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Long Lasting Presents Period

wildrose by wildrose Young Parent(November 2006) (rank 25th)
Presents, who don't love getting lots and lots of presents. Either birthday or Christmas or rewards presents. Specially children, they love their presents. The issue now, whether they appreciate all their presents and use them wisely, or they are too excited and confused to choose which one to be played with
first.

I remember the first time my son (at the age of 2) understood the idea of presents, we let him opened and played all the toys at the same time. We saw some excitement but also confusedness. Too many toys or books or anything around him. He couldn't barely enjoy each things properly. We did end up to put away some of the things.

So, at next year, we did something different instead. Either on his birthday or Christmas, we still let him un-wrapped all his presents, but instead also open the boxes (for some of the present who came in the box), we asked him to choose 1 or 2 toys to play and enjoy for the day. What about the other presents??? The rests will go to his bedroom and he allowed to open and enjoy another 1 or 2 new present(s) each day or whenever he got bored with the old ones. We knew that he was tempted to use all the presents, but we luckily made him understand and he did find opening 1 or 2 things each day or whenever he got bored with the old ones made himself got more presents everyday. Apart from that he finally found the full enjoyment of each thing. For the record, even last year each present could last for 3 to 7 days, so he got his excitement last longer too since he opened the rest every 3 to 7 days after.

I understand some of us like to throw lots and lots present to our children, and probably some of our children could find the joy of opening and using all the presents at the same time. But what I wrote here is just a thought of giving an option/idea for your children to appreciate and enjoy their presents more.
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Frontier
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Frontier
We have to do this too
We have 2 aunties that cannot have children so they shower our boys with gifts all the time.
We had to tell them to back off a little bit because poor old Santa was getting embarrassed at what they were receiving and making him look like a cheapskate.
We had to put a lot of presents away and still have not opened some from last Christmas.
The funny thing is our boys get just as much pleasure from the boxes they come in.


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Chrysalis
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Chrysalis
Well done
This is certainly worth a try- I know what you mean- they go into a present frenzy and each thing is opened and exclaimed over and then dropped in the thrill of more....... it all seems so over the top. I wonder if my boys could show the same restraint as yours-. Great work.


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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Jessgore
I have to agree with you on this one...

Watching my step daughter open her presents every year you could see she was having a hard time choosing what to play with... In some cases less is more.   I did not think to put some aside and say hey why not play with one now and play with the others later I wish I did....  There were a lot of her toys that ended up not seeing the time of day.. I hope to remedy this with our son, and using your advice I think will assure that all his toys get played with and not lay in waist.

But in saying that I will have to wait until next birthday and Christmas as this year is his first christmas with my mum and I know she is going to go all crazy over him and spoil him rotten (Camille too but her presents will be sent here so she can have them for Christmas day), I am going to let my mum go crazy why not, I have no idea when she will see him again and every nana has a right with in reason to spoil their grandchildren... Of course being that my mother is so far away and this will be the second time she would have seen him I don't think I'll be able to hold her back... If I tried she might bite...



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      wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | wildrose
I have to agree with you on this one...
Surely you may let the kids to unwrapped all the present, if you wish. Kids love unwrap and seeing what they're having. But it's good to just let them choose one or two in a day (or longer) to enjoy with. Yes I do remember when the presents just end up laid around all over the place. Couldn't see the full enjoyment on him. Believe it or not, once I had 2 presents still in the wardrobe after months of the big day passed. It was like hidden treasure for him to open those presents.


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           exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | exquisite-flower
I have to agree with you on this one...
Wonderful idea.  Love the idea of things being found later in the year like surprises for her...
Peace
EF.x 


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