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My baby is driving a little crazy lately as he is crying for my attention all day long and not learning to play by himself. He is four months old and just started rolling one way and he can't seem to play by himself on the floor when i want to go and do housework or other duties. he winges and winges until i pick him up and then he smiles at me. This happens mostly in the afternoons but it makes preparing dinner and other duties very dififcult and tests my patience every day. I have tried to just leave him and let him learn that mummy can't come every time he cries - but he doesn't let up.
Advice would really help me before i start pulling my hair out and my house is becoming a more like a bomb hit it as i can't ever get the housework done.
I would not be picking him up all the time because the more you do the more he knows he only has to open his mouth and you will come running. Have you tried sitting him in a high chair near a bench and put some toys on it for him so he can see what you are doing and also play with his toys or put him on a bunny rug in the same room with you and some of his toys so he can play with his toys but still see you. With both of my girls i put them in a bouncer and put thenm infront of the t.v. while i made dinner or whatever i had to do, i found they like the colors of the t.v. and would lie there quietly for some time, i don't suggest you do it all the time only from time to time otherwise baby will want to see t.v. all the time. It sounds like your baby wants your attention so putting him in the same room as you so he can play and see what you are doing that way you are still giving him attention just not your full attention, babies like to see and do and there is always something (like the t.v.) that will capture their attention. I would also give him either a cup so he can bang it or a teething ring so he can chew on it at his age with babies everything like to go in their mouth. If you give him toys to play with in the same room as you then he is occupied and you don't need to stop and start with whatever it is you are doing, if you have to leave the room just make sure its not for to long so he knows you are still there just moving around the house. Good luck.