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Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

cookclan by cookclan Young Parent(January 2007) (rank 10th)
Hi there...... Your teen is at a party..... Someone is jumping all around and having a ball full of energy...... Someone walks up to your teen and says here try these they can make you feel like that......Pointing to the person who is dancing away with unlimited energy.... What are these
pills and what can they do to your teen.......

I am 33 nearly 34 and in my teen years the talked about drug was speed...... Alot of my friends used it.

My Mum is 59  nearly 60 and her era had  marijuana...... Alot of her friends used it....

The drug of this era seems to be these party pills........  It is commonly known around teens in our area as pilling....... They love doing it it makes them feel great an enourmaous burst of energy a wonderful feeling of elation.......

Teenagers will try things as they grow and start to learn about life. We all did it as our parents slowly let the aapron strings a little longer bit by bit.... Some of us tried tobacco some alcohol some marijuana and some of us went on to experiement further with drugs....

We can try to hide these street drugs from our kids but alas we can not do it. If we stop them from going to parties and dances they will stay at a friends house and take them there. Not all teens will do these or even think of trying them but I thought if I wrote something on them and the side effects then you could maybe see the signs of if your teens could be using them.

Okay to start with I will talk about   cannabis
  • Marijuana is the most common illegal drug used these days and has been for a long time.
  • Marijuana is the chopped up form of cannabis and is smoked in a pipe(bong) or a rolled cigarette form.
  • Hashish is dried cannibis resin and usually comes in blocks. People usually do baking with this hence hash cookies but can also be smoked
  • Some of the street names for this drug are  "Grass", "pot", "hash", "weed", "reefer", "dope", "herb", "mull", "buddha", "ganja", "joint", "stick", "buckets", "cones", "skunk", "hydro", "yarndi", "smoke", "hooch"
This drug is a depressant and has all over effects. The usual tell tale signs of marijuana use is glassy eyes and slow movement and speech along with laughing and paranoia about everything. It has a sweet sickly smell to it.  This drug can also give relaxation but with that also a loss of inhaitions and make you very hungry commonly known as the "munchies"

This is a part from The drug info clearing house I have cut and pasted to show you the big concern of this drug.

  • It is believed that cannabis use—especially if heavy and regular—may be linked to a condition known as a drug-induced psychosis, or "cannabis psychosis". This can last up to a few days. The episodes are often characterised by hallucinations, delusions, memory loss and confusion.
  • There is some evidence that regular cannabis use increases the likelihood of psychotic symptoms occurring in an individual who is vulnerable due to a personal or family history of mental illness. Cannabis also appears to make psychotic symptoms worse for those with schizophrenia and lowers the chances of recovery from a psychotic episode.
If you think your child may be doing this drug ask.... and give them the full details of this drug there are many good sites on the net for this along with many great pamphlets at you local mental health clinic..

Next drug to talk about  are commonly know as a party drug it is  Ecstasy

  • This drug was commonly used in nightclubs and rave parties but has slowly spread its wings and is commonly used not only by teens but also research shows professional people into their forties.
  • Ecstasy is (MDMA, methylenedioxymethamphetamine) it comes in alot of forms of tablets these tablets are in different colours and have different nick names some of these are shreks, euros, ying yangs, pac man, sheck2, asto boys, and tweetys  to name a few.
  • Some of the street names for this drug are E, XTC and eccy.
This drug is a stimulant and hallucinogen. It has an energising effect. It can give feelings of emotional warmth, empathy toward others, a general sense of well being and decreased anxiety. BUT as with most drugs it also wears off. Leaving feelings of paranoia and crying and dryness in the mouth.

I have cut and pasted this piece below for you to read as I felt it was really important

Levels of harm

Ecstasy is often made by “backyard chemists”, and tablets sold as ecstasy can contain a variety of amphetamine-related substances that can further increase the risks of taking this drug.

The negative psychological effects of ecstasy include: anxiety, depression, depersonalisation, confusion, hallucinations, flashbacks, aggression, impulsivity, lack of motivation, panic attacks and paranoia.

The physical effects of ecstasy include raised blood pressure, a rise in body temperature, faster heartbeat, skin tingles, sudden sweating and dilated pupils. Some people may also experience unsteadiness, nausea and possibly vomiting, jaw clenching, teeth grinding, muscle aches, stiffness, impairment of motor control, blurred vision, insomnia and fatigue.

