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post baby booty curves! LOVE ME LOVE MY ASS!

bleshu by bleshu Talking Back(September 2006) (rank 78th)

Clothes shopping used to be my favourite hobby.  Last yr, when we decided to try for a baby I wanted to lose some weight first.  I was 81kg and lost 10kg taking me sown to about 70kg on a good day.  I was soooo proud of myself!  I

took myself shopping to celebrate as my usual size 14 clothes were hanging and sagging.  I was most unimpressed when I would try on clothes and realised I hadn't gone down in size, I was still a size 14!  I palmed it off and though that maybe as I gained weight before I must have stretched my clothes.

Well, 12 months later I have a 2month old baby and I have lost most of my baby weight (except the jelly belly) so I am now the same weight I was before my pre pregnancie diet 80ish kg.  I have once again found my size 16 clothes abit saggy and baggy and my pre pregnant clothes fit everywhere except the baby belly was stopping me from doing them up.  So off I went again to do some shopping assuming that I would be able to fit into a size 14 in shops like Target and sussans and maybe a 14-16 in my favourite shop "just jeans".  I went into Just jeans to find 1 pair of size 16 pants in the whole shop!!  I tried on 14s aswell because the pants I was wearing that day was from just jeans 12months previous and they were a size 14 and fit quite comfortably.  The new pants I was trying on in the shop, however, I couldnt even get them up over my thighs!!!  I thought it was a joke.  The one pair of 16 jeans i tried on were still a little snug!  I couldnt believe it!  The woman that worked there actually said to me "maybe you would be better off going to Target"!!!!!  I could have taken her head off with my post pregnancie hormones!

I went to Target the other day and tried on a pair of 14's and they are slightly too big, but still very comfortable.  So in just jeans I was barely squeezing into a 16 and Target size 14pants were too big!  Can any please explain to me how, in a nation that is sooooo concerned that their people are too fat, the sizes keep shrinking???  And if you go into a shop and the first sizes they are sold out of are 14's and 16's, why do they stock in majority size 8's and 10's???

So after my big whinge and sooky dance my advice to all you ladies who need new clothes after having a baby is this..............  Forget sizes and labels and narky stick creature shopping assistants and go for clothes that fit.  Love the skin your in!  For so many yrs I would refuse to go up a size and instead I would kill my self trying to loose weight when all the while they are shrinking our clothes just incase we dont already feel bad enough about our bodies.  We aren't all no ass, no curve, Brats doll look alikes!  I like my body and my curves (sooooo does my husband) I just wish these shops would realise that real women like nice clothes too.  I shouldnt have to wear clothes like baggy t-shirts and elasticised pants that hide my curves just because it makes skinny chicks insecure.

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Ravenheart
January 2008 | Ravenheart
Re: post baby booty curves! LOVE ME LOVE MY ASS!

i went from being 43kg before my first to being 68 now, preg with my third... im much happier in a size 12 then a size 8... great advice

xoxo



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lexiw
September 2007 | lexiw
Re: post baby booty curves! LOVE ME LOVE MY ASS!

Great advice I agree

 lexi xxx



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madchanny
November 2006 | madchanny
love me love my ass!

before i fell pregnant i was a size 9/10 i used to shop for my jeans at central lane, now the jeans there are sooo weird! i try on a 14 and half of my ass hangs out of them!, i made a terrible mistake, i ran in last week and grabbed a pair of jeans size 14, that looked high cut, i tried them on and half of my ass was hanging out of them aswell!

stupid 'twig' wouldnt give me a refund, i just argued and argued, still she refused. i told her the reason she cant sell the jeans (she shop was packed full of them) was because the majority of women have a thing called an ass.

in the end i exchanged for some tops



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Floyd-Man
November 2006 | Floyd-Man
Love me Love my Ass

The BIG difference between you and the "Bitch Sticks" that work in those shops. . . you are a WOMAN, kid, curves and all. :-) Take full advantage of the savings you will make by buying from the "True size" shops like Target, K-mart, etc. (Thought to keep you smiling, your 'hubby' lurves your curves and so therefor wouldn't leave you if you got 1 or 2 more, where as miss "Bitch Stick" would go into 'melt down' & 'get nothing' for a Month if she gained 500gm.

P.S. My Desi finds comfy, affordable, curve friendly cloths at a chain called 16/26. :-)

Floyd Man. :-)



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Chrysalis
November 2006 | Chrysalis
Yay you go girl
good for you. You are absolutely right- there is no need to feel bad- enjoy yourself as you are and enjoy life


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neveradullmoment
October 2006 | neveradullmoment
love me love my ass

Thumbs up to you, I'm sick of the whole anorexic budgie look myself. Nowadays I've lost a bit compared to the photo and I'm a 12 to 14 that according to my friend (HMPH!) I should be a 10 tops. I say to her if she's on the weight watchers bandwagon more power to ya but I like my pleasantly plump for a person of my height figure quite frankly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I may add I don't need a blinkin point system to shed the kilos I eat what I want when I want and I'm happy within myself. 



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JadieLady
October 2006 | JadieLady
clothes
I still wear my maternity clothes- they are comfortable and my pre pregnancy clothes  would never fit me again as i had lost  a large amount of weight immediately before falling pregnant. so preggy clothes it is for me. and you know what? I DONT CARE!    :)


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bleshu
September 2006 | bleshu
hope
well ladies, lets just hope the designers and super stores hear our plea's, it would be in their best interests.


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KileeGiles
September 2006 | KileeGiles
You are so right
I used to work in a woman's boutique, the owner was also the designer and she had her own seamstresses.  She went the other way, she made all her sizes too big so a 12 was really a 14.  She sold heaps of clothes that way.  I agree on the inconsistancy though, it drives me crazy that I have to try everything on to see if it fits.  It makes shopping few and far between with a 2 year old who doesn't see the fun in hanging out in dressing rooms.  There is only so many times she can go through my purse and pull open the curtain at the most inopportune time.


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      bleshu
September 2006 | bleshu
You are so right
I had the same Idea as the lady you worked for! haha Im forever telling my husband that if designers made there clothes to fit properly or even a size up they would make heaps more sales, as women LOVE to shop, its just nature I rekon but we dont like feeling fat, so it cancels out our urge to buy things.


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michellei
September 2006 | michellei
post baby booty curves! LOVE ME LOVE MY ASS!
I think that as a whole they need to update the sizing guide, we can't keep getting compared to what we were in the 50's & 60's.

In some shops I am 16 in other I am 18 & some I've been a twenty (needless to say I didn't shop there).

Big t'shirts it is for me to hide the jelly belly, nothing really nice out there at the moment.


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Jessgore
4.00 (Good) | September 2006 | Jessgore
post baby booty curves! LOVE ME LOVE MY ASS

Sizes vary from store to country.. LOL I agree go with what fits and whats comfortable... LOL  I have a thin waist but a big butt.. I find these days it is so hard to find a pair of jeans that are not hip huggers.. Oh I have the hips for them... But the belly hangs over the top.. And to me that is just sooooo unatractive... :)



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      bleshu
September 2006 | bleshu
post baby booty curves! LOVE ME LOVE MY ASS
Im with you Jess.... nothing worse than the muffin top!


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