minti, powered by parents Powered by Parents
First Visit?     Register     Login
 

This site gets better with user participation. Please participate... Some of the main things you can do is rate this advice, add comments to this advice, add links to and from this advice, and/or write your own advice.

  email  print
  report   
Like this topic?
Write Advice
Add to Favorites
Advice that links to this one
ADVICE RATING
 (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) 4.74 (Highly recommend) from 32 votes (3013 Visits)

Big Brother/ Big Sister Gifts

tinker79 by tinker79 Talking Back(October 2006) (rank 84th)

Have you ever thought about how your other kids feel when you bring the ''new baby'' home and everyone gives the baby gifts. And more than likely no one brings them anything? ( I know it depends on the ages of the your other kids)

 I didn't want

my kids to feel any remorse or  not feel as special to me and the baby. When my last child was born my kids were only 8 and 2. Here is what I did for my own kids.  I made them Big Brother/ Big Sister Gifts.

When I was pregnant  I made cards for  my  older kids. I put  the titles like '' so you are the big sister or big  brother''. Than on the inside I put ''I picked you to be my big brother or my big sister. Love your baby  ( baby's name). My kids loved them and were so proud of them. 

Than  I also made ''thank-you cards from the baby''  , adding a foot print of baby's and than later doing a foot print of the child that I gave it to . The thank-you cards also had thing like Thank -you for being my big sister/ brother. I know you will teach me lots. Play with me lots. etc. Love your baby brother/sister.   My daughter still has her up on the wall of her room.  I bought some gift bags and put little things in there like gift-cards for a store they like. A couple of new shirts, or an outfit. So new cars and trucks for my son, some lipgloss, backpack chains etc for my daughter. I also went and bought plain white coffee cups and some paint. I painted I am the Big Sister/ Big brother on them. The date that baby was born underneath it.   I also tied some balloons on the gift bags, just for extra fun for the kids.

When I brought baby home, people were stopping by to see baby and dropping gifts off for the baby. So that is when I  decided to  give the Big Sister and Big Brother gifts  to my children.  I told them  that the ''stork'' brought these gifts for you from your new baby The kids had so much fun opening them and saying thank-you to the baby. It was so much fun seeing their faces when they had someting to open that was for them, and not just the baby . It was so nice to see them explain to our guests that the baby gave them. Make them feel proud and special for being a Big Brother or Big Sister!! 

My kids enjoyed it and I hope your kids do too.

Hope you enjoy ! Remember to use your imagination for you Big Sister/ Big Brother Gifts!!!

Any contributed content above is the subjective opinion of that member or external author, and not of Minti.com Pty Ltd. If you are searching for health related advice we strongly suggest you seek professional medical support. View our Terms of Service for more details.

Related Content:

Bookmarks:

ADVICE RATING
 (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) (Highly recommend) 4.74 (Highly recommend) from 32 votes
Report

Thankyou for your vote (you can change your vote at any time). Please leave some helpful comments about this advice using the box below.

ExcellentExcellentExcellentExcellentExcellent
GoodGoodGoodGoodGood
AverageAverageAverageAverageAverage
PoorPoorPoorPoorPoor
Very PoorVery PoorVery PoorVery PoorVery Poor

Voting help


 
Add a comment on this article.

 

Marlena
February 2007 | Marlena
Great idea
That sounds like a good idea, I will  for sure that for my son when the baby arrives.  Thanks for the advice


Reply Reply Report
mandymum3
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | mandymum3
cute
how sweet


Reply Reply Report
kseers
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | kseers
A Lovely Idea
What a great idea.  I gave my son a gift from the baby but you have made the extra effort to make it really special!


Reply Reply Report
MadMel
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | MadMel
Excellent!
I tell everyone this! And when I go to visit a new baby I make sure there is something nice for the older siblings :) It's a fantastic idea !


Reply Reply Report
      tinker79
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | tinker79
Excellent!
well thanks for the comment and I am glad you like the idea!


Reply Reply Report
Tadexpress
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | Tadexpress
I agree
And its not just parents who could take this on board, I do this when friends have babies, it doesnt have to be a big thing just something so the kids dont get lost in the crush :-) and I also make sure theres something for mum and dad thats not baby related after all they're special also. Gift baskets can be put together easily and cheaply these days and look great when they are for the whole family :-)


Reply Reply Report
      tinker79
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | tinker79
I agree
Yes something for everyone is a great idea for becoming a family! Thanks for the comment!