The toxic effects of ecstasy that can be fatal are:

  • high body temperature leading to multiple organ failure
  • blood clotting
  • kidney failure.

High body temperature and excessive dancing can cause dehydration so it is important for users to be aware of water consumption. However, excessive water intake can lead to abnormally low body temperature and swelling of the brain.

The long-term risks of taking ecstasy are still not known. Animal studies have shown that ecstasy is a “neurotoxin”, which means it damages brain cells. This may lead to long-term brain damage.

If you suspect you child is taking these talk to them or listen to their friends and them talk you might hear one of the names of these drugs in their convo. The below link is a fantastic link please have a look. I am thinking of writing a few more things like this in the advice section about other drugs and outside influences for our teenagers at a later date but I am just not too sure when. Let me know if this has helped you at all by voting and leaving any helpful comments. Thank you


I have heard many a teenager tell me that these tablets are just fun. Well NO they aren't they are dangerous and a very scarey thing for just about any parent who thinks their child might be using. Keep the lines of communication open with your teen talk to them often about this and other formally taboo subjects. The more they know the less likely they are to try these pills. I can not stress this enough.......

Cheers

Angie


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wildice
October 4th | wildice
Fantastic - just one thing ...

I guess my question would be how to get through to your teen who is already on the trail of drug useage. There is a story below of a young lady who waited until she was 18 to try smoko, at the request of her parents. This young lady would be one in a hundred. Most young ones these days are exposed to marijuana from year 7 (sometimes earlier) and if they choose to try this drug, chances are that they will go on to try other drugs. Kind of like a spiral effect. No, I am not saying it is "the gateway drug", I'm simply stating a simple fact. We desperately need good, accurate information on what sort of drugs our children are being exposed to. And, yes, it's a fact that professionals in their forties and fifties are taking recreational drugs as pointed out in one of the comments below. How is any adult who is not constantly exposed to these things supposed to keep abreast of what is going on out there? Let me give you an example. Ecstacy or 'E' may contain MDMA (this is the pure 'E') or MDA, it may contain amphetamine, it may be mixed with heroin or it may be a mixture of chemicals that will take the user by surprise.

ALERT : One of the latest drugs going about in the Penrith area of NSW contains two chemicals and is being sold as 'E' - the links to the two chemicals are http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Benzylpiperazine and http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/3-Trifluoromethylphenylpiperazine. The first chemical link is the one which kicks in first and then, a couple of hours later, the second chemical link kicks in. Nice (not). How do I know? I don't feel obliged to release that information except to say that it was not personal experience but it WAS personally witnessed.

Unfortunately, I do not see a way where we can monitor what our kids are taking when the sources for obtaining these drugs remain so secretive and unreliable. I do remember seeing a documentary on the ABC late one night on exactly what the government IS NOT doing to keep these drugs out of our society ... perhaps someone else has seen it. There are ways and means of stopping these home cooks but the government will not do anything as it would (somehow, I don't quite remember how it worked) affect the big business boys and corporations in a financially negative way and shareholders would suffer - ergo, nothing practical is done. (How many times has the Fauldings pharmaceutical company in SA been raided and ransacked due to lax security? Too many times to be accidental - criminals simply aren't that clever without help from either a company insider or protection from the authorities.)

However I put those links there to try to emphasise exactly how dangerous these substances are to our youth. This is Gen Y doing all this stuff, buying all this lethal crap, and they are destroying themselves systematically. Gen X are barely any better, whether in a suit and tie or not - the only difference is they generally won't be parents if they are still 'partying'. Look at those links - try to imagine your under-age child experiencing these symptoms. Then, someone, please tell me how we get through to the young ones and get them to understand that they are playing russian roulette everytime someone hands them a disco bikkie.

As a side note, you will find that Wikipedia is a minefield of information which is backed up by references should you care to check the credentials of same.



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      wildice
October 4th | wildice
Re: Fantastic - just one thing ...

Oh, I forgot, if any PARENT would like further links to resources on drugs, specifically "party" drugs, just let me know and I will point you in the right direction. I do not feel like putting the links up for public scrutiny as there are obviously young people on this site who will take the links and use them for self-education. The more these little toe-rags know, the more likely they are to get themselves found out, caught, whatever. The fine line between educating young people and giving them carte-blanche is about here. There was another good point made below - once you have discussed this issue with your teenagers, leave the subject alone. The more you discuss the matter, the more they think they are missing out on something exciting. Being a Hep C sufferer I can only tell these little 'know-it-all's' that they know nothing of any worth.



