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Children and Television

GREAT-fullyMe by GREAT-fullyMe Talking(May 2006) (rank 283rd)
Does TV viewing impact on the behaviour of children? When I was growing up, television was a relatively new concept and insufficient time had elapsed in which to test the theory.    It is safe to say that evidence now clearly supports the maxim that violence on television (or computer
games) does affect the behaviour of children adversely. With this in mind, we made a conscious decision with our own children to closely monitor and control the type of exposure they received through the medium of television. This entailed allowing them to watch shows such as Play School, Sesame Street and other similar educational programmes. Where such shows were not available, we provided them with an array of videos from Walt Disney, other educational themes, and general exhibition stories.    This imposition also meant that we were not plagued by their incessant requests for this or that toy, as advertised so heavily and effectively on television. We also made a conscious choice fairly early on with them to explain what advertising was and how it worked. To this day, they are fairly savvy about advertising and realise very quickly how they are being enticed to need or want a specific product.   Their viewing time was always fairly limited as we felt it important to allow conversations to evolve between the family and also that adequate opportunity should be given to allow them to just play during their day; creating their own learning, developing their own adventures and using their own imagination to discover the world around them, just as we did when we were children without the huge selection of programmes we have on offer today.   When both children were old enough to interact and play with each other, we made an interesting observation. The observation was that where the children had watched morning television for an hour or two (maximum), their play and use of their imagination decreased quite dramatically from the mornings where no television was watched at all.    Where no television had been watched during the morning, play involved dress-ups and elaborate games of make-believe, yet when the television had been watched, the children became less imaginative, their play was more stilted and they almost required external amusement.   The conclusions we drew from this were that no matter how innocuous the television, there was always going to be an effect on the children. What appeared to be happening was that they gave over their thinking processes to pure viewing processes. Thankfully this was only a short-lived effect until they got their brains back into gear but it was an effect nonetheless and we responded by choosing less television days for them rather than increasing their exposure.    What are your children watching? How long do you allow them to watch their “favourite” television programmes? Are you familiar with the content of the programmes and have you analysed whether the content is positive or negative in its message to your children? (e.g. many children are fans of the Simpsons but is it a positive message the producers attempt to portray?) How are you responding to these influences on your children? Remember, “no” can be good, as can the positive action of turning the television off if you are not happy with the content and the consequential, often subliminal, influence on your children.   Bernadette van den Acker   Bernadette van den Acker MA ACIS AIMM is a passionate consultant for young people and changing they way they think about success and achieving goals. Bernadette can be contacted directly on +618 9450 4967 or +61 419 908 049 and is available to speak to teachers, school communities, or local community groups. Make a difference for your children and visit Bernadette at http://www.great-fullyme.com.au for workshop dates and further information.
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KathrynR1402
February 2007 | KathrynR1402
Children & tv

I tend to keep my TV tuned to CBeebies - great educational stuff and no ads! However, as I am the type of person who craves background noise, we were ending up watching stuff 3 times unless we went out, which on bad weather days wasnt happening. Cue big guilt trip! Then something weird happened when my daughter was about 3 - she asked for the TV to go off! Shock! Resisting the urge to grab my comfort blanket and over -rule her, instead I said "you're just like daddy - you like peace and quiet, dont you!". Daddy was flavour of the month and so the behaviour continued - hurray! We still watch a fair bit of telly on wet weather days, and i can even be seen (picture this!) pleading for the TV to go on sometimes, when I'm just too worn out/sleep deprived/headachy!

In my defense, I do watch it all with her, except when I'm cooking the evening meal, and chat to her about it, so it drives our conversations on my no-brain days. And it was a great distraction when I was exhausted from pregnancy last year - I wouldnt have survived otherwise! And, like others, she does eat better when it's on, though that glazed look drives me mad sometimes, so I'm trying to wean her off that one, except at breakfast, when none of us manage to wake up enough to rise above the monosylabic!

 



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angelmum
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | angelmum
Children and Television

I let my kids watch tv, I have pay tv so they tend to like watching animal planet or the kids shows, but I turn it off and push them outside.  My husband was looking after them one day and let them watch the simpsons, he didn't think it was such a big deal but a few days later while on a visit to Grandma's my 4 yr old pulled his pants down and flashed his bum at my mum (just like Bart does) so yes it does have any impact on their behaviour.



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wildrose
4.32 (Good) | August 2006 | wildrose
balance
I think everything need balancing. I do let my kids watching tv, but I choose which one that could or couldnt be watched...I give them small duration to watch. I don't mind to let them see anything that educational and/or pleasure. But yes I do agree that we shouldn't let our kids spend too much time in front of TV, I rather them go outside and use their imagination.


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sanspotash
4.67 (Excellent) | May 2006 | sanspotash
Topical Subject & Great Article!
There was an article in the NYT's today about this very thing. My wife and I have been without a TV since we met. We just decided there was not room in our relationship for all three of us. Now, with the arrival of our new daughter we are as adamant and determined as ever to not have television become a part of our home environment. Instead of watching TV we talk, read, watch movies, play games and generally just hang out together. Not relying on television for anything has been a liberating experience, though it still totally freaks people out. They think something is wrong with us.  We know that raising our daughter in a home without television will present its challenges, but we will talk through them. We also know that she will be exposed to television in other places and we think this is ultimately a good thing, it just will not become a habit for her while at home.

Here is a site we found a lot of good information at:
http://med.umich.edu/1libr/yourchild/tv.htm


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nomes
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2006 | nomes
Children and Television

Television certainly is increasingly becoming the babysitter for some children.  Children's programmes in the morning or afternoon is enough for my children.  We do other things like playing with puzzles, chalkboard, educational puzzle games, playdough and all the stuff that kids have played with for decades.  I do get my coffee break time, and I choose that time when they are happy doing their own thing.  I don't tell them to go away and leave me alone, although I do ask them to wait a moment mummy is busy and I will help you with that in a minute.  going outside to play with outdoor equipment or the dog or ride the bikes is something we do on good days too.  I find, if I am trying to work or cook or something that is hard to do when the kids are under you or getting unruly, including them in some way makes them settle instead of sitting them down in front of the box.  I could go on forever, but the general consensus among society is that yes, television is becoming a very bad habit.



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Anonymous Member
3.86 (Good) | May 2006 | anonymous  
TV

As kids, we always had to ask permission to turn on the Tv (and use the telephone) and our viewing was strictly limited. As a result, although I couldn't join in with some school conversations about this or that programme, I spent alot more time when at home playing out in the garden, making my own entertainment (a rope strung between two trees kept me learning to "tight rope" walk for weeks!

I am, unfortunately, a little too into the habit of turning the TV on now for background as much as anything. There is a TV in the kitchen because the previous occupant of our house had set up an aerial there, and my little girl asks for children's programmes at mealtimes. We have found that she tends to eat better because she is concentrating on what is going on rather than what she is eating, but although they are educational or appropriate programmes, I can see a glaze descend over her eyes.

I think I will have to make a concerted effort to wean her off the TV a bit. It is handy because at meal times I can concentrate on feeding the baby without needing to amuse my daughter, but maybe I should just get on and try and amuse her myself...



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