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    4.71 (Highly recommend) from 18 votes (207 Visits) |
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Enjoy your children. |
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by lexiw (December 2006) (rank 9th) |
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I have had a friend tell me repeatedly that she does not want her child. The child is to much trouble for her. She can't handle him, She hates him and so many other things. It really saddens me to here these things. I love being with my kids and
if they are away from me for more than three days then I start to loose sleep.
The sound of children playing and laughing is one of the best sounds in the world but obviously not everybody feels the same. If I could have my friends child on a fulltime basis I would but at the moment it just isn't possible.We do have him come stay with us often though and at first years ago he had violent ways of doing things but I havn't had a problem from him in years because he knows my rules and he agrees with them. He is my angel amn he is twelve now and I really think it is sad that his mum does not even try to enjoy him at all.
I know if something happened to him then she would be sad but I also think she would feel relief and that is devastating to me. She cares more about her cheating boyfriend than her own kids.
I enjoy my children and want to be with them always, My husband has to keep reminding me that they need to be let go so that they can grow up and enjoy life with people other than me. I guess I know this I just want it to last as long as possible. I cried when I got the enrolment forms for my eldest to go to high school. I will always enjoy my children no matter what.
I have seen parents who have lost children and I don't know how they survive. I want to enjoy every minute with my children. You never know what might happen in the future so enjoy your children now just in case.