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Some ways to look at names ... and read this fun book too!

Joeyjo by Joeyjo Minti Founder(December 2006) (rank 271st)

As a person of Chinese descent, names fascinate me. There is an old Chinese saying that goes like this, " your name makes you or breaks you" (or something like that anyway...the translation does not quite explain it). Hence, when I named my kids, these were some simple principles that

I adhered to:

(1) keep the names simple. Biblical names are always good. For example, Samuel, Matthew, Thomas, Rachel etc

(2) ensure that the names cannot be shortened and does not rhyme with certain parts of the body.  Kids can be cruel and I really don't want my kids teased.

(3) Keep pretention in check. And skip names that are too lofty, such as Winston Churchill Smith.

(4) ensure that the first and last names do not alliterate - such as Jack Jackson or Jennifer Jennings. This is only cool for characters in Marvel comic books.

(5) ensure that there is a balance of Ying and Yang by looking at your child when naming your child. Although this is more relevant in Chinese names, you can generally apply this principle to Western names too.  Hence, a child who is shy and withdrawn could do with the name of a famous fighter or soldier.

(6)  ensure that there is no negative meanings associated with the name. Did you know that the name "Jonah" means the "bringer of bad luck"? And we all know what  "Judas" means...

(7) Last but not least, and I only discovered this by accident, there is another principle to be added here... and this is all revealed in this booked called "The Secret Universe of Names" by Roy Feinson.

http://www.penguin.com.au/spotlight/spotlight.cfm?SBN=0670028894

Believe it or not, it is the most fun that I have had reading up names of people that I know.   Your child's name and the way in which it is pronounced or read (dictated by the consonant sound) may determine whether your child is charismatic, shy or a negative person.

Did you know that if you name starts with a "J"  you are more likely to succeed in life? And if your name contains a pronounced "N" sound, you can be quite a pessimistic kind of person?

Well, these are true according to Mr Feinson! The theories are quite "out there" but not entirely unbelievable as they do tie in with the Chinese adage mentioned earlier.

I recommend that anyone who is interested in names has a read of it .

Enjoy!

 

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sandra106
August 27th | sandra106
Re: Some ways to look at names ... and read this fun book too!

interesting tips for choosing names.



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FremantleDocker
September 2007 | FremantleDocker
Re: Some ways to look at names ... and read this fun book too!
Great article. Yeah, alot of good point's and tips in here. Well done.


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lexiw
September 2007 | lexiw
Re: Some ways to look at names ... and read this fun book too!

Great article Thanks for sharing

 Lexi xxx



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exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | exquisite-flower
LOL
Sounds like great fun - shall also look for that book one day when my reading list decreases slightly. 
Peace
EF.x 


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Tazzette
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | Tazzette
Sous great
Had a look and unfortunately I will either have to wait for it to go on sale or hopefully hubby will pick up on it for a Chrissie pressie?


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ShellyT
3.00 (Average) | December 2006 | ShellyT
names
i made sure my partner and i chose a name we both liked very much and a name also we couldn't shorten. I did know what my daughter's name meant, but i have forgotten now, and it's a very nice meaning.


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jenaya04
4.46 (Good) | December 2006 | jenaya04
names

thanx 4 that info, will look into it definately.  I love all this kind of stuff. i'm a j name, my 2 kids and even my dog have j names! Maybe thats the secret of our success!!



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angelmum
4.00 (Good) | December 2006 | angelmum
Thanks

Sounds interesting, Im glad J names are likely to succeed I named both my boys with J names, my daughter starts with X is that good?? I must get the book



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      Joeyjo
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | Joeyjo
An "X" name eh?
My mind boggles... what is an X name? Sounds quite exotic and fantastic! I don't have the book (it was on loan and I returned it) so I can't tell you. The X sound would probably be related to words like 'eXotic', "eXcellent", "eXceptional"... so it's probably all good!


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           angelmum
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | angelmum
An
lol well she is all of them her name is Xanthia sounds like Zanthia


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