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Teaching a second language to your child(ren)

Jessgore by Jessgore Young Parent(November 2006) (rank 4th)

How soon should a second language be introduced?

What is the best language to teach?  Our first language is English.

What is the best method for teaching a second language in a monnolingual society?

All ideas appreciated
EF.x 

I believe that

if anyone would like to teach their children a different language it is best to start as early as possible. 

Not all families have the luxury of speaking two languages, so here are a few tips if you wish to get your child off to learning new languages if you are not ready to send your child off to lessons just yet….    

1. If you have a DVD player that plays all regions, buy (order on line if unavailable at stores) movies that have multiple language tracks… They will also have subtitles for the older children that can read… Translations are not always exact as not all languages have an exact translation for a word… But it will give you a general idea of how the language works.

2. Activity books.. There are activity books that help you learn in fun ways as well. They are similar to the activity books that helps children learn to write or do math. If you have trouble finding any you could call a language school and ask where you might find them on the internet.  

3. Story books are also great, but it does help if you can read it to them. Or if you wish to learn a new language as well this could be a fun activity together. And you can get a dictionary for words you don’t understand. And depending on your child’s age you can look them up together…  

 4. If you have a friend that speaks the desired language ask them to speak that language with your child and start out with the basics, like hello, how are you? Simple things like this always seem to spark an interest in a young age.  

 My step daughter is 10 years of age and started taking English in grade 3. She was top of her class in the first year of starting and I believe this has a lot to do with the three years prior listening to myself and her father speaking. Although she was very shy to even try, we noticed before she started her English lessons she was able to jump into conversations at just the right time, making it harder for us to talk about Christmas presents.  

 I was 24 when I met my husband… I had to learn fast, when we got married the ceremony was all in  French and to this day I am still not sure what it was I said. My husband jokes that it was a baptism and we are not actually married. But for me I learnt the hard way, I sat and I listened to the family speak around me and was very lucky they had the patience to explain why every one found something funny and did not want me to feel left out… I am now 31 and am very proud of my French today even if I still make rude and embarrassing mistakes.. Thankfully my husband’s family have a great sense of humour.  I wish I had taken French when I was at school though….

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kseers
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | kseers
Good tips
My sister in law and her husband met overseas and she didn't speak his language (Spanish) so they communicated in Japanese(bizarre I know).  She made an effort to learn, as we all did, but we did not get very far.  However after they had her daughter, he has not been around (not by choice) but she has taught her little girl Spanish.  In the process she has learnt it herself.  she has done it largely through books, DVDs, music and games.  if you can find children's products in the other language it really helps and the sooner you can start the quicker they will learn. It also helps if you can find people to practice on as speaking it is essential to learning - eg friends, a cultural playgroup, clubs etc...


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exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | exquisite-flower
Thanks Jess

Wonderful Jess!  I like the idea of the DVD's in other languages. 

Congratulations on your french btw.  I have read a few of the things where you have alluded to your ability.  It is such an achievement.  I only really speak english well.  I am very shy at speaking other languages in case I get it wrong, but aparently my prounciation is pretty good in most of the african languages I have tried reading because their sounds are similar to maori and the words are mostly phonetic!

I would love E to speak another language because it apparently exercises a persons brain in certain areas which helps and maintains good learning or something, and I want to encourage her learning as much as possible.  I shall look into the DVD thing, see if we can find some childrens ones for christmas ... at least then I stand a chance of understanding them also.  LOL

Thanks so much
EF.x 



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      Jessgore
4.00 (Good) | November 2006 | Jessgore
Thanks Jess

You are welcome...  As for being shy so was I at the beginning...  Then I realized if I don't make the mistakes no one will correct me and I will never learn... Ok the family had some wonderful laughs, trust me some of the mistakes I have made are not for the faint of heart and would have given any grandmother a heart attack. And it had embarraced some people when they had to translate to me my mistake.. Oh my how many times have I gone home red faced... :)

I'll have to e-mail them too you if you want to know them.. LOL

 



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           Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Jessgore
Thanks Jess
And thank you for congratulating me on my french. I must say that this is one thing I am very proud of as I was never very good at school. 


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cheleinkal
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | cheleinkal
It's an interesting question isn't it.
I am NOT bi-lingual myself, though I wish I was, just so I could be.  I have ove the years picked up a bit of this and a bit of that and I use them every now and then, with my Nanny charges and now with my own daughter.  eg. one, two, three,.....Ich, knee, sun (ignore spelling everything is fenetic), une, du, toi, I do this every time I change her nappy or have her on the change table and have done since birth.  I don't expect her to be bi-lingual by being able to count to three in 3 languages, but I did think, that as she gets older I shall add more and more of my limited repotoir and purhaps it will make her more susceptable to picking up different languages later on ie. during school etc.

That's just what I thoght, I have no clue if it will work, but I thought I'd give it a burl....it can't hurt.  I think you are amazing Jess to have basically taught yourself french in your mid 20's, I did 3 years of french at school and can say Boodbye 2 different ways, and thank people, ask the time, say who I am and call a table a tablue, that's pretty much it, of I can count to 15 or something.  You should be proud of yourself


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      Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Jessgore
It's an interesting question isn't it.

Thanks Chele, you make me blush.. I am rather proud of this, I was so scared that I would not be able to do it.  As I was horrible at school.. I never took the language. It did help that my family here was very good to me to try and include me in their conversations and wait five minutes while I tried to finish a sentence...

The first time I was alone with my mother in-law was so much fun, we went shopping for my wedding dress. We did not speak eachothers language, and this is where hands come into play... :)  I will say when I was actually able to construct a sentence it was so wonderful to be able to tell her just how fantastic she was helping me when my mother could not be there....   (Ok off topic a bit but just liked to add it.)

Ich Knee sun che co roc sich huch coo goo.. LOL I think that is how it goes.. LOL I did Karate when I was at school.. LOL I am sooo sure the spelling is not correct though...

 



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allyp
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | allyp
Great advice

That is great advice Jess... Good tips...

Hopefully one day, my daughter will be able to speak in 2 or more languages!! :)



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      Jessgore
4.00 (Good) | November 2006 | Jessgore
Great advice

One thing it did teach me about myself was that I was not as stupid as I thought I was... I went though a faze and being able to learn this other language made me realize there are a few more brain cells in there then I thought.. :)

They would teach french at her school when she goes I would think, being how canada is pretty big on the French thing..   So that's a start.. I could send you some french stuff from here if you like...



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chickenlicken
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | chickenlicken
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i believe if the parents can speak 2 languages, english being one of them, and then they should teach the child both, but i've known people who can speak 2 languages and they teach their child both languages at the same time.


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