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Mummy and Daddy Need Time Too |
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by Girraween  (October 2006) (rank 90th) |
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For all the time and attention that the children get there are two people who often get neglected.
Mummy's and Daddy's need time as well. Time that is set aside just for them. It is healthy and relaxing and to be totally honest necessary.
I have always
believed this but have a difficult time following through with my own advice. Grown up time is necessary to the relationship with the spouse. It keeps the communication strong and strenghens the bond that exists between two people. It is also a great example for growing children. This time demonstrates to them the committment it takes to build and maintain a successful relationship.
If you have difficulty finding a reliable babysitter all is not lost. Simply put the babies down for the night and have a picnic. Light those candles, push the chairs out of the way, spread out a blanket and relax with a bottle of wine and some great food. Talk and cuddle the night away while the children are sleeping.
As my husband says "it is nice seeing mummy be Lisa and not just a mummy sometimes". We can loose ourselves in parenthood. Our whole lives can become focused around our children. Time given to the spouse and other "grown up" friends can keep that sense of self alive and give us a complete, whole feeling of who we are as well as keep the relationship with our spouse healthy and continually developing.
Everyone comes out a winner.
Lexi xxx
