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Knowing when your child is ready for a toddler bed

Kristen by Kristen Talking Back(November 2006) (rank 17th)

How do you know when your child is ready for a toddler bed?

This is a tough question and there isn't no one right answer that fits every child.  I have a friend whose daughter stayed in the crib until she was 3.  In all that time she never once tried to get out of her crib.  Her brother was a climber and he was only in a crib for around 18 months.  If your child is a climber, you need to be aware of signs that he is able to scale things taller than himself.  If he can do this, he just may be able to get out of his crib.  For us it was when Ethan climbed out of his crib at 13 months old.  It was frightening catching him straddling the side of the crib.  There was no telling if he would have been able to safely descend the other side of that crib.  That night we took down his crib and replaced it with a toddler bed.  The good thing about the toddler bed is that it is close to the floor, has sides and provides some of the same comfort that the crib provided. 

There are important things to remember when transitioning your child from a crib to a toddler bed. 
  • Make your toddler's room a safe place.  You never had to worry when you put your child in the crib.  You knew exactly where he was at all times.  Once he has moved to a toddler bed, all bets are off.  There is nothing holding your toddler in now and if he decides to get up in the middle of the night and wander around, you need to be ready.  If you sleep on the second floor, be sure to have a safety gate at the top of your stairs.
  • Show your toddler how to get into and out of his bed.   This may seem like stating the obvious, but this is something brand new for your toddler.  Up until now, you have put him in his crib.  Now it's his responsibility to get into bed and to know how to safely get out of bed.  By going through it a few times, you help your toddler learn how to be safe in his bed.
  • Remember that this is a big deal to your child.  Your toddler might be frightened with his new freedom.  You may have to take extra time to calm your toddlers fears. 
Hope these help you with the transition from crib to toddler bed.  Good luck!
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nwagon
May 17th | nwagon
Re: Knowing when your child is ready for a toddler bed

I've been trying to work out how I was going to transition my 18 month old from cot to bed as we have another one due in 15 weeks and will need the cot soon after. I was thinking of starting with day sleeps...hopefully he will cope with it all!! He has never tried to climb out or anything as yet. He is a big lover of sleep (still has 2 day time sleeps) so hopefully he will still want to when he goes into the bed.

Good advice!



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bronxmom25
February 29th | bronxmom25
Re: Knowing when your child is ready for a toddler bed

this section is exactly what i needed advice on. my 1yr old jacob is already independant, and i wasn't sure wether to put him in a toddler bed or not. this helped make my decision.



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bronxmom25
February 29th | bronxmom25
Re: Knowing when your child is ready for a toddler bed

this section is exactly what i needed advice on. my 1yr old jacob is already independant, and i wasn't sure wether to put him in a toddler bed or not. this helped make my decision.



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Ravenheart
February 26th | Ravenheart
Re: Knowing when your child is ready for a toddler bed

this is a huge help for parents with toddlers

xoxox



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whome
February 21st | whome
Re: Knowing when your child is ready for a toddler bed

great article and its a question thats been asked recently in advice xxxshar



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mcm
February 21st | mcm
Re: Knowing when your child is ready for a toddler bed

All children are different. Its true. My daughter basically co slept and didn't like the cot so she went into her own bed at about 18mths (though most of the time she sneaked in with us) My eldest boy  co slept  with me til about 2 and a half then he went and slept with his sis. My youngets has never been fond of sleeping with us and loved his cot til around 2, just before his birthday actually, he started climbing out. :o It shocked us but now the cot is packed away and he usually falls asleep with his bro and sis.

 



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missnickley
January 11th | missnickley
Re: Knowing when your child is ready for a toddler bed

thanks! Great advice. We have been talking about it, but so far Caitlin hasnt even tried to climb out so I might leave it a little longer. I do want her out of it by the time the next baby needs it, but she has some time yet!

Also once she is in a big bed, then thats it, she is a big girl. The cot helps me think of my baby girl as still little. It might sound crazy but hey, a mothers mind does tend to be!

But helpfull advice, thanks very much!



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emmie
December 2007 | emmie
Re: Knowing when your child is ready for a toddler bed

great advice i think it is about time i put my daughter into a toddler bed as she is exploring climbing trying to climb out of bath over the arm of the sofa and it wouldent suprise me iif she has took a go at getting out of her cot and she keeps getting in her sisters bed instead of cot lol

cheers

Emz



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Arna
October 2007 | Arna
Re: Knowing when your child is ready for a toddler bed
Wow, you are soooo right! lol.  We got an 18 month old, and she hates her cot.  She wants a big girl bed, we are now hunting one down for her.  They grow up sooooo quickly.


