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Perceptions - Taking Medication In Front Of Children

Frontier by Frontier Young Parent(November 2006) (rank 22nd)
We often do it without thinking. We wake up with a headache, down on energy, have a cold or are on medication prescribed by a doctor to treat a condition. Whatever the reason, we find ourselves popping the pills for one reason or another.
When you have children in the house it is an important consideration to be aware of how they perceive your medicine taking. If they see you in a distressed state before the medicine and they watch you take the medicine and then behave in a happy way they could develop a perception that taking pills is always good for you and they may be tempted to try other pill like things to see if they feel better too.

It is important that the child understands what medicine is and why we take it and why they may have to take it also. If I have to take a tablet I usually take it out of site of my children if I can to reduce the visual impression of pill taking and when ever my wife or I take a pill in front of our children they would often ask "what is that" and "Can I have one too?"  When this happens we explain what the pill is (usually for headaches) and why we are taking it and why they do not need it. We also explain that different people need different medicines that only can be given to you by a doctor or chemist.

Our children emulate what we do and how we portray ourselves. If they see us as pill popping medical junkies they may ad that to their perception of what they should be when they grow up.

Some things to think about regarding medication and children,
  • explain what medicine is and why we sometimes have to take it to reduce the mystery element
  • try to take it out of their sight if you can to reduce the impact and frequency
  • if they see you taking pills or medicine and ask for some don't give them a substitute  (lollies, smarties or milk) as this will cloud the difference between medicine and sweets or treats. Just explain why you need it and they don't and tell them they are lucky they don't.
  • keep medication out of reach of children
Keeping your children informed helps them decide the best course to take when presented with new options.
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pavementcracks70
March 14th | pavementcracks70
Re: Perceptions - Taking Medication In Front Of Children

food for thought

thanks for sharing

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ShellyT
December 2006 | ShellyT
medicine
i try not to take medicine in front of miss3.10 as she wants some too, so i have to take medicine etc with out her knowledge


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urshy
December 2006 | urshy
Taking Medications
I have a very debilitating form of arthritis, so I have to take up to 5 tablets morning and night.  A few times, my 4 yo has asked me what they are for and then she remebers and says to me "Is it for your bad hips".  I have always made it a point to explain to her about my tablets and that she is only ever to receive lollies from mummy or daddy and to never get lollies herself.  Our medicine is stored high up in a top shelf of a cupboard so there is absolutely no way for her to get to it.  She does have her asthma medicine and her Vitamin tablets, so she is made aware of the difference.  I figured, seeings as I have to take this stuff for the rest of my life (Im only 32) I may as well make her aware of it early, otherwise she may try and sneak any tablets off that she may find and hide away and take them.  I do agree with the points that you are making, but it my case, this has worked out best for us.  Thanks for the good advise though.


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lexiw
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | lexiw
Great advice
In our house medicinces are always only taken when absolutely necessary. Brielle had to take some very strong medication for her ITP so everyone has learnt the dangers and the importance. we try to do things naturally before we use anything else. 


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wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | wildrose
Medicine
Good advice. Lucky so far my son understands that medicines are only for sickness also won't take it without adult supervision. If he doesn't sick, he will not ask for one. If he saw us taking one, he would just think that we're sick (ie. good headache, or flu, etc).


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Kristen
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Kristen
Taking medicine
We thought about this for the first time the other day when my husband took an aspirin and my son said "Owie," pointed to his teeth and then asked for medicine himself.  LOL.  It is so important to be clear about taking medicine and the judicious use of medicine.  Thanks for the tips.


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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Jessgore
Fantastic advice...

It is amazing how something so simple as taking a pill for a headache can make a child wonder what the pills are for and they are for sure not lollies (Candy)...

This is great advice, and something I have not really thought of.  Thanks for the tip.... (It's a good thing I don't take meds that often as like I said this is something I had not thought of... )



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MumKim
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | MumKim
Excellent point
I remember years ago when I worked on a shearing team, one of the shearers used to take a huge pile of vitamins etc (he later went to jail for selling steroids). He told me that he once saw his child  pretending to take a stack of tablets - just like Daddy!


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exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | exquisite-flower
Sound

Good stuff in there.  Esp the explaining to them part.  Regardless of their age a little of what we say goes in.  It dissolves the mystery and it makes it ok for them to not also be taking it.  If they have been unwell with a fever that they can remember or a cough or something they may remember also having some kinda medication and that will also help them understand slightly how unwell you may be feeling.

I know not all medication is because we feel unwell.  But it can be useful tool
Peace
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