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You're not alone

zj by zj Talking Back(November 2006) (rank 83rd)
I am writing this to let all parents know that they are not alone. Too many parents, whether they have a good support network or not, in some ways feel alone. I have a husband that would help if I asked, and friends and family that would do the same, and
yet there have been times where I have felt alone.  I have felt that I can not cope, or I'm not a good mother.  It simply isn't true!  I do my best and I love my children, and I think that as long as you do your best, and you love your children, you should ask for help when you need it.  You will not be judged by true friends and family that really care.  I have a friend that was having trouble coping with the day to day of motherhood, she felt alone, but when she finally asked - she realised that we all go through the same.  We all go through the temper tantrums, and the pain of working out how to deal with them, the sickness and the exhaustion that comes from looking after our bundles of joy.  If you feel that you are alone - please don't. Just ask and someone will be there, even if all you want is someone to listen, they will be there if you ask. 
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lexiw
August 2007 | lexiw
Re: You're not alone

Great article you are sooo right that far to many parents think they have to go through everything alone

 Lexi xxx



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Chrysalis
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Chrysalis
Good for you

Im glad you wrote this, its so true that we tend to try and 'soldier on' in silence and its not good for our mental health. Opening up to trusted friends and family can often lead to surprising revelations from them which, as you say, help us all to realise that we are not alone in the problems we face. And yes- we do try our best but we do all face problems and difficulties which often we try to keep hidden or deny. (feelings of being unable to cope- or feeling unworthy or inadequate - losing our temper or not being a good cook etc.) x



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      exquisite-flower
November 2006 | exquisite-flower
Good for you
It is a lonely place sometimes and it is most important to keep our perspective.  Something i am working on.  I am compiling a list of what my aims and objectives are so that when things get too bad for whatever reason i can read through it, relax, take a deep breath and start over.
Peace
EF.x 


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