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Junk Food and Little Kids

kaymcl by kaymcl Speaking(December 2006) (rank 242nd)

Angel 1984 asked for advise on this subject and that prompted me to tell my advise.

Is'nt it amazing how when you have a child everyone will tell you how to raise it! Normaly I took this in my stride,but when my own family and in-laws started saying that

I was cruel not to give my toddler junk food it was alot harder to ignore.

I had gone to alot of trouble during my pregnancy to eat and drink carefully to give my child the best start and as far as I was concerned there was no reason to stop.

As toddlers,our children have only us to guide them, why would we introduce foods and drinks that can harm them? I was berrated for not feeding hot chips,Coke and other fizzy drinks and not giving him desserts at every meal! I held out until my Son's 11th Birthday for the Coke and it became something he looked forward to,a sort of right of Passage and we had a Coke Party with a cake shaped like a bottle of Coke. He is now 16 and drinks it occasionaly along with other fizzy drinks,but water and milk are his main drinks. I was not so strong against my own Father who at every chance would sneek him Chips and others who did the same. By the time he was 4 he was eating all foods although I did try to keep the junk food under control to some extent. What does he love now.....Junk Food!!

So my advise to all in that situation currently..Hold out as much and as long as you can. If I had it to do again I would not give in and would be much harder on my family in this regard.Our Kids are bombarded constantly from outside our homes with Junk Food, Our Families must support the parents to keep the Junk Food for when they are older and then only occasionaly.

 

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Finisterre
September 2008 | Finisterre
Re: Junk Food and Little Kids

It's quite sad to read that some parents think that junk food and sugary drinks are something children "ought to eat", especially when you see the prevalence of obesity in our communities and the terrible cost to human health as a result.   I believe it's important to model the behaviours you want to see in your child, so it's easy for me to feed my daughter a wide range of healthy food because that's what I eat myself.  I also eat and offer her cake etc - but occasionally, as a treat, not every day. 

If people want to "spoil" my child, they can give her extra love and attention - or books and balloons - but not junk food!



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lilysmom
December 2006 | lilysmom
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Good article! My daughter is only 7 months old, but even now, every time i turn my back her great-grandmother tries to sneak her someing, be it a sucker, or a cookie, or some other sugary treat. It disgusts me when you see 2 year olds eating a Big Mac at McDonalds and drinking coke out of a sippy cup.
It's good to know that I'm not the only one being neurotic by not feeding her anything sugary, and that not giving cookies and cakes after every meal isn't child abuse.
I'm definately going to continue the way I'm feeding her.


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angelmum
4.42 (Good) | December 2006 | angelmum
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I don't understand it now and never will, my kids did not know what lollies were or fizzy drinks they had water milk or 100% juice no sugar.  My SIL used to laugh at me and say I was only holding back what was going to happen in the future, when I went over to her place I'm sure she did it on purpose but she would bring out lollies and fizzy drinks and offer them to my kids it used to make me so angry.  Lollies to my kids was dried fruit, my first son never had fizzy drink and I told him it was for big people, so he never wanted it nor does he now, but my daughter was sneaked sips of coke by my husband and now of course she wants it whenever she can, but she doesn't get it.  I don't think there is anything wrong with them having a little birthday cake or sweets on a special occasion but not all the time.


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angel1983
4.42 (Good) | December 2006 | angel1983
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im glad u wrote this advice, because i do get weak sometimes and tempted to give in. I hope reading this will keep me strong, and able to let the family know firmly that they are not to give junk food. (mind u i let her have her 1st bday cake)

 



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ShellyT
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | ShellyT
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my child didn't know what junk food was until about 6 months ago, and she'll be 4 in march. i only give her junk food on a rare occassion, and she know's she's been a very good girl. i don't give in to her. persistance is the go.


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