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A swaddled little Codi
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Swaddled and tucked into bed
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All swaddled - a couple days old.
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Sleep: From Swaddling to Gro bag to toddler bed

rachelcook by rachelcook Minti Founder(February 2006) (rank 22nd)
In the hospital you may have been encouraged to swaddle your newborn. If you think about it, it makes sense as they feel snug and secure, as they had been in the womb. In my experience, swaddling kept our newborn feeling safe and secure up until he began to understand that
his hands belonged to him and we had evidence that he was trying to struggle out of the swaddle. We then swaddled under the arms from 3 months onwards, when the startle reflex had almost stopped and it became impossible to keep baby's arms in the swaddle. This left his arms free and acted like a light sleeping bag.

We stopped swaddling completely at around just under 4 months and moved to a baby sleeping bag. From my experience, swaddling under the arms is a good idea to do once they have lost the "startle reflex", that way they don't wake themselves up all the time. Another idea is also to use a sheet to tuck them in this helps to keep them snug. As you continue to swaddle with the arms out, they will begin to move around in the cot, it might be a sign that they are ready to transfer to a baby sleeping baby.

‘Comanche’ Indian Swaddling
It is believed that the art of swaddling was adapted from the 'Comanche Indians', who developed ways to transport their young and swaddle them to help them sleep. It appears to be an age old parenting technique, which worked wonders for our 7-7, and sometimes 8am son.

What to swaddling in?
Up until you sense it is time to not be swaddled anymore, swaddling with muslin wraps appropriate to the weather is sensational for a sleeping peaceful baby and keeps their startle reflex from waking them up and you constantly.

Mitts for the hands
Once you are swaddling under the arms and the arms are free, babies like to protest before and after sleep it is also especially good if their hands are protected to prevent terrible scratches to their face with mittens. In my experience Codi would eventually work out how to pull these off. I worked out that socks that he had outgrown were great for Codi's hands at night, when he made the transition from swaddling to the gro bag. It also kept his hands warm in the colder months.

4 months onwards: Sleeping bag (Gro Bag)
Once baby has outgrown swaddling completely, a baby sleeping bag continues the process of what swaddling provided. You don't need to have anything in the cot at all, in fact it is reccomended that you don't. Baby Sleeping bags, nicknamed 'Gro Bags' (thanks to the brand becoming a huge hit), are all the rage nowadays with many mothers swearing by them. Infants don't get cold as they can't kick off the covers and are designed based on the same principals as swaddling. They come in different types according to the temperature in the room or weather.

Gro Bags are also designed to progress in line with your infant's development as they begin to move around in their cot. My son Codi, is now a toddler and loves his grobags, he has three different types or rather "tog" thickness. There are many different brands and styles but all perform the same function and it is recommended for use up until your toddler is ready to make the transition to a toddler bed or kids bed.

As Codi progressed past 12 months, I felt he needed bumpers in his cot and a teddy bear to comfort himself back to sleep. Cot bumpers are not recommended until your child prefers to sleep on their bellies and they really begin to move around the cot. I found that at 12 months this was useful to prevent nasty bumps to the head whilst moving around and he was old enough to instinctively move out of any trouble whilst half asleep. Before we went to bed (hubby and I) would go into his room and check on him. Just so we could move him back into the middle of the bed if needed to encourage middle of the bed sleeping. This all works for us and have had many many months of peaceful sleeping.

Toddler Bed
After asking around and hearing mother's experiences, I plan to transfer Codi to a toddler bed (his cot can be changed into one) when he figures out how to climb out of his cot. Any earlier and a sound night's sleep will be disrupted. I will definitely see how this goes and update my experiences on this.

More on Baby Sleeping Bags
My advice would be to not buy a baby sleeping bag that is made of fleece as I would be concerned with overheating your baby, unless you are in extreme cold conditions. I would make sure I researched the most appropriate baby sleeping bags for your child. The primary goal for swaddling and baby sleeping bags is a 'sound and safe nights sleep' and I swear by them. Many manufacturers also donate to SIDS charities as they are approved product that minimizes the chances of SIDS occurring, ie. not sinking down into the sheets, a gro bag prevents this.

