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Toddlers Crying when sick or when hurt

emmysmum by emmysmum Young Parent(December 2006) (rank 24th)
When we here our children cry, its quite often that we shatter and try so hard to settle them as quickly as possible. Children cry mainly at times of pain, injury or discomfort. Sometimes we find it so hard to settle our children that we don't know what to do.
Well I feel I have a solution for you.
Show your children the light (this works best for babies 6+ months of course.)
When my little girl is crying and the soother doesn't work and her toys don't make her laugh, I turn on the light, lay her back in my arms and show her where the light is!
Once she has spotted the light, I rock her back and forth gently in my arms until she is very relaxed.

If you try this it could be a perfect asset to you!
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Ngairi
November 2007 | Ngairi
Re: Toddlers Crying when sick or when hurt
Interesting. Never thought of that. Leisa


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winja
November 2007 | winja
Re: Toddlers Crying when sick or when hurt
great advice. kids are pretty easlity distracted and its best to show them positives rather than coddling them


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breannababy
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | breannababy
GOOD IDEA
What a good idea.........distraction always(well usually)works well.And it is very hard as parents not to get too stressed out when they are sick or injuredregardsMerle


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Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | Izzy
distraction

Distraction does work well, and sometimes necessary. For older kids (toddler and up), if they are too hysterical after getting hurt, it is harder to asses the extent of the injury (if they are really injured).

Also, I think it's important to not react so strongly when young ones get hurt. They often feed on our emotions, as parents. As babies get older (about 12 months), we can turn our heads and look at what happened, but start resisting the urge to run and grab them. There is nothing more upseting for toddlers sometimes than to see their parents with panicked look running towards them.



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exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | exquisite-flower
Soft light
Children love soft lights.  It still works with E when she has a bad dream, and it means that if the light is on and i fall asleep - i will wake up and either boot her back to her bed or me off the floor back to my own bed cuz I will not nbe sleeping so deeply.  It is not a good idea to leave a light on in the room all ngiht long with your child as it affects the depth of sleep - but there are articles on Minti about that...
peace
EF.x 


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      emmysmum
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | emmysmum
Soft light
Yeah, I agree. Thanks for your input! I appreciate all comments i receive from minti members as i am only 19... being a young, single mum is hard because like you  (meaning me) are clueless. But i guess everyone is with their first child hey?


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