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how to cope when your baby changes routine

bleshu by bleshu Talking Back(October 2006) (rank 78th)

My 6wk old baby was sleeping for atleast 8 hrs at night and was only awake for an hour in between feeds through the day.  It was heavenly!  I was bubbly again, getting things done, I was even exercising for an hour a day.  Then the day he got

his 2month shots everything changed.  He would only sleep for 4-5 hrs at night and he was sleeping half an hour on and off throughout the day.  It was driving me insane!  I felt like I was spending my whole day trying to get him to sleep. 

This went on for about 2 weeks, I was battling with my beautiful 2month old all day everyday.  One day when I was almost dropping to the floor with exhaustion I just gave in and let him sleep when he wanted to not when I thought he should according to his old routine.  It was a miracle, instead of putting him down after an hour after a feed, I let him play on the floor until he started showing signs that he was tired.  He slept for an hour!  A whole hour!!!  So after the next feed i did the same thing and he slept for 2 whole hrs!  It went on like this until we are now finally back to 8hrs at night, a couple of hr naps in the morning and afternoon and on most days he does a 2-3hr at about lunch time.  My house has gone back to being a daisy field instead of a battle field.

When your baby changes routine, try to step back and relinquish control to him/her.  Once you realise that he is running the show, your life will be a lot less stressful.  We are just along to watch.

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gr8est
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | gr8est
Stress Less
Our son sleeps when he is tired we have no routine although have noted he will sleep at certain times of the day and then thru the night, We are fairly relaxed bout routine and stress is at a minimum it does not mean however that he runs free and wild doing as he pleases. Balance is the key


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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Jessgore
Routine...
I was exactly the same..  It took me a little longer then 2 weeks to figure out that I was not the boss...   My son has changed his routine now so many times I had lost count..  He is 16 months old now and he is finally in a routine I am hoping he will stick with...  He goes in his cot at 1pm, he may or may not fall asleep right away but I don't take him out and there is no more crying and he will sleep for 2 almost 3 hours.. Then back in bed by 7.30-8pm and no crying again. I so hope he sticks with this....


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Kristen
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Kristen
Routine
It is so funny that you get so excited about the routine going well and then something messes it up.  For us, it was always the teething.  Ethan would sleep through the night, take great naps and was generally easy going.  Then those teeth would start to break through and our whole world was turned upside down.  It  seems that as soon as you get them through one change, there is another one.  Thanks for the advice.


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