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Top Five Books to Help Young Kids Deal with Emotions

MagpieGirl by MagpieGirl Talking Back(October 2006) (rank 63rd)

So this morning I was going to write some advice down about dealing with the morning get-to-school rush, when my own cleverly orchestrated morning came crashing to a complete stop. Cate wanted to wear a dress that was slit up to her waist (the slit had torn to immodest proportions.)

When I said she had to pick something else, it turned into a full blown tempter tantrum complete with "I wish you were not my mother!!!" and "I wish I'd never been born."  This was followed by her older sister waking up and immediately crying because, "There is no peace in this house and I need a peaceful morning to get centered!!!"

Needless to say, my girls are emotional.

Because I'm the proud mother of a couple of psychic-sponges, I've amassed a lovely collection of picture books that help children deal with emotions. In fact, I quoted from the first one to help Cate when I dropped her off at school. "Today was a hard day. Tomorrow will be better."

Hope these books make your today, and your tomorrows, better!

1. Today I Feel Silly: And Other Moods that Make My Day, by Jamie Lee Curtis

A colorful little girl makes her way through the emotional spectrum, including a just-generally-glummy day in which she laments "although I've got stuff, I've go nothing to do!" Fun rhymes and fantastic illustrations!

2. Lilly's Purple Plastic Purse, by Kevin Henkes

Lilly's impulsive (mis)behavior leads her to conflict with her favorite teacher, but notes and pictures bring them back in alignment with each other after harsh words are spoken.

3. The Chocolate Covered Cookie Tantrum, by Deborah Blumenthal

I love how the clever illustrations really capture the out-of-control feelings a child has during a tantrum. A quiet reconciliation ends this frustrating day for mom and child. This book was Eden's favorite when she was three. We read it every day.

4. Wemberly Worried, by Kevin Henkes

Wemberly worries about big things, small things, and things in between. She's REALLY worried about preschool -- until a clever teacher and an equally worried pal helps her gain confidence in the day.

5. We Were Going to Have a Baby, But We had an Angel Instead, by Pat Schewibert

This simple, no-frills book does a nice job of helping children deal with a miscarrige or still birth. It's especially helpful because it deal with a young child who is seeing his mother cry over the loss. A healing book for a specific emotional situation.

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lexiw
September 2007 | lexiw
Re: Top Five Books to Help Young Kids Deal with Emotions

Excellent article thanks for sharing

 Lexi xxx



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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Jessgore
I wonder if they are translated...

My step daughter only speaks french, and my son is a bit young for those kind of books... I think they would be great for my step daughter... I supose I could do the translation but I would be afraid that I'd get it wrong.. Not all of those books would apply to her but the first three and the we were going to have a baby but had an angel instead would have been great....

 



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dolphins30
October 2006 | dolphins30
Children and emotions
some children can be emotional like that, and all kids i think have tantrums.


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wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | wildrose
Books
Books are really great source to show things to children. I think I've read the chocolate covered cookie tantrum to my son, and yes kids are like sponge. They'll absorb, but ofcourse we also have to explain. Anyway, thanks for sharing new books list to us.


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Kristen
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Kristen
What a great list
I have a little drama king in my house so I will have to check out these books.  I think you make such a good point about being aware of your kids emotions and helping them deal with them.  Sometimes it's so much easier to get caught up in the moment with your own emotions (and the madness you have been driven to because of them) rather than to realize that helping the kids come to grips with their own issues will bring peace and harmony to yourself. 


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jenlemen
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | jenlemen
Love this, too!
I love it that Eden already knows what she needs to start the day centered.  Great list, thanks.


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