I would go with your instincts and learn about how your baby sleeps. If certain aids are not suitable, like cot bumpers then don't use them, if you are worried about your baby's sleeping habits. For myself, 12 months was okay and worked well. I recommend go with what works.

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BonneyD
February 2009 | BonneyD
Re: Sleep: From Swaddling to Gro bag to toddler bed

I am also trying to figure out the best time to move my toddler into his bed.  He has not figured out how to climb out of his cot, so I am hanging in there.



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MrMikeysMum
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2007 | MrMikeysMum
Re: Sleep: From Swaddling to Gro bag to toddler bed

Mr Mikey never liked being wrapped at all but the midwives insisted on wrapping him!  He doesnt like blankets on him either. During the very cold winter nights I put him in a grobag and he was toasty warm and happy.

Babies are all differant and its just a matter of finding whether yours likes being wrapped or not  :)



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Snow
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | Snow
Have we left it too late??
This is a great article. Other mums in my mother's group have had a similar experience to Rachel. My son is now 4 and a half months and cannot sleep without being swaddled. We have tried a sleeping bag but he sucks his hands and knocks his dummy out...keeping him awake. Have we left it too late? Should we have stopped swaddling earlier? I think swaddling has become his sleeping cue and without it he thinks it's play time! If anyone has some advice I would like to hear it. Or my son might continue needing to be swaddled into adulthood!!!


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Firefly
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Firefly
Great article
Rachel, this is great!  I swaddled my third baby in a product called SwaddleMe.  He was sleeping aproximately 3 hours at a time.  I was swaddling him in my flannel blankets previously.  The first night I put the SwaddleMe on, he slept a 6 hour stretch and has not slept less than that since.  He's almost 4 months now.  I wish I'd had this product with my first two babies.  We did get a fleece one.  But I live in Canada where it's cold in winter and at night we keep our temp. at around 17 or 18 degrees celcius. 

My little boylie is starting to suck on his hands, so I want to let him out of the swaddle.  I've tried it, but his sleep is so much more disturbed.  He's waking himself up every few hours.  I'll have to look into the grobag. 


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MumKim
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | MumKim
Excellent article - where do I get a gro bag

Hi Rachel
Thanks for the excellent article. Where in Perth did you see the baby bag you refer to in a comment below and where is the best place in Perth to get grobags?



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      rachelcook
April 2007 | rachelcook
Excellent article - where do I get a gro bag
Howdy, all the baby stores carry this new product. The lady I know who founded the idea, won The Telstra Small Business Award for her Joey Pouch.


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Jessgore
4.00 (Good) | October 2006 | Jessgore
I wish I read this the moment my son was born....

My son is impossible, from the moment he knew his arms were his he has never slept with a blanket which can be very annoying and at times concerning with the weather changes...

If I had read this maybe I'd be keep him in a blanket these days, but no he won't have it... We keep his room at a certain temp and dress him to that...  Problem is the room still changes temp at times, it may be hot when he goes to bed but you wake up in the morning and it is cold...  I go in and check on him to see if he is cold, and the minute I put a blanket on him he wakes up and throws the blankets away...

Any tips on getting blankets on him now would be great...   I tried a pj type sleeping bag, not sure what it is called but it is like a sleeping bag with arms... But he would kick his legs around and push so hard from the inside that he'd have marks on the back of his neck. We had to stop that...



