I am currently 30 weeks along and I really hate it when people I know have a kid that is screaming and crying and they are like, look at what you got to look forward to, or they say, you better get use to it. This just drives me crazy.

When i was pregnant with my daughter i didnt get big at all you couldnt even tell i was pregnant now i am 7 months into my second pregnancy and my belly is huge, i also get people looking at me strangely and sometimes people just walk straight up to me and put there hands on my belly which i find very intrusive.

also you must never say to a pregnant women with two or more babies "WOW YOU JUST KEEP POPPING THEM OUT DONT YA" first of all if you could JUST POP THEM OUT it would be a hell of a lot easier then being in labour and pushing for countless hours everybody needs to give mothers and pregnant women more credit

PMSL.......I loved it.......Well done

Amanda xxxx

this made my day :)

xoxoxoxox

oh dear. I was proud of my belly and didnt mind people commenting but some went overboard. my sisters mother in law lived in a building top level (7) no lift she kept saying come over oh you women now days you think you are the firdt one to have a baby or how weak we are. and when my son was born she came to hospital even before my mom (this is my sisters mother in law not mine) and she said oh I am glad its a boy because if it was a girl your perents will love her more than the other 2 (my sisters and her sons 2 boys) I cryed for days over that.

 there were others as well

As a young mother of 2, I was always interested in other peoples condition. I asked a woman who came into the shop, when she was due.  She looked venomously and stated "I had my baby 4 months ago".  OOPS .  Did not ask anyone that dangerous question again for 10 years.  Then overcame with curiosity, I asked another woman.  She gave me a reminiscently venomous look, and stated "I had my little boy 3 months ago !!!" OH *censored*. 

With my first son, I was carrying well and had suffered 6 and a half months of constant, 24 hour, debilitating morning sickness. I was actually 5 pound lighter then when I first fell pregnant (and I was a size 8 then).  I had a work colleague come up to me, take me by the hand, sit me down and say "OH sweetie, I know what you are going through,  I miscarried two children.  Its hard isnt it.  If you ever need to talk, just come and see me."  I had to gently explain that I was, in fact, still pregnant.  I don't think she believed me until I had Michael two weeks later.

I even get at work 'use the lift not the stairs' - I am not an invalid!!

Or 'why are you still working, you should be at home with your feet up' I have 6 weeks to go for pete's sake.

It's good to see that no matter where you are in the world the same comments go around.  I get the twin thing all the time because I also carry big.  When I say there is only one, I get "the other one is hiding behind him/her"

Because its so true!

Another thing Ive learned, because I tend to carry really big like Im having twins even though Im not, is never to tell a pregnant woman she is small for however many months she is. She will then worry non stop until she delivers, that her baby is too small and is unhealthy.