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Stick to a routine for several days.

rich115 by rich115 Talking(May 2006) (rank 231st)
Locally we have a parent advice center called Ngala. My wife and I have visited on a couple of occasions for our 2 year old.

The last time we attended was for a sleep issue we had with our daughter. We learnt that it takes a good number of days
to get a child into a rhythm. So, we know what you're going through.

My advice is that you have to persist. Unfortunately your child isn't aware of how important sleep is, and resists. It's you job as a parent to spend several days being "cruel to be kind."

My piece of advice would be to stick to a routine: put your child down in the same manner, at the same time, in their cot, each day, and continue the routine until they sleep in the daytime. It'll only take several days.

Only let up if the child is sick, and only then enough to comfort them.

It's awful when a child continuously cries, but at some point you have to work through it and create a routine for your baby. They actually thrive on it.
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dolphins30
October 2006 | dolphins30
routine
i've always had my child in a routine from birth. She's always been demand fed. I let my child sleep as long as she want's to.


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Whitney
4.67 (Excellent) | May 2006 | Whitney
I agree

We usually try to commit to 4 days before concluding if a new system is working or not working for us.



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      ClayCook
2.50 (Average) | May 2006 | ClayCook
Re: I agree
we tend to do the same... however if it is obvious that it is not working after just 24 hrs or 48 hrs we stop pretty quickly.


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           hrs2004
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2006 | hrs2004
Re: I agree
I would have to say that it took a good ten days for controlled crying to "work" with my little girl, although it was obvious she was improving within two days. I agree that you really need to stick at something - if you don't give it a fair go, then all the grief associated with it has been for nothing, and maybe one more day would be the one that solved things.


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                ClayCook
4.25 (Good) | May 2006 | ClayCook
Re: I agree
ooops - that will teach me for not reading the advice thoroughly enough. i didn't notice it was referring to controlled crying. i agree you have to stick to it... Codi took about 5 days - 7 days to settle in to a routine. If we had stopped after the first night... we may still be up with him at all hours of the night!


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