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Arna
September 21st | Arna
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

A good start to an article.  Adding in more drugs and maybe some help lines for those wanting to learn more would be good.



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smsjs
September 21st | smsjs
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

Dionn said this earlier: "you cant get addicted from trying anything once, its not physically let alone mentally possible for your body to become dependent on it from once"

Sorry fella, I have to disagree here. Heroin and crystal meth are two substances that do hook a lot of people the very fist time they try it.

Heroin is very bad for getting people addicted. This is why dealers used to patrol schools and offer $5 trial hit kits. Each kit contained a needle, spoon, a lighter, sterilized medical water and enough heroin for a taste....for a sampler. These kits were well known for creating long term heroin users, that went from the one $5 kit to a few hundred dollars a pop junkies.

Crystal meth has similar addictive properties, but is far far worse than heroin. The big hook for crystal meth is the way it makes a person feel. Not only does it have sedative properties like Heroin, it also make people feel on top of the world and feel like they can do anything.

Both create an addiction very rapidly, with as many as 60% of first time users being totally hooked after the first taste.

Heroin is the "softer" drug in this case, because after overdosing, an addict can be injected with a certain drug that counteracts the effects of heroin for long enough to begin appropriate recovery treatment. There is no known treatment for Meth, and because of the rages that the meth users get into, it makes it nearly impossible to hold them down for treatment. Most people who overdose on Meth die.....as do a large number of users, due to a total disinterest in doing things to look after themselves like eating and drinking.

Dionn, just because you have been lucky, does not mean that a particular drug is safe to use or non addictive. Keep up the drug use and you will get bitten eventually......once you do well I guess you won't be about to argue the point!

 



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blue-raven
September 21st | blue-raven
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

I am a former party girl and i took these drugs (mostly smoked but did have a few drinks spiked!) I want to add two other drugs to your list.

1 red mistibushy (sorry about spelling) This drug is a dangerous form of GHB and will kill. There have been many deaths attributed to this "party" drug. It dehydrates the body causing a massive organ shut down and death. death occurs 3 to 12 hrs after consumming and permant brain damage if your lucky enough to recieve medical treatment within the first 2hrs after.

2 crystal meyth. This causes pyschotic episodes and is highly addictive. Addicts are recognised by pox marks on their face and bodies. Excess scarring from scratching. The inability to recognise reality from fantasy when high. Addicts die within 2 to 3 yrs depending on their level of addiction. Some live much longer. Drying out is a long an painful process. There was some youtube footage of a young high on this drug. There was also a show (aired on Austar and Foxtel) about crystal meth. It was very informative.

Raven



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sandra106
September 20th | sandra106
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

good to hear a teenagers point of view but doesn't mean it is right  I wonder how their health will be 20 years down the track I would say not looking to good. Some people just simply do not have the maturity to realise what they are doing to themselves.



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smsjs
September 20th | smsjs
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

Time for me to open up and say a few things here.....

I grew up around drugs. My Mum was a drug addict (although she will never admit it) and I witnessed lots of different emotions and reactions with the different drugs that people use. I watched my Mum's friends come and go, after getting high or stoned....Something that put me off any drugs for life...heck I struggle to take painkillers these days, simply because of my childhood memories of my Mum and her friends.

Marijuana is usually regarded as the "safe" drug. People who use it believe that there are no long term side effects from its consumption....Well I can say without bias or over inflated ideals......the long term effects vary from person to person as do the immediate effects. Here is a short list of the most commonly occurring long term effects (Most often people only suffer from one or two effects and don't realize they have them):

  • Short temper
  • Reliance on Marijuana to help keep "calm" or to Relax
  • Paranoia
  • Mild Schizophrenia like episodes
  • Inability to hold a decent conversation, due to their minds being seriously slowed
  • Looking at life from an unrealistic view point
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • No longer able to trust even closest friends and family, for fear of being ripped off

There are more of these common, long term effects but I don't need to list them all.

Yes lots of people suffer similar things as a result of life in general, but the drug users symptoms are more pronounced or to a greater extreme.