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Mystique
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | Mystique
Re: Knowing when your child is ready for a toddler bed
Thank you for this. Natalia has climbed out of her cot a few times, plus fallen twice. I am looking into a toddler bed this week. I wasn't 100% sure if she was ready but after reading this I know now that it will be better of to make the transition.

Aww my baby is growing up!!!


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winson
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | winson
Re: Knowing when your child is ready for a toddler bed
I and my wife sleep with my little girl on one big bed while she is 2.5 years-old now. And we plan to sleep with her together till she goes to school. It's not a problem to us.


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      Arna
October 2007 | Arna
Re: Knowing when your child is ready for a toddler bed
Um, ouch!  My husband kicks enough! lol.  So, do you actually get any sleep?  We wouldn't with our little wriggle bots! lol.


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SamAndRhys
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | SamAndRhys
Toddler Bed

I am the proud mummy of 6year old twin girls, we took that BIG Bed step after about 6 months of taking the sides off their cots and putting them against the wall so it was kinda like a big bed, then when they out grew that, we went to the matress on the floor as i was terrified they weould fall out and injure themselve... there came a day when i was kinda thinking to myself, ok they are 2 now and asking when were they getting a BIG girls bed? After deliberation with my partner about this issue, we figured ok, they are almost toilet trained, so why not...

Day one...

We got them two single ensemble beds...Day time naps were so easy... they were so excited to be "big Girls" now and went to bed with no dramas at all, not that we ever had issues with that either however they werent in bed half an hour and they were sleeping like babies...

Day two...

Off to bed again, then out of nowhere, Taryn, crys.... i go into her, and she is sitting on her bed, tears streaming down her little face, i asked her what was wrong... she said nothing... i just figured, maybe a nightmare. it was the mid morning nap at this stage and the middle of winter so it was rather cool... i figured well i may as well run a fun bubble bath and maybe she will be ok after that. The tears stopped and all was back to normal ... UNTIL... i went to lift her from the bath and she screamed when i took her by the arms.... ouch mummy she said, i thought to myself,,,,, i didnt do anything that could possibly hurt you!!!! Taryn was cradling her arm.... i inspected it and seen no swellling no discolouration no blood no nothing.. looked perfectly normal to me.... she was till crying so i thought ok maybe we go to the dr and have him check her out....

Off to the dr's we went where he too couldnt see anything at all however as a precautionary measure, sent her for xrays... to my surprise she had croken her top bone in her wrist....

I Have no idea how this happened.... as far as i was aware, she had been sleeping along with her twin sister...

Later that night, at dinner, Taela, said no more monkeys jumpin on the bed... it was then that i figured oh maybe she had been jumping on her bed and hit her arm on the window sill or something to that efffect however that still didnt explain the no sign of any trauma to that area. At 2 years old, i figured that was plenty old enuf for the BIG STEP into a bed... Just depends on the child and how communicative they are... good luck with it all, hope nothing like this happens to you!

cheers

Sam and Rhys



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      Arna
October 2007 | Arna
Re: Toddler Bed
Ah yes, the jumping on the bed trick.  We stopped this by telling them they would have to sleep on the floor! lol.  It worked.  The biggest problem with our oldest 2 sharing was that they were more interested in playing than sleeping.  Prob solved now.  They in different rooms, and asleep by 8pm! lol.


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lillkatheryn
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | lillkatheryn
Toddler bed
I actually had my baby girl in a twin bed at the age of 8 months.  She was crawling and climbing already and had managed to get out the the crib once.  What I did was put a mattress on the floor with one of those guards(so she would not roll off) and she did great.  She slept in our room for a few weeks, then we moved her into her own room.  She was used to sleeping in it, she never tried to get out at night.  Also, we keep her door closed at night so she can't go out into the living room and such.  This is certainly an option too.  At her 1st b-day we bought a nice frame for it and she's still great in it.  Never fell out, and can now get in and out when she wants.  Since this is what she really can remember as her bed, she never was scared to have a bigger bed.


