Just for those who have young teens, and those who are becomming young teens,  when you ask them to do something it becomes your worst nightmare. Whats happened to ower sweet young lad, or girl, well to answer this, lets go back in time, when we where at an age

when there where no tv, Remember, we are the first generation, to see the first TV, we are the first generation, to see the very first computers, and to see the wonderfull achevments, of all these wonderfull latest tec, Seeing the first man to walk on the moon, the first spootnick, the first sattelight, when we where told, no, wasent it that way that no was NO! we where taught, in school relegein, the laws of god, that is important as it was then as it is today, the one law that is brocken every day is that we do spoil our children rotten, so here is the first thing we do wrong, so as we progressed, into now we look back wondering what happend, our films, have got to a point it looks so real.

The real problem starts in the upbringing of any ones child, of what you allowed them to watch, how you taught them, or did you put enough time with them, Talked to them like as if you where best friends, be the perant at the time when it was needed,  did you as a perant  Keep to your word, or said well 0ne day, ill do this, or that, as i have one that said, i will help you with this machien, and mounths later, when asked again to help, all hell brok loose, , no wonder, a child gets frustrated, this is not to pick on perants, buy children do mess up to, we all need to do a lot of looking inside our selfs, and ask our selfs, when i did some thing wrong, why did i do it, in other words find answers in your self, why you did wrong , and then, try to understand your child, remember, if you swear in front of a child what would you expect what comes out, if you teach of good things, then you would expect good things, how ever in this world, you are up against all kinds of evil, so now the fight begins, well i dont want to go on, but i do belive, that we must relise the new generation, is born into, a computerised world, and we do need to start teaching our children, how to respect each other, perants to put the time, or make time, as our Children are the greatest assets, and riches. With which comes, Joy, Fullfillness , Pride.