Ecstasy or MDMA and a whole host of other representative names is the most common party drug going around. This is made in backyard labs, often to a really bad quality (although recent times overdoses because of a pure product have been happening with amazing regularity lately). These home made drugs are often cut with products like baking soda, icing sugar and even drain cleaner to make the mixture go a little further and make more profit when it is sold. About 6 months ago, a young girl (14) years old, dropped dead at a friends party after taking 1/2 an ecstasy tablet. The tablet turned out to contain drain cleaner, and it killed her within 5 minutes of her swallowing the tablet. This is a very dangerous drug because of the way it works on the human body, both stimulating and sedating at the same time.

Because of the way that MDMA is made, it is highly dangerous. One simple "good time" pill might take you to your grave......depending on what it is cut with, you don't even know if it is cut with something that you are allergic to.....you just wouldn't know.

Speed is a particularly nasty drug, just like MDMA it is often made in backyard labs, and cut with undesirable powders. Speed can be injected, snorted or swallowed. Speed hypes up your body and makes you feel like you have energy to burn. You rarely will feel hungry or thirsty and often will over extend your bodies stored energy reserves and if using for long enough periods can cause irreparable damage. Liver damage is a common problem here.

Most people who use drugs will tell us that there are no side effects to these fun time products...but the physical, attitudinal, emotional and mental differences/changes we see as we watch from the outside as the drug use goes on, prove to us that these drugs are no good. I have watched good friends change into human wastepiles after years on drugs. None of them believe anything has happened to them, yet they have gone from decent upstanding citizens who were proud of their appearance and made good efforts to be decent people and are now broke all the time, poorly dressed and beg me for money often so they can "score" tonight....

I'm sorry if people disagree with me, but Drugs are nothing but trouble. Anyone needing drugs to enjoy life (with the exception of people needing prescription drugs for legit reasons), are not worth the trouble of getting to know. If you have watched friends steadily lose their health and quality of life, because of their drug abuse...you would be against drugs too. Who here has witnessed the horror of an overdose, or the absolute mess that is a withdrawal episode?

I have witnessed many of both....Overdoses are so bad, because the people overdosing don't know they are...they just think they are getting an ultimate rush from the good gear they took. Often choking on their own vomit after passing out and some  have a massive heart attacks or strokes. Marijuana is a drug/plant that you can't really overdose on, but you can have too much, which will either make you feel sick and throw up, or simply pass out and sleep for a while. Either way, it is not something you want to put your body or yourself through.

Withdrawals are worse than overdoses....because of the way the body chemically bonds with the active part of the drugs, your body gets to the point where it will cause you physical and mental pain just to get you to feed the craving. Those suffering from withdrawals often are the peopl who are likely to rob someone or commit a crime to pay for their next fix. Withdrawals are so bad that if the body is not given its fix, it will simply cause more pain and bad feeling until its needs are met. This is why it very difficult for a user or addict to stop taking the drugs....they can't face the pain, and the harshness of the reality of their lives. Instead opting to stay "numb" in an altered state, just to feel "normal".

The horrible thing is...most people who become addicts know the pain they are causing others, are often still very nice people...but when the drug craving gets too much, they are no longer able to function until they have their fix.

The party drugs our kids are exposed to are just the tip of the iceberg......the danger is high, the fallout great and the downward spiral begins.......that is unless the teen can stand up and say no...

We can't totally shield our kids from drugs, as they are everywhere...even in our kids schools. We can try to teach our kids to resist the temptation and hope that they remember what we teach them when they find themselves facing drugs....I only hope that my kids have the strength and confidence to say no......

 



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dionn
September 20th | dionn
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

You people are so biased, i'm an 18 year old male and im gonna set a lot of your stupid facts straight. i have tried weed, ecstasy, ice, mushies, ketamine, and speed and i have never had anything wrong happen  to me. i believe that everyone should try drugs at least once because it opens your mind and if you are speaking about teenagers being ignorant maybe you parents should look at yourselves for a change and actually listen to someone with experience. you cant get addicted from trying anything once, its not physically let alone mentally possible for your body to become dependent on it from once. i have a great group of mates who we take drugs here and there, we went through a stage where we started to get bad and we all noticed it so we stopped now we just do it at events. personally trying drugs opens up your mind to the world and many other things. when you hear about people dying from pills, its not the actual pill that kills them, its because they have not drank enough water or drank to much. your actually more likely to die from choking on a cabbage leaf than from a pill. thats why i believe instead of all you parents telling your kids drugs are bad and trying to stop them from making decisions because really there going to try something eventually whether you like it or not you cant stop them from making choices, therefore you should give them the right information on how to be safe when taking certain drugs. such as every hour on ecstasy it is advised to drink no more than a 500mL bottle of water when not dancing and not to drink more than 600mL when dancing. i am glad that i have taken these drugs and will continue to do so on the rare occasion because they are fun and they aren't bad there just stereotyped to be by ignorant people such as yourselves who havnt tried them yet you say there bad. wouldnt you rather your kid tell you they are starting to get reliant on a certain drug to have a good time because they can feel comfortable about talking about their drug using experiences with you rather than your child getting dependent on you without you having a clue if he or she is even taking drugs. think about parents.



