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Model for your children

Izzy by Izzy Minti Founder(May 2006) (rank 9th)

How do I help my toddler who is 21 months from not being scared and want to get off little toddler cars. He is fine in his real trike, which straps him in around the waist. If it is because of this, what advice can you give to slowly help him get over his fear.

I agree with mrslunar, if your son is too scared of something don't press the issue. However, I did learn something great from The Little Gym (http://www.thelittlegym.com/). Your child do whatever they see you do. If you play with the toddler car yourself, then you are modeling to your son that it is not that scary. I know it sounds silly, but being parents we've all done siller things :) I don't realy have this problem myself because Matthew is a fearless little man. He often dives into things even if it hurts him, but he does look up at me and my husband to see how to use things and to figure out how things work.

 

 

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Kristen
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Kristen
Being frightened
This is great advice across the board about modeling for your children.  We noticed that if we didn't react to falls, Ethan nearly never did either.  If we did react, he would often cry loudly (without tears) and then be difficult to console.  Now we know that if he does cry, he is really hurt.  He also knows that if he cries, someone is going to jump up and "save the day."  By letting him decide, he gets more confidence in himself.  And like Matthew, his confidence seems to always extend past his capabilities. 


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rachelcook
3.94 (Good) | May 2006 | rachelcook
Cars
Thanks! Yes, he has started having fears about things. He gets upset if I try to ride on the little cars... time will hopefully unleash his fearlessness.


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      Kristen
November 2006 | Kristen
Cars
I hope that somewhere you have a picture of yourself on the little cars, Rachel.  Now that would be great.


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