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      rachelcook
October 2006 | rachelcook
I wish I read this the moment my son was born....
The PJ type sleeping bag Codi did the same thing, found it a bit constricting but with a gro bag he is free to move around. You have options :) Have you tried a gro bag? they are great, with different types depending on the temp in the room. I was concerned to about Codi's arms, but I discovered that the Gro Bag doesn't have arms because baby needs to be able to regulate heat, ie. put arms up if hot and let warm air escape.  These special sleeping bags for baby worked a treat for my wriggley, all over the cott bub. All he sleeps in is his gro bag, and I adjust what PJ top he wears, so thicker in winter to keep his arms warm, or thinner long sleeve. I know my little one always likes his arms warm whatever the temp (a bit like his dad - lol) For younger bubs, there are many new things coming out on the market, I know a mother who has brought to market a hybrid "Swaddle Sleeping Bag" for newborns. Maybe this is the way to go with next bub. For your little man it seems he doesn't like to be constrained, so if the Gro Bag thing is an absolute no go, maybe try thicker cotton winter fitted sheet, maybe start with letting him sleep with a little blankie, then maybe try "soft tucking" him in up to his waist (wont last but may start to get used to it)... if all else fails...you may have to sneak in before you retire and place the blanket on him to get him through the cold part of early morning - hope some of this helps!!!!


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Ozbound
3.50 (Good) | June 2006 | Ozbound
Gro bags in the heat?

Hi Rachel

We are currentlly getting ready to move to Brisbane and have been thinking about using a Gro bag, but kind of assumed it would probably be too hot in Brisbane for one.  Do you still use one in the summer months when it is really hot?  I just don't want to end up buying one, carrying it half way accross the world only to find Chloe will never use it.

Any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated.



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      rachelcook
October 2006 | rachelcook
Gro bags in the heat?
Gro bags have a very light version for the summer months with 0.5 tog being the lightest and 2.5 tog being the thickest. Depending on how you regulate your temp, there is a guide for what tog to match with what room temp, on each pack of the Gro Bag packaging. Hope this helps :)


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ERFM
3.50 (Good) | May 2006 | ERFM
swaddle below the arms
How do you know when to start swaddling with the arms out? My daughter is 14 weeks and is sucking her fingers for self-soothing. I've tried swaddling her with her arms left out, but she flails around so much, even with just one arm out, that I don't think she'll get to sleep. Any suggestions?


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Izzy
3.25 (Average) | May 2006 | Izzy
Toddler bed

I've heard some moms say not to waste money on toddler beds and to just go straight to a grown up bed. Of course you'll have to buy a bed rail to prevent falls. Although I've also heard that if your toddler is particularly squirmy, the rails may not totally prevent falls because they'll eventually roll to parts of the bed not covered by the bed rail.



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mrslunar
3.33 (Average) | May 2006 | mrslunar
OT

Those are the sweetest most adorable newborn photos I think I've ever seen.



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Izzy
3.86 (Good) | May 2006 | Izzy
Gro Bag

I was about to ask you what a Gro bag is. I have never heard of it here in the US. But I think I've answered my own question. They are known as sleep sack here. I used it for Matthew while it was cold. But now that it is hot, he doesn't like it...but I'll take it out again when winter comes (assuming it still fits him).



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ClayCook
4.22 (Good) | February 2006 | ClayCook
Image?
Hi Rach,

An excellent article on Swaddling.
I have tried to surf the net looking for an image for yuo explaining how ot do the swaddle, however I coudlnt find one. If you have one it may be a good idea to upload the image.

Clay


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      rachelcook
3.20 (Average) | February 2006 | rachelcook
Re: Image?
Great idea. Thanks for the feedback, I will search for one.

Cheers.


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      Anonymous Member
4.47 (Good) | March 2006 | anonymous  
Re: Image?
There's a book that looks quite interesting (received it today in the post, so can't review it thoroughly), called "Baby-Gami", by Andrea Cornell Sarvady. If you look it up on Amazon (http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/0811847640/qid=1142080636/sr=8-1/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl/202-9460240-5289430) (.co.uk though I guess on .com too) you can look inside it and get some basic instructions with pictures.


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           rachelcook
4.04 (Good) | March 2006 | rachelcook
Re: Image?
Thanks for the great feedback I have added the link to external links (btw anyone can add external links here too.). I will check this book out too, great resource!

Again thanks!


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