Positive Body Image Tips

From the Common Sense Media Editors - Common Sense View

Q: Kirstie Alley was on Oprah this week talking about losing 75 pounds. Nicole Ritchie seems horribly anorexic. Everywhere I turn, my kids get the message about being ultra skinny. How can I talk to my them about

reasonable weight?

A. There's no denying that our culture -- and celebrities -- are obsessed with weight. And as anyone who has tried knows, talking to kids about their weight is one of the toughest things a parent can do. But there are ways to support your kids with positive body image. Here are 10 steps from the National Eating Disorders Association for you to discuss with your kids.

1. Appreciate all that your body can do. Celebrate all of the amazing things your body does for you -- running, dancing, breathing, laughing, dreaming, etc.

2. Keep a top 10 list of things you like about yourself -- things that aren't related to how much you weigh or what you look like. Read your list often. Add to it as you become aware of more things to like about you.

3. Remind yourself that “true beauty” is not simply skin deep. When you feel good about yourself and who you are, you carry yourself with a sense of confidence, self-acceptance, and openness that makes you beautiful regardless of whether you physically look like a super model. Beauty is a state of mind, not a state of your body.

4. Look at yourself as a whole person. When you see yourself in a mirror or in your mind, choose not to focus on specific body parts. See yourself as you want others to see you -- as a whole person.

5. Surround yourself with positive people. It's easier to feel good about yourself and your body when you're around others who are supportive and who recognize the importance of liking yourself just as you naturally are.

For tips 6 - 10, please visit:  http://www.commonsensemedia.org/parent_tips/commonsense_view/index.php?id=173 .

Source: National Eating Disorders Association, 2005