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10 Sweet Strategies for Halloween Candy: UPDATED

jenlemen by jenlemen Young Parent(October 2006) (rank 17th)
If candy is an issue at your house most Halloween seasons, here are ten snappy strategies to reduce, ration or limit the loot without being a candy scrooge.

  • Give them a filling, extra-nutritious dinner before they trick-or-treat.  Do everything in your power to get them good
    and full of nutritious food before they hit the streets.   Even a good homemade macaroni and cheese (made with whole wheat pasta, rich cheese and whole milk) will seriously reduce the appetite  when they return on Halloween night.   The last thing you want to do is send your kids out on an empty stomach, only to return ready to gorge on all things sticky and sweet in their goodie bags. 
  • Allow for a great indulgence on Halloween night and crack down later.  I don't make a big deal about the candy on Halloween night.  Instead, I let my kids come home and splurge, letting bedtime be the natural cutoff point.  Usually there's not too much time left by the time they get home, and by refusing to scandalize candy, I reduce the "forbidden" factor that makes candy all the more enjoyable.  By limiting the time--okay guys, in five minutes we're going to get ready for bed--I end up limiting the intake in a much less confrontive way.
  • Decriminalize love of all things sweet.  Scandalize candy in your house and guarantee you have a little sugar-junkie on your hands deperate for her next fix.  I think it's a better strategy to act cool and unaffected by the amazing influx of candy and propogate an appreciation for moderation instead.  I try to treat my kids like the candy is fun, but not so much fun that we want to risk a mouthful of cavities.  Reassure your kids that there's no scarcity mentality here--the candy will be here tomorrow and we'll enjoy it a little bit at a time.
  • Decide on a reasonable daily indulgence.  Assure your children that they will be able to continue eating Halloween candy after Halloween night.  Decide together on a reasonable amount--one piece a day is plenty at our house--and dole out the goods at the appointed time.  Your kids will enjoy choosing each night and you'll be relieved to know that they're filling up on regular meals instead of one big candy binge.  Guaranteed candy times can be after-school, in the school lunch or after dinner.
  • Do your part.  Really, don't you think you think everyone would be happier if mom had a little chocolate pick-me-up everyday out of the Halloween stash?  I agree.  No need to go crazy here, but helping yourself to the goods will help reduce the mass quantity of candy in the house and bring the Halloween season to a close that much sooner.
  • Send half the loot to the office.  If you live on the kind of street we do, it's entirely possible your children could come home with more candy than any family could ever consume.  When the amount of candy your kids are collecting is really massive, send a serious bagful along to the office to help reduce the stash.  Send all the non-essential along with whatever pass-out candy you have remaining. 
  • Put the Halloween candy out of sight.   After Halloween, I immediately but the candy somewhere the kids do not see it on a regular basis.  For the first few days after Halloween, they are very focused on the candy, but time fades the passion when the candy is no longer on display.   It might be a little witchy, but when a week goes by without anyone obsessing or asking for the goods, I do a little magic and make it all disappear.
  • Be their own public service announcement about the virtues of brushing.  Use the Halloween season to encourage good brushing habits and make sure your kids are doing their very best every night before they go to bed.  Let Halloween be your family incentive to brush up on good oral hygiene.  This is your chance to restock on toothbrushes, floss and timers to make sure all the sugar bugs are banished early and often.
  • Bring on the apples.  The non-caramel dipped kind that is!  Apples are filling and also are known to be natural teeth cleaners--especially when the skins are still on.  Make sure your apple consumption is just as high as the sweets consumption and you'll be addressing two concerns at once--nutrition and dental hygiene.  If you let your kids bob for theirs, they'll be that much more into it.
  • Time to buy those groovy flossers.  You know the kind--the ones where little plastic cartoon characters "hold" up one piece of floss.  My kids don't mind flossing when this kind of hyped up fun is the thing--yours won't mind either!  So stock up and see what happens.  Your dentist will thank you.


