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HALLOWEEN: Stranger Danger

peachynowamum by peachynowamum Talking(October 2006) (rank 198th)

Now before I begin I would just like to say that although I am not one to celebrate Halloween I will not condemn those that do as I am sure there are a lot of things you can do as a family that is safe on this day. In reality the only thing I am strongly against is trick or treating which if you continue to read further you will understand whyI It is just that I feel so strongly about this subject that I couldn't not write this article OK.

As parents our number one priority is the childrens safety. We are forever reminding them about stranger danger! We continuously tell them do not accept lollies from strangers! And then every year on October 31st (I believe) it all goes out the window. Not only is it the biggest contradiction out there but it isn’t safe.

I know, I know there is safety measures put in place… You sort through the candy, you check the wrappers, and you might even go with them but… None of this changes the fact that you are letting your child knock on the door of a complete stranger and taking lollies from them!

Surely there are better things your kids can do on Halloween then door knocking and talking to strangers!

I know some people will be offended by this or may not necessarily agree but I thought it important that I share and convey my thought on the subject as I think we need to take a long hard look at ourselves and ask what we are teaching the children.

That being said, below is a link to a great site to aid parents who still want to let thier kids go trick or treating this year.

http://www.familiesonlinemagazine.com/child-safety/index.html

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mumof1girl
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | mumof1girl
Halloween

 

I totally agree with what you have written about halloween and stranger danger. It teaches them nothing basically, and if an adult is accompaning them, what is the child to think, that it's ok to do this?

I have never gone trick or treating as it's an american thing, and not australian, and i'm like you, i don't mind if people do this, but it's just not for me.



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meggles
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | meggles
I agree
kids have enough trouble grasping the stranger danger thing. This just confuses the issue. If you are gonna do take whatever measures you deem appropriate. (I mean sitting on santas knee and taking a lolly happens too but at least those people are screened)


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dolphins30
4.00 (Good) | October 2006 | dolphins30
Totally agree
I totally agree with you. It does beat the purpose doesn't it about teaching them about stranger danger. I'm in Australia, and i always get with out fail trick or treaters knocking on my door, and every year we have nothing for them. I don't believe in Halloween, as I'm not American. I will let my daughter do halloween things at school as she doesn't understand yet what it is, as she's only 3.7 years old, but i wouldn't let my child either trick or treat as you don't know what people have done to the things they have given your child.


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allyp
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | allyp
Halloween

I love Halloween as a child, I alway went out with my parents and where I used to live as a child my parents knew everyone. So they were not worried about it. The only thing we wouldn't take is like Candy Apples or Carmel Apples, if we got them we would throw them out. Unless they were from my nanny(grandmother) we knew they were safe. But everything else, like chocolate, juice box's, pop and anything that was store bought we kept.
My sister and I would always exchange our treats LOL!!

As for trick or treating when I was a teenager and moved to Calgary we always went out with friends instead of by ourselves.

I think that's the best way is to go with your parents(when younger) and when you're old enough go with friends, in a group of friends is preferred. That way incase you need help, it's there!



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