No advice here, just a comment really.

We all, as parents, teach our children about Santa.  It is part of the magic of christmas - and let's be honest, a good blackmailing point for those misbehaving days.  No one looks forward to the day their child explodes the

I told some acquaintances that I was proud of the fact that I had managed the feat of Santa for so long, and that I was a bit sad that the time was approaching where I would not be playing Santa for much longer.  They told me that I was deluding myself, that it was cruel to lie to my kids in this way, that they probably knew anyways but were fooling me, that I was living in a fantasy world.

I didn't answer them, just wondered with great sadness at when they lost the magic...sure, my kids aren't stupid and I know they probably are clueier than I give them credit for, but even if they did know, isn't it wonderful that they allow me this last little vestige of childhood with them?  Am I wrong in wanting them to hold onto something special for as long as possible, or should I just fess up and spill the beans now?

Even as I write this, I shed a few tears.  I can't help but feel sad at the thought that our world has become so cynical that even something as wonderful and fun and special as Santa at christmas is derided by such people.  Maybe they have lost the magic in their lives, but I am holding onto mine with both hands tight, and it will be a brave person who wrenches this last piece of my children's childhood away from me.

Merry christmas everyone, may Santa be good to you and may you all retain a little of that magic in your hearts.

katheedavis