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      Arna
September 21st | Arna
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

It is your life, so do with it what you will, but...

Just because you are 18 and legally an adult, doesn't mean you know what you are talking about.  I have been around people who have used drugs.  I have had to call for an ambulance because of people overdosing.  I have seen first hand the damage it causes- the physical effects and the mental effects, not to mention the damage done from riding a motor bike while taking speed (a friend of mine was stupid enough to try it).

My uncle was a heroin user, and it killed him in the end.  He ended up with Hepatitis C, which screwed his liver, and he died as a result of massive haemorrage in his liver.  That is a common complication with all drugs, legal or not,- Liver damage isn't a joke.

Clearly you still have much growing up to do before you are ready to be a responsible adult.  Encouraging children to take drugs is highly irresponsible, if not criminal.

No matter how frequently you use drugs, your body doesn't react the same way every time.  Not every mix is the same, and a more pure mix could kill you on the first taste.

Clearly you aren't going to listen to people who know more about drugs than you do, but think on this - do you plan on having a family in the future?  If you do, you are running the risk of producing defective sperm which means a significant increase in birth defects.  Do you want to do that to a child?



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           jimmymac
September 25th | jimmymac
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

your all idiots. Arna, stop trying to get pity and make it look like you know all about drugs, its not working. that kid is the only one here with ACTUAL experiences. your all goin on about how your parents did this or your friends did this. or you saw this or that. thats bullshit, if you havnt done it or sold it then shut up. stop trying to look like 'the responsible adult' it makes you look like a tool. your all embarasing yourselfs about how you know all the facts and stuff but not anything about what actually hapens. that last paragraph you said, im fair sure he dosnt care the slightest.  your all tools.

catch



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                smsjs
September 25th | smsjs
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

jimmymac, you are being the silly one here dude....

You seem to forget that this site is totally oriented towards helping people, not unloading your mind on people that are better able to scribe their experiences into legible sentences than yourself.

There are people here within this awesome community that have been exposed to or have abused drugs in their past. These people are giving the best advice they can offer, drawing from the vast experiences they have had. Providing viewpoints from within the drug scene and from outside looking in.  Coming here and calling them all tools proves to me that you are indeed the tool.

I mentioned what my Mother did.....I never mentioned what I have done, so before you go abusing people...get to know us first.  We are all here to share our life experiences, both good and bad, to try our best to provide assistance to the people who come here and ask for it. There are not many places in this world where this sort of "togetherness" actually happens. 

It is the sharing of our own life experiences that generates true wisdom. I learn from people here all about the things I have not experienced, and n turn they learn things from me. Together we all work to help those who are yet to experience stuff in life. Wit this issue...the drugs topic, people don't need to have taken drugs to know how it affects people. There are many who have lived with a parent, partner, sibling or good friend that has used or died from using drugs. These people are sharing their experiences in the form of solid advice...

Dude, my advice to you regarding your very shallow and insincere rantings:

Shut Up



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                mystikal
September 25th | mystikal
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

Wow you're obviously the same person or a mate of the aforementioned user. Your spelling and grammar isn't even average just like the first user. You sound nothing short of a douchebag. If you want to talk about experiences, I used to be a weed smoker as well as took pills so I have first hand experience. I also studied substance abuse through psychology at university so I'm educated on that level too. So you took water so your insides didn't fry, that doesn't change the facts, what now? I'll educate my son on the facts, such as first time smoking marijuana can bring out pre-existing Schitzophrenia which may not have surfaced if you chose not to smoke it.



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                     Arna
September 25th | Arna
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

Of course!  I forgot the psychological problems associated with drug use!  Thanks for adding that in ;)

 



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                          mystikal
September 25th | mystikal
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lol my uncle is a prime example for that one. He was an absolute genius, degrees coming out of his ass and used to play pretty much any instrument you could think of for several bands (he was their call in). First time smoking marijuana and now he has schitzophrenia. He's medicated up to his eyeballs just to live life!



