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Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”

Izzy by Izzy Minti Founder(October 2006) (rank 5th)

One of the dangers for infants and youngchildren at home is the possibility of getting burned from touching hot things. How do we teach the word “hot” and “cold” so as to avoid potentially serious accidents in the future?

When my son was about 6-7 months old,

even before he could crawl, I introduced the word “hot” by letting him touch something warm. When I warmed up his food, I let him touch the bottom of the bowl (while it’s still warm but not quite hot enough to burn) and said, “it’s hot”. I did the same thing with cold drinks and let him touch it while saying "cold". Sometimes I touched the cold food or drink to his face, which always got either a laugh or a giggle. Through this process, my son also learned the word “touch”, which is also important during times when I need to say “Don’t touch!”

One sunny day during an outdoor play session when my son was 12 months old,  he took interest on the cover of our septic pump and wanted to climb on it. It’s a big round thing that looks like a manhole cover. I already knew that this cover gets warm when the sun beats down on it, so when I was too far to run to him in time to grab him from touching that cover, I yelled out, “Matthew, don’t touch! It’s hot!” He immediately stopped and reached out his hand to touch it cautiously. He found that it was warm to the touch and retracted his hand. Success!

So next time, let the wee little ones touch things that are hot (actually, warm, not hot) or cold while telling them the word. It may just be the difference between getting burned or burned too many times!

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cazza
October 2008 | cazza
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”

Was great to read this and bet you would be going through this now with the twins..

xx  cazza



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nabutters
June 2008 | nabutters
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”

this is great advice izzy!! i have been doing this with myah in the last few mths and seems to be paying off now as we have a wood fire... thanks for sharing!

cheers naomi



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blackwidowkate
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | blackwidowkate
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”
Hi
Awesome
I never thought about teaching cold as well apart from when we are actually cold
We taught Jalan hot with her food as she liked to just grab it off our plates.
She is funny with her cob of corn now she will say hot as in questioning us and we say yes hot then she will sit there and blow on it like we do.  Every so often she tests it with either her finger or her tongue to see if she can eat it yet or not
Each time it still feels hot she says hot and after a while she says little hot then later she will go no hot and eat it.
Just got to teach her now to stop stealing my milo when i forget it and it goes cold.  
Luv Deb


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emmie
4.86 (Excellent) | October 2007 | emmie
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”

great advice

cheers

emz



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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Kellzacar
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”
Hi Izzy,

Teaching our little ones the difference between hot and cold is so very important and like you i also started early. . .  As parents we can never be too careful . .

cheers Kellz


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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Ngairi
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”
I did a very similar thing with all of mine. Leisa


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ellamia
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | ellamia
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”
My 18 month old knows the difference between hot and cold its an important thing to teach your child. Great article Izzy.

Love Kelly


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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | hermy
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”
a very important point to teach our children and so well taught.......thanks for sharing.....regards Sandra xxx


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LibbyS
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | LibbyS
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”

Thanks for sharing! Great idea!

 



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HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”

This is excellent advice.  I have tried to teach Harrison that things are hot but not so much focused on cold.  Is  good idea to teach both!  Great suggestions and well done.  Thanks for that!

Angela



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      Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Izzy
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”
Sometimes it just makes it easier to get the idea across by teaching opposites.


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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | llmunchkin
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”
I have to tell you Izzy - this is one of the first pieces of advice that I read before I actually joined Minti.  I think Jaydee would've just started walking, so I was introducing him to the word 'DANGER'.  I immediately followed your advice, and because he couldn't talk, we made up signs for hot, cold, and warm... He picked it up in a matter of days - and now he points to things and tells us what is hot and cold... When he is cosy and particularly comfy - or the bath is just right etc... He tells it's warm.  If we say something is hot - he doesn't even want to feel it when we offer to try - he just says no and runs away.

Thanks heaps for this excellent advice!


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      Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Izzy
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”

Thank you. I'm glad this helped you out.

When I taught my son "hot" I always exaggerated my reaction. And to this day, my son does the same, especially when he sees smoke. It's so funny to watch!



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           llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | llmunchkin
Re: Teaching Infants about “Hot” & “Cold”
Same - we give visitors a cuppa and our wee clown runs out and points at it blows on his fingers, shakes his hand, screws up his face - does a funny dance, than says HOT HOT!  It really has been one of the most valuable pieces of advice I have had.


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MadMel
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | MadMel
hot and cold
this is so important. Chase burnt his hands when he was 9 months on the oven because I had not taught him yet...


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KathrynR1402
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | KathrynR1402
Great advice

wonderfully intentional!

I'm a big one for miming/signing, and with "hot" I used to mime pulling my hand away quickly and screwing up my face in pain while saying "ouch, hot, dont touch!" It seemed to work! I've also taught her to hover her hand above things to see if they feel hot BEFORE she touches them.



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      llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | llmunchkin
Re: Great advice
The old hand hover is a good one - starts as a game, then you see that little light in their eyes that tells you they understand.


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jmrmumstheword
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | jmrmumstheword
well done
this advice is great, i also taught my girls colours, red being hot and blue being cold, but ofcourse this is something you do when their a little older, they now know when it comes to the taps in our house that they are not to touch for starters and that red is hot etc, they son learnt one day when mackenzie didn't listen and she slightly burnt her fingers on the tap, so she now says to me red is burnie's mummy, yes baby so i will also use your advice to teach rhyleagh about hot and cold good work on the advice!


