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Abuse
I am so very glad that you saw the signs of abuse and had the courage to take action before that abuse affected your children! Growing up in the lifestyle that you did often creates low self esteem in the children and they tend to feel that the kind of relationship that their mother had is also what they deserve! my Mom was also in an abusive relationship with my father, and stayed with him until he died! She put up with mental verbal and physical abuse all of her married life! I personally had to at a very early age, steel myself against my fathers drunken rages, while he beat me he wasn't beating my mother. I would never lay a hand on my children in anger,! You are a role model for hundreds of women who believe that there is nothing better for them or their children! What you did took more guts than you might realize! Your Mom however is still in her relationship because of the fear that has been instilled in her by your father! Stay strong and give your kids lots of hugs and kisses every day let them know how much you love them, and through your love they will grow to be strong, beautiful, caring people. Please also remember that not all guys are like the one you left, you are a strong, caring,beautiful young women and somewhere out there is a man who will love you for who you are. When you lest expect it you will find him.
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Related keywords: abuse, abusive, alcoholic, drunken, freedom, independence, separation
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