Reply Reply Report
cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | cazza
sister\brother gifts.
WE did the same with our children,and we still contiue to do it on their bdays while they are little.


Reply Reply Report
tunky
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | tunky
What we did
We didn't get a gift from the baby as such, because we felt we didn't want to speak or act on the child's behalf. But, what we did do, was we gave our daughter the job of going with her dad to the hospital's shop and choosing an 'it's a boy' balloon for him. Then her and her father went to a nearby shop for her to choose a celebratory treat because  it was such a special day. It worked very well for her.


Reply Reply Report
rachelcook
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | rachelcook
Idea
What a great idea!!!!! I am printing this one out - lol


Reply Reply Report
tracey
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | tracey
GREAT

Yes, this is so important! Some family and friends brought my oldest daughter gifts to the baby shower. It made her feel so special. When we were in the hospital (after delivering the new baby) we gave my oldest a gift from her new baby sisster (a very special stuffed bunny) and she still cherishes it.

Great advice.



Reply Reply Report
ssedgar
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | ssedgar
we did this
We had a whole stack of presents in a cupboard for Zac when we brought Jacob home, if someone forgot to bring him a gift and he got a little upset we would pull out one of these gifts, they were just little things books, pencils etc, It made Zac feel really special and he wasn't as jelous, he got a little annoyed though when everyone would come and visit and the firs question they would ask him would be where is your brother, Zac just wanted them to pay him attention and he was feeling a little left out. It gave me the perfect oportunity to give him a big cuddle though as everyone else was fussing over Jacob.


Reply Reply Report
Prinea
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Prinea
Great Advice! We Did This, Too!

When my younger daughter was born I went ahead and prepared a big sister gift for my older daughter while I was pregnant, she was excited about the baby and transitioned very well I really don't think the gift had anything to do with it but I do think it made the occasion even more special which never hurts.

We got her a new big sister book, big sis/little sis matching shirts, and a baby doll with accessories in a little bag. We took it to the hospital with us and when my mom brought her in after the birth we gave it to her. She opened each thing and showed it to my younger daughter, sharing the whole moment and every gift with her. It really was worth every cent and every second I spent on it to see her so happy to have something for the occasion! Her big sister book is one of her favorites to this day, she especially loves to "read" it to her little sister since she says this is the only way little sis will get to see what it's like to be a big sis since mommy and daddy arent having anymore babies. :)



Reply Reply Report
Rachall
3.60 (Good) | October 2006 | Rachall
Thanx

I really appreciate reading this advice as I am currently expecting my second child and my eldest will be 21 months old when this one is born.

I had thought of an idea of getting a present for my little man, but your idea is great!



Reply Reply Report
      tinker79
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | tinker79
Thanx

You are welcome, and Thank-you for the comment.

I think it is a great way to encourage the role of  being a big brother/big sister. I want all my kids to feel special and loved. Also help minimize the jealousy factor too.

Thanks again!!!



Reply Reply Report
Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Jessgore
I wish I had thought of this...

My parents arrived the same day I got out of hospital, and Camille also came the same day... Hubby had a lot of running around to do, pick Camille up from school run to the airport.. BLAH BLAH BLAH...

Anyway to cut a long story short, I have a very large Australian family and they all gave gifts for Francis, only the ones I write to on a regular basis sent a little something for Camille as well (and that is not many). My mum had  a large suit case full off goodies just for Francis's. I was feeling really bad for Camille but I managed to get around this by asking her to help us unwrap the presents as Francis was only three days old and needed his big sisters help... She had so much fun unwrapping his presents and showing them to him and telling us how cute they all were. And of course even more excited to see that some people had actually thought of her as well.. Of course my mother was smart and brought her lots of gifts just from Nana....   It does help when you use the big sister/ big brother thing to help. Had I have thought of it   The big brother/sister bags would have been so much more fun....



Reply Reply Report
      tinker79
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | tinker79
I wish I had thought of this...
I believed it help my kids make the transition to ''big'' brother. sister. My best friend made quilts for my older two kids, plus the new baby.  It was so nice. I just didn't want them to feel left out.


Reply Reply Report
questirians
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | questirians
Excellent Idea!

My wife did something similiar  up for the 1st time grandparents too. They were so happy.  wish I got one for being a fisrt time dad with help on raising babies.



Reply Reply Report
      tinker79
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | tinker79
Excellent Idea!
Yeah, that is an great idea. I did a gift bag for my mom when my daughter was born, and also for my brother and sister as they were only 7 and 6 at that time.


Reply Reply Report

Know someone who would like this site? Refer a friend