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Preparing for death

9wondersoftheworld by 9wondersoftheworld Talking(November 2006) (rank 235th)

Everyone should be prepared for the event of death, I have a life insurance in place and also a separate death cover for our entire family which in the event of one of us dying covers the cost of the plot, flowers, ceremony etc, it is also a policy which

is paid out within 2 - 3 days, so you are not waiting around for the money.  If you are unprepared it  can be quite alot of money to fork out unexpectedly.  It is not too costly and and for a small monthly amount, gives you peace of mind   As for the being ready for Jesus, my own personal belief is one should have an everyday personal realationship with God and not only turn to him in times of need, but give praise to him for all the wonderful things he does in our life everday (like giving us another day), this is a poem a friend emailed to me (author unknown) and it really tells it straight.

I knelt to pray but not for long, I had too much to do. I had to hurry and get to work For bills would soon be due.

So I knelt and said a hurried prayer,


And jumped up off my knees.
My Christian duty was now done
My soul could rest at ease.
All day long I had no time

To spread a word of cheer. No time to speak of Christ to friends,


They'd laugh at me I'd fear.
No time, no time, too much to do,
That was my constant cry,
No time to give to souls in need
But at last the time, the time to die.

I went before the Lord, I came, I stood with downcast eyes. For in his hands God held a book; It was the book of life.

God looked into his book and said


"Your name I cannot find.
I once was going to write it down...
But never found the time"

 

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KathrynR1402
July 2007 | KathrynR1402
Re: Preparing for death
I agree, it's so important not to make a tragedy even worse. We got our Will sorted out as soon as we were married, and chatted to the exexcutors as soon as we became parents so they would know what we were thinking if they ever needed to place our kids with someone else. Now my mum's deteriorating we have Power of Attourney so we can look after he things even when she doesnt know who she is or where she lives any more. Years ago she said to put her in a Nursing Home without feeling guilty if thats what was needed. We are getting close to that and I know that she will pull the guilt card out due to fear, but I will also know that in her right mind she gave me permission to act that way. Hopefully that will make it more bearable. There are so many things we need to speak about before it's too late, for what ever reason. But the most important thing is, as your peom so elloquently puts it, our friendship with Jesus.


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nell18-3
January 2007 | nell18-3
Preparing for Death
I love the poem!
Good parenting is all about making sure your children are taken care of all the time and planning your death is one way of looking after them. i still feel shame that I was suicidal at my lowest point of depression and lost all the value to my life. thankfully my faith helped me and I know that no matter what humans may think of me, I know that God loves me. i will never take life for granted again.
Great advice, even though it is a topic none of us like to think about.


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OzBinky
January 2007 | OzBinky
Good advice
as said before me and I'm sure after me, this is good advice and a lovely poem. Preparing for death sounds morbid and damn near like tempting fate...but it is something we all should do.

It is one of the most difficult things to arrange when you have lost someone close and depending on the state of mind, funeral director or whatever and whoever it may be, you can be taken advantage of.

Tragic thing to happen when your grieving? Sure is!
Is it wrong? Sure is!
Does it happen? Sure does....

Plan it now, sort it out and let those you leave behind grieve without worries.....its the best gift you can give after your gone......

oh, besides a HUGE inheritance that is....


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breannababy
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | breannababy
Put aside
This is such an important issue that so many of put aside.I know it is really important to make sure our insurances and wills are up to date as none of us know when our time is up.I thought the poem was neat regards Merle


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Tazzette
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | Tazzette
Great advice too
What a lovely poem thank you for sharing it with us lol


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      9wondersoftheworld
March 2007 | 9wondersoftheworld
Great advice too

Thankyou I am glad you enjoyed the poem



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lexiw
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | lexiw
a must
A very good friend of mine died suddenly and left behind three wonderful children who should have benifited well from his death but he did not set everything up properly . what he should of done is make sure the money was put into specific trust funds because now the children have nothing and the casinos have everything.


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