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chargehand01
4.86 (Excellent) | December 2006 | chargehand01
hot
i do a similar sort of thing with my son (13 months). he hesitates and then very quickly touches and pulls away. Myself being an RFS firefirefighter i know what burns can do.


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duritz
4.80 (Excellent) | December 2006 | duritz
hot/cold
Good idea. I aslo found associating the red tap with hot and the blue with cold was good. My daughter is 2.5 now and has known since very young that the red tap is a no-no!


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westivan
4.71 (Excellent) | November 2006 | westivan
hot & cold

We did this with DS1 and it's fantastic - when I'm sitting on the couch with a coffee or cooking in the kitchen & he comes too close, I just have to say "no, it's hot" and he backs off straight away.  It also helps him understand why he has to wait a couple of minutes for his dinner while it cools down in the freezer. Before he could say "hot" himself, he'd copy us and purse his lips & inhale to make that hissing noise (like when you've burnt your hand).



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PeppermintDream
4.90 (Excellent) | November 2006 | PeppermintDream
Hot and cold
I also taught my daughter about hot and cold at an early age too, and i did similar things to you. It's worked out great that they understand about hot and cold at a very early age.


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Aidansmom07
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Aidansmom07
I haven't really done this...

don't know why i wouldn't have thought of doing this, it's perfectly logical.  Thanks Izzy, will start now before he does end up burning himself!!

 



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elizabeth
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | elizabeth
Great tip
I did this with my kids too and because they spend alot of time in the kitchen with me, I got them to touch the oven door as it was heating up. Both of them are excellent with hot stuff. Once they know what hot is, it is also easy to explain the dangers of electricity. My friends thought I was nuts when I suggested they do something similar.


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mcm
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | mcm
Show
Show or give them the experience - the best way to learn. Great advice!


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Kristen
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Kristen
This worked for us too!!!
We did the exact same thing and Ethan won't even go near the stove anymore.  We tried to do something similar with "danger" but he says "hot" instead.  Same effect, right?  LOL


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TheMentorMom
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | TheMentorMom
Works well.
Great tip, Izzy.  We did this as well and it was amazing how quickly our kids picked up on it.  We've not had a burn incident to date! 


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Rachall
4.72 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Rachall
Too late??
I am only just teaching my son this now and he is 17 months old. Is he too old to learn this quickly?


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      exquisite-flower
4.73 (Excellent) | October 2006 | exquisite-flower
Too late??

 Actually it is never too late until they do something that you in hindsite think maybe I should have done this or that.  Hindsight is great.  LOL

Do it as it is relevant or appropriate.  I never remember things that are taught to me unless I can apply them.....
Peace
EF.x 



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wildrose
4.73 (Excellent) | October 2006 | wildrose
Hot hot ouch ouch!
Thanks for sharing. We also taught the kids early. Did the same thing like yours but we added saying 'hot hot ouch ouch' on the hot one. So the kids knew if we said 'ouch or aww' that would be hurt. If they near the oven we said 'hot hot burny, don't touch'. Eventhough the glass isn't that hot, but still might give a little hand a shock. I just afraid of kids get burn hand.


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dolphins30
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | dolphins30
I did this also
I did this also with my daughter. Nothing worse then them going up to an oven and touching it and burning them selves. I think the younger they are, the better to teach them about hot and cold. then their wont be too many or no accidents at all later on in life


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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Jessgore
Hot & Cold...
Thanks very much.. This is great advice that I will be starting first thing tomorrow.. Brilliant. I was wondering how I was going to do this...  And it is amazing just how simple it is..  Thank you..  Thank you.. Thank you....


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      Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Izzy
Hot & Cold...
You're welcome, Jess. It seems so simple, especially for those of us who have already done it. I'm glad this helps you out!


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           Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Jessgore
Hot & Cold...
THANK YOU IZZY... My son can now say hot, and he knows the oven is hot... When he comes to the kitchen he points and says hot....  I thought maybe he just thought the oven was called a hot instead of an oven, but two days ago he was standing over the heating duct and he said hot... YEAH thank you......


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                Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Izzy
Hot & Cold...
Awesome!! This is so great to hear, Jess.  One of these days you may even see him hesitate to touch something that he knows is usually hot.


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Jacqui
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Jacqui
Hot Advise
Excellent advise-- the earlier they understand the better. You wouldn't believe the amount of children that go to the ER with burns. Usually on the face, down the chest and legs, due to grabbing something hot.


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      Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Izzy
Hot Advise

It is something I don't want Matthew to go through.

I just want to remind parents out there that this does not prevent burns so it is not a substitute for baby proofing the stove and being vigilant not to put hot liquids close to the edge of countertops and tabletops. But it does help and perhaps buy us, parents, a couple of seconds.



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tinker79
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | tinker79
Hot and cold

Great advice!  My son Alex would said ''bbrrr'' cold to the snow and do that little shake. It was so cute, he was only 7 months at the time.

My son Braden will shake his head ''no'' when we tell him hot, ouch, hot. Don't  touch.



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Prinea
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Prinea
Great Advice!
We did something similar with our girls as infants, we'd use water in cups and let them "play" while helping them identify the differences in temperature. Warm (luke warm water), cold, hot (warmer than comfort but not too warm water), etc.


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