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                               Arna
September 25th | Arna
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

Yes, even the smart ones can make mistakes!  I hope he is doing ok.



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                Arna
September 25th | Arna
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

Pity?  Anyone who pitys me is a fool, I don't look for pity, nor do I expect it.  i have learned from all my experiences, and I have become a better person because of them.

Responsible adult?  Yeah, I am now, but wasn't a few years back.  My ex was a drug dealer, and I was stupid enough to cover for him for a long time.   You want to know what kind of place I used to live in then Google Ainslie Village Canberra and see what you get.  A place like that teaches you what kind of person you want to be and what you don't want to be.  For a person who loves the drug scene, then it is like being a kid in a candy store- every drug imaginable is sold there on a daily basis, and the cops know it too, but prefer to leave alone because it isn't a safe place to be.  They don't knick name the place Hotel California for nothing.

You don't have to take drugs yourself to know what they are really like.  Research (which is what a responsible person does) and first hand experience with drug users gives as much info on drugs as a person needs.

As for all of us being tools, yeah, we are.  SMART TOOLS!  Why?  Because we make informed decisions by doing our research and seeing other people's mistakes.

If you want to keep getting nasty on this site, then be warned- your activity and the way you are using this site is being monitored, and if you keep pushing the boundaries, you will find your account being reported and deleted.  Obviously you aren't here for parenting related stuff, so I for one would like to know why you are here.



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      lexiw
October 10th | lexiw
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

Ok you say all these people are biased well I HAVE BEEN THERE AND SO HAS MY HUSBAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OPEN YOUR MIND MY ARSE you need to change your way of thinking child because at the age of 32 I have had friends die from over doses,friends commit suicide, babies die because their drug addict parents thought it wouldn't hurt them just make them sleep, thses are all things that I have been there for and been a part of while doing drugs. My memory is really bad, my speech sometimes slurrs and I have anxiety issues, heart issues all from drug use I have been clean now for almost 5 years and still I am sufferring these effects and my husband along with me so please never think that what you are doing is ok because it is not, you will look back one day and wish you had never touched the stuff.

Sorry fellow mintiers, for those of you who know me you know I am not normally so full on but this comment really makes me upset, makes me remember those that would still be here if only we had never touched drugs or alcohol.

 Lexi xxx



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sandra106
August 30th | sandra106
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

good to hear a  younger persons view  druggieoneone   this is all scary stuff that's for sure.



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druggieoneoone
March 2009 | druggieoneoone
wow...

 um where to start first.

I am an 18 year old college student and let me just tell any parents reading this that a lot of this is not true...

If you are reading this and you don't like what you are reading than i urge you to keep reading cause this is a teenagers view on this drug culture. its not pretty and its not G rated. so suffer through it and grow a pair or dont read this and keep libing in your sheltered little bubble that you call life.

the names are not right or out dated, many of the reasons why people do these drugs are not listed. and the ones that are listed are weak and non specific. 

Many of the side effects are extreme and will not happen if your kid does do these drugs.  

i have done "E" and yes in northern california Ecstasy is called "E"

and as far as mr i'm 21 so i know my stuff down here below me, even you don't know how things work.

Weed can be laced with any drug from melted down asprin, to give you a more relaxing high, to heroine, which is fatal.  Which does not mean that all of it is, it just means that it can be. So you need to be smart about if and not go telling your kid how completely horrible weed is.   

and the long term risks are known, it destroys brain cells

the best way to look at it is for every 10 pills that a person does, a hole about the size of a quarter is killed.

basicly if you are a parent and you read this and try to go talk to your kids thinking that you know your shit.... don't you WILL make a fool of yourself and loose any attention that your kid may be giving you at the time.

And as far as keeping your kids away from drugs... is to be good parents, and i don't mean a parents version of a good parent i mean you need to trust your kid and only not trust them when they do something that goes against you trust...

actually that is a load of bull, there is no way to keep your kid from getiing exposed to drugs. they will and then its at that moment where you have to let go and hope that you "little ray of sunshine" chooses to say no. cause you wont be there the whole time, and when you aren't there its all down to what they want. not what you want.

 



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HippieTA
July 2008 | HippieTA
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

So my response to this may not be a popular one.

First of all, I'm 21, which is about as close to being a teenager and being an adult that you can be.  It wasn't long ago at all for me since I was a teenager.  I'm also a TA at a local private Montessori school.    I also am a frequent cannabis user.

