgore
Dishes

I'll be doing this with Francis.... My parents  friend has a little girl. Not so little any more... But she was always very helpful.
My dad tells me one day the men were having a BBQ at their house to watch the AFL... And the little girl was with them. She was 8 at the time... She helped them, even offered to get them drinks. She believe it or not while no one was watching cleaned up after they ate their lunch while they were watching the football. Dad says they basically turned around to find every thing clean dishes done.  Dad said he looked at her and said "Can I ask you a questions?" She said "yes"

Dad asked " will you marry me!" Her answer was so funny..... "NO and don't think you are the first person to ask".. A classic. But she was such and probably still is a great kid.....



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bubba76
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | bubba76
great
l just thought l would say l have been doing that with my kids for 13 years now, they love having a kids cupboard and they even do there own dishes now and put them away to my suprize a teen doing dishes. my youngest out of 4 boys is 3 and he likes to get out and put away.


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candie81
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | candie81
helping with the dishes

I just want to tell you that this idea is fantastic and it seems to be working for you. I am going to give it a go with my girls.

Thanks so much!



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      rachelcook
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | rachelcook
helping with the dishes
YES thank YOU! what a great idea...and they do feel a sense of importance and responsibility...feeling a part of the family too!! will give it a go :0)


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