How do you deal with candy at your house?  Feel free to add your two cents in the comments.

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emmysmum
November 2007 | emmysmum
Re: 10 Sweet Strategies for Halloween Candy: UPDATED
great advice with great tips!
Thanks for sharing!
Cheers


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TheMentorMom
November 2007 | TheMentorMom
Re: 10 Sweet Strategies for Halloween Candy: UPDATED
There is a dentist in our town that offers kids a $1 per pound of candy to kids who turn theirs in!  I offer mine the opportunity to pick out ten favs and trade the rest in for a trip to the local toy store for an inexpensive toy.  This year my daughter accepted the offer, but not my chocolate loving son.  Oh well, there is always next year.  Great tips, Jen.


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ellamia
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2007 | ellamia
Re: 10 Sweet Strategies for Halloween Candy: UPDATED
OH i love candy mmm. I am not a Halloween believer but thats for sharing this advice. Great article.

Love Kell


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      jenlemen
November 2007 | jenlemen
Re: 10 Sweet Strategies for Halloween Candy: UPDATED
after this halloween, i'm not either!!!  carter had nightmares all night--not sure whether it was the scary images or too much candy!!


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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | llmunchkin
Re: 10 Sweet Strategies for Halloween Candy: UPDATED
As soon as I saw the word candy - I had to read this.  We don't do a lot of Halloween stuff (yet), however I think this is good advice for any big kids party - thanks for sharing these great tips.

Cheers, Lui.


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      jenlemen
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | jenlemen
Re: 10 Sweet Strategies for Halloween Candy: UPDATED
so glad!  hope you have a sweet halloween!


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HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
Re: 10 Sweet Strategies for Halloween Candy: UPDATED

Happy Halloween....excellent suggestions.

Angela



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      jenlemen
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | jenlemen
Re: 10 Sweet Strategies for Halloween Candy: UPDATED
hope you get to use 'em tonight !  :)


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jenjen
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | jenjen
Re: 10 Sweet Strategies for Halloween Candy: UPDATED
really good strategies jen..thank you as i know all of mine that can flee the house will be out on the streets tomorrow night...   : )


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      jenlemen
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | jenlemen
Re: 10 Sweet Strategies for Halloween Candy: UPDATED
hope you have tons of fun with no stress over candy!


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tracey
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | tracey
Sweeeeet.
Great ideas and great comments!!


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MagpieGirl
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | MagpieGirl
A Laugh about Halloween Candy

I suggested the "pieces of candy in a bag" idea to the kids, telling them they could put a "certain amount" of candy in a bag and that would be thier allotment for the week. They liked the idea and said, "Yeah! How much? LIke one piece for each day?!" I said, "Hum. Since you often get other sweets in a day, how about three pieces a week?" Thier faces fell so suddenly my housemate almost spit out her breakfast cereal with laughter!

I'm just letting them have a piece everyday after school. It's still more candy than I would like, but they are happy with that --and we don't have to argue about what happens if the bag from week one still has candy in it when they get to week two...

BTW, my weight watcher's meeting leader had a HUGE cardboard box of leftover Halloween candy donations yesterday! Not a bad idea...



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      graciemia
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | graciemia
A Laugh about Halloween Candy
Hey Magpie girl, since you're giving them a piece of candy a day anyway, why not try their idea of putting 7 pieces in the baggie? Ya really think you'd end up with leftover candy from week one? :-) You could always give any leftovers to your hubby!


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           MagpieGirl
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | MagpieGirl
A Laugh about Halloween Candy

Oh, Eden would Totally end up with extra pieces after week one -- and then one day she'd want to eat it all at once and be on a sugar high all day, followed by the inevitable sugar crash with accompanying weeping.

I try to do the "love and logic" techinque of letting the kids live out thier own consequences (in this case stomach aches and tears) but so often the consequences seem to be "Mommy consequences" too! :-)

They are happy with the piece-a-day thing after school, so we're going with that one this year. :-)



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      jenlemen
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | jenlemen
Re: A Laugh about Halloween Candy
wonder what the halloween situation will be in denmark, chelle!


