Hormones For Him And Her

You know what im talkin bout girls, what can I do to make him want me again? Its driving me insane! I need a sure fire way for him not to be able to say no. Any ideas? Male input would be really great too. Ta!

Men

are just as hormonal as women, and often a new baby just plain tires a man out - not the same way as it does for us, but they are at a point when they are sharing themselves with you and with their children and their work so they go into a stasis - a plateau.

Some men never come back on board as they did when they were first married or courting and others just need time plus some vitamins and TLC.  One thing that often works if you can fit it into the schedule of your life, is a bath together, you would be amazed at the results.  Not a bath to have sex, but a bath to relax together, wash and massage each others backs, and just lay back and talk to each other (no big confrontations) one thing is important, YOU NEED TO LISTEN to what he is saying to you, even if its about work or his hobbies or yourself or your children - just listen up.

It's not very relaxing to come home from work to a house, a wife, babies or toddlers, a meal being gotten together - it's not that they don't want that, but it is continuing activity - straight from work and straight into the family scenario.  So try to seperate your quality time into packages.  A time for you and the children and meals, a time for you and your husband to relax before hitting the bed, because he will already be exhausted and so will you.

T.V doens't help to relax people, it just tunes their minds to a diversion temporarily.  So try to make so relaxation time for each other - no children, no t.v. etc, and very definitely no demands on each other.

Hope you find a wonderful nooky in store for the near future, a cuddle and a luv but remember, you married the man, not the appendage so the man comes first the rest will follow.
allannah