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jenaya04
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | jenaya04
big kid beds

Hi there,

I am sitting here writing this as I wait for my daughters new bed to be delivered. I am not looking forward to tonight as I think she will be up and down like a yo yo. Im not too worried of her falling out as she has many times fallen asleep in her brothers bed during the day and havent had any accidents. Fingers crossed tho



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pfallerj
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | pfallerj
My Son Climbs All Over
I fully expect him to be able to get out pretty soon. Are there any toddler beds that you like in particular?


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MummaBear
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | MummaBear
Good to know for mums with climbers
I never had my daughter in a cot, so the transition into her own bed was easy as she was used to a bed to start with. I just took the bedrail from my bed and put it onto her bed to stop her from falling out.  I have spoken to so many mums through my job who have said that the worst accidents that have happened in their home have been when the child has fallen after climbing out of the cot.  Of course the parents didn't even know up until the child fell that the child was climbing out of the cot.  One mum had the cot up against the wall with an open window and the baby climbed up the cot and fell out the window and was very lucky to be alive, but has suffered some brain damage as a result so her other children were never put in a cot, and she made her husband buy security screens that locked and couldn't be opened by a toddler.  Good advice, many people don't realise the risks until it's too late but it's something to watch for once the child is on their feet.


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kiarasmom2005
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | kiarasmom2005
mine isn't ready yet

This is really good advice!! Mine isn't ready for a bed yet but I was wondering...since kids can be reeeeeeeaaally quiet when they know they can get into things...is it ok to put a gate on the doorway and a baby monitor in their room so you can hear when they get up??

 



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      lillkatheryn
May 2007 | lillkatheryn
mine isn't ready yet
I keep the door closed to my daughters room, she likes it since I've done it all the time.  A gate sometimes is a must, and as for the monitor...I still use mine, just in case.  Until they can open the door, and get you, I would keep the monitor in the room.  But don't go into the room if they do wake up, unless they got hurt, otherwise you can teach them a bad habit of wakeing up just to have you come into the room. 


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Aniksha
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | Aniksha
sounds good
I agree


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exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | exquisite-flower
I cheated
Before E was born I brought her a 'cot-bed'  it will last her up to about the age of 7, has a waterproof mattress and was a god-send on that day when she grew out of it.  I literally took off the cot side and the bed was already there!  So convenient for me - a single parent, in a small tiny impossibly space restricted home.
Great article Kristen.  Wonder when baby Nathan will surprise you!
Peace
EF.x 


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dcsmom
4.59 (Excellent) | March 2007 | dcsmom
Climbing monkeys

I still remember the panic when my 13 month old son came running out of his room after climbing out of his crib.

I agree with kseers, to toddler bed really is the end of napping unless he's really tired, but I keep all his books in his room, so he can play quitely on his own.  That way he can still have some much need quite time.



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kseers
4.59 (Excellent) | March 2007 | kseers
A note of caution
My son was almost 2 when he told me he wanted a bed - so we got him one.  We got a very low one so he wouldn't get hurt falling out.  He loved it! However he had always fought day sleeps & without restricting him (in the cot) it just didn't happen.  So, for us, a bed was the end of day sleeps!


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nell18-3
4.70 (Excellent) | March 2007 | nell18-3
Beds
My daughter was in a bed at about 9 months as I couldn't keep her in a cot, she kept climbing out and I figured she was safer in a bed then falling from the height of a cot.
My oldest son was so excellent that he went in a bed at 16 months I told him to stay in his bed until I told him it was ok to get up and I would start every morning to him asking " Mum I get get out?"


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tracey
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | tracey
Hmmm.

So, what's the deal with my kid?? She's 3.5 and doesn't want a big girl bed. She loves her crib. Go figure. I guess I'll just leave well-enough alone.

 



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Lyndseyb
4.71 (Excellent) | December 2006 | Lyndseyb
Thanks!

Thanks so much, that's really helpful. I don't think she's ready yet, but at least I know what to look for now.



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      Kristen
4.70 (Excellent) | December 2006 | Kristen
Thanks!
Don't worry.  She'll let you know!  Whether you are ready or not.  LOL.


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Carla
4.71 (Excellent) | December 2006 | Carla
my son just did it
my son had a cot and a bed in his room one day he just went to the bed and went to sleep. He was about 18 months. we have a little step for him to get in and out of his bed.


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      Kristen
4.58 (Excellent) | December 2006 | Kristen
my son just did it
That is hilarious.  I guess he just knew what he wanted.  Good for him.


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