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MagpieGirl
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | MagpieGirl
Halloween Candy

Some of the parents at our preschool used to invocke the Great Pumpkin on Halloween. After letting the kids pick out a set number of favorites for one-a-day dole outs, the parents and kids would put thier buckets full of candy on the front porch. Late in the night the "Great Pumpkin" would come by and swap the candy for a non-treat sweet.  Some thoughtful things the Great Pumpkin might want to leave? A new toothbrush in a favorite color with fun flavored toothpaste, underwear with the latest cartoon character, or bright fun tights or knee socks. Just make sure it doesn't turn into a huge gift giving event. ONE small item is enough.

P.s. This is especially good for compulsive eater Mom's (like me) who can't have a lot of sugar in the house.



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      jenlemen
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | jenlemen
Halloween Candy
brilliant magpie girl!  i wonder if my kids will play--they are on the verge of deconstucting all things toothfairy, santa, etc!  but i love the idea of the great pumpkin coming to make a trade.


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Neeters
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Neeters
Good Advice

I like the suggestions.  Thanks for posting this.

 



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      jenlemen
4.50 (Excellent) | October 2006 | jenlemen
Good Advice
thanks for commenting, neeters!


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Firefly
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Firefly
Halloween Candy
I love all of these ideas. Jen, I'm going to let them indulge a little Halloween night. I'm also going to try graciemia's idea of sorting. And maybe the toothfairy will make a suggestion. We'll see. Thanks for the great advice. Jen, I read your blog all the time. I love it!


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      jenlemen
4.50 (Excellent) | October 2006 | jenlemen
Halloween Candy
thanks, firefly!  i'm so happy to know you read my blog.  (sigh.)   hope your halloween is great!


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graciemia
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | graciemia
Halloween Candy
When my daughter was 6 (she's 11 now), we started something that she quickly claimed as "tradition!" and it's worked well. My daughter loves to come home and sort her candy by brand - I remember doing that, too, and loved counting the pieces. Daughter take a baggie and then selects 7 pieces of candy for each baggie. Beginning with the next day, she gets one baggie for the week, but it's up to her if she wants to have one piece/day or enjoy all 7 pieces at once. I love to give choices! Often there are enough baggies to last until Christmas or Valentine's day! It's worked so well for our family, and my girl has quickly learned that if she chooses to eat all 7 in a day, it's a looonnng wait for another week. The great thing is that it's taken 'me' out of it and put her in charge of choices, and I love that!


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      jenlemen
4.50 (Excellent) | October 2006 | jenlemen
Halloween Candy
i love that she can control her own intake.  great idea!


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sweezie
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | sweezie
Halloween candy

I was incredulous last year when people told me after Halloween my 2 1/2 year old would forget about the candy. But, putting it out of sight was key in this blessed forgetfulness. We also ration intake. This year we're sleeping over at a cousin's house where the tooth fairy will make a trade with the kids - some candy for a special present they'll like. My son asked for a Lightning MacQueen coloring book. I've also heard of buy-back strategies where the kids are paid 5 cents for each piece and then mom takes it to the office. Thanks for your thoughts!



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      jenlemen
4.50 (Excellent) | October 2006 | jenlemen
Halloween candy
oh, i love the idea of the tooth fairy making a trade!  that's brilliant.


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rkcrtbrown
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | rkcrtbrown
great article
Great article!!! Last year, my oldest was 22 months and we only went to about 10 houses. With cydney being so young it was very easy to limit her candy intake. This year all three kids are going out. The boys are 17 months and don't eat candy yet so they are easy. Cydney is almost three and is already talking about the candy. i will definitely use your suggestions.


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      jenlemen
4.50 (Excellent) | October 2006 | jenlemen
great article
let us know how it turns out!  :)


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