While I agree that these drugs are NOT things that any teens should be using, as their brains aren't mature enough yet to handle the chemical or make well thought out decisions,  I saw a lot on here regarding the specific drug that I know for a fact to either be absolutely false or not disclosing all the information.  

For example, a bong and a pipe are two different things.   A glass pipe requires no water.  A bong requires water and is usually much bigger and is designed to take the impurities out of the smoke before it's inhaled.  This may seem a petty thing to you, but to your child it only proves how much you DON'T know about the subject. 

When I was a child, I went through the drugs and violence program at school.  I ate up everything they had to say to me.  As I began to mature, however, I discovered a great deal of information that they gave me was exactly what I read above.  Either misleading or lacking full disclosure.   As a teenager, that sort of discovery makes you wonder.  How much else are they lying to us about?    This can encourage a teen to run out and try other harder substances, believing that everything they were told was a lie.  

I encourage many of you to do your own research on unbiased sites regarding drug use, specifically cannibis.  I think you'll find that the specific drug isn't really as harmful as what this article states.  Being bipolar, with a history of mental illness as well as familial problems I can tell you that I have NEVER experienced any sort of psychotic symptoms associated with my marijuana use.   If anything, for the past two years that I've been using cannibis regularly, in conjunction with my mood stabilizer,  I haven't felt so sane in quite sometime.  It does for me, medicinally, what my mood stabilizer does.  Only better.   

Teens are smart.  They lack decision making skills of adults, but they are smart, and they talk.  They will soon find out if the information on these drugs you're giving them is false or if you're mistaken. 

My parents were hippies.  They never did any drugs around me but informed me when I was younger that they had and that it was fun.  Because lets face it.  It is.  I've had my negative experiences with a few, but in large...drugs are fun.  Or people wouldn't take them.  However, they also explained to me that they wouldn't appreciate me trying them until I was at least 18.  And because they were so ridiculously honest with me, I honored their request.   Now, I am a regular pot user.  However, I think without their honesty and supervision, I would have tried it sooner and with more irresponsibility than I did.  

Some people may not agree that drug use is okay at any age, but let's face it.  You only have control of your children until they're 18.  Then they make their own choices.  Give them the information they need to keep those choices from destroying them.  Without my parent's support and honesty I would probably be a no good stoner, but that isn't the case.   I work 35 hours a week with children and I would never do drugs before or during work.   I sing with a choir, and am going to college.  I am a great example of how cannibis use will not destroy your child's life. 

I also encourage you to do a little research as to WHY cannibis was made illegal in the first place.  It was done more for political reasons than for any concern for American citizens.   It is nearly impossible to become PHYSICALLY addicted to the stuff, which is more than I can say for alcohol, though it can be mentally addictive for those who have addictive personalities.   It will not give you liver problems.  I have never found any information on anyone overdosing or dying from cannibis use.  

Truthfully, your kid could be getting into things much worse than cannibis.   And a few of those things that are worse are actually *gasp* legal!   If  your child is doing acid, extacy, pcp, speed, coke or crack, I'd be concerned.   These can have instant and long term consequences that at their age, they would not be able to handle.   The info I saw for extasy on this article was about spot on.  Personally, I would never try the stuff.  It's not regulated or natural so it could be cut with all sorts of nasty things.  Marijuana however, can only really be laced with PCP without the buyer noticing. 

Choose your battles parents.



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      August88
July 2008 | August88
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

OK I have read with interest and consideration everything you have said but it still does not stop me from wanting my kids not to do drugs even marijuana! I don't want them destroying there bodies with alcohol or cigerettes either. If you have made that choice even knowing all the risks and all the facts then that is fine. You can have your opinion that it is doing you no harm. It may not destroy your liver but it has to have some effect on your lungs. My son is 17 and he knows my views. Of course that does not stop him from wanting to make his own choices. I can't control all that he does when he is not under my roof but I feel as a mother you can never stop wanting the best of health for your children. There are many articles on drugs on the net so go for your life and keep researching. If you can give us some tips on how to stop our teens from becoming dependent on drugs I would love to hear it because sorry I don't want my children being dependent on anything. It is such a waste of money too. It is getting harder to make our money stretch these days and I would love to see them using it to travel the world or get themselves set up. I know I don't sound too much fun but I will not just give up on them and be happy with that.



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           HippieTA
July 2008 | HippieTA
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

I understand that completely.   Yes, it is said that one joint contains more carcinogens than an entire pack of ciggarettes.  The only difference is that with weed, you'd be kind of silly to smoke the whole joint.   It takes maybe 3 or 4 puffs for me to get to the place I want to be and that's with the tolerance I've built up for the stuff. 

It is(or should be) every parent's wish to see their child healthy and happy and I wouldn't hold it against you for not wanting your 17 year old son to do that mess.   I wouldn't either.  Like I said, his brain isn't mature enough for it yet.  Because it's illegal, there haven't been a whole lot of really unbiased studies on the stuff, but I'm thinking anything with hallucinogenic qualities(which pot does have) could be detrimental to a growing brain.  The only trouble is, I really dislike seeing marijuana put on a par with Extasy.   That stuff can kill you the first time.  I also dislike seeing it treated as worse than alcohol because I have a family full of alcoholics and it hurts them so much worse than if they were smoking.  

To boot, and this is what I thought of when you made mention of wanting your son to be healthy.   Weed has helped me so much with my Bipolar disorder.   Before I started, even with my mood stabilizer I would have been extremely upset at the slightest thing.  Now, even when I'm not high (which is the majority of the time) I'm really mellow and calm and can be rational.  I feel better. 

But totally, don't let your 17 year old smoke.   I suppose I'm just sick and tired of watching children be filled up with incorrect information so as to perpetuate what seems to me a useless prejudice.   I kind of feel like that's the reason it's still illegal.  All the kids who actually listened what the drug and violence officers had to say in school are voting.   Bah....but I'll stay off politics. 



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                August88
July 2008 | August88
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

Thanks for replying. I do understand what you are saying. I have alcoholics in my family and I was married to one. It's one thing to say don't let your 17 year old smoke, but another for him to listen and accept that! LOL Life isn't that idealistic but he respects my rules in my home and around me. I don't know if Angie is putting marijuana in the same category as ecstasy I think her main point is to talk to your teens about it and find all you can about it so that you are informed when you talk to them. I know my sons views, we have talked about it. Unfortunately a lot of people view it as a soft drug with no side effects. I could go on and on but it is just obvious we have different views but I respect your opinion, I know a lot of people that do smoke it and they are leading normal lives it just isn't for me. On this site we are sharing advice on parenting so the advice is actually from peoples own experiences.



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      cookclan
September 2008 | cookclan
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

Thanks for your comment and I respect your opinion on this hey....But here is my opinion...My son recently has turned back to marijuana use...Recently i picked him up from a party and he was really quiet crazy...He was abusing me and the strength he had in him was scary....He got angry and started to peel away 6ft fence palings...He was just stoned....You may be one of the lucky ones...I have a friend whos son is in and out of mental health hospital because from his marijuana use he is now all the time psychotic....I too have used weed and know what you are saying but everyone is different....I will never condone its use to any of my children but I will make sure they know all the possible dangers of it....I know the difference between a bong a glass pipe a brass pipe even as a younger user I smoked it through a can with holes poked in it or even a bucket bong...I am not claiming to be innocent in my experimentation at all...Nor am I claiming to know it all....All i want is to inform others of the basic facts of its use....You say that there is no deaths caused by marijuana....My husband may disagree with you there as he watched one of his mates spin into being a total pot head after becoming psychogically addicted to this stuff and actually tried to revive him from a bath tub after he was that stoned he took his own life...Pot may not have been the full factor of him slitting his wrists and hoping in that bath....But I am sure being under the influence didnt help with his depression....Just my thoughts and opinions on this...Oh and lastly I am in no way comparing these two drugs as being on the same par...They both scare me....E a little more that pot...You have a great day and thanks for your comments....

cheers

Angie



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sammyj
4.00 (Good) | August 2007 | sammyj
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

As a teenager, i have seen and heard of a lot of drugs that are available throughout not only home use but also at parties and other events. It is sad to see that all teenagers are going to be offered some kind of drug in their lives and that the majority of them will say yes and they will take them. i never have agreed with any kind of drugs, because i have seen the affects that it has on people. it takes somones life by the handles and tips it upside down. i think the important question that we have to ask ourselves is, are our parents using the right psychology. Although i have never done drugs and i am not a parent, i have noticed that parents can be overprotective when it comes down to talking to their kids about drugs. As some parents will notice, sometimes you tell you what oppinion you have on things and your chld wil go against what you have said. i think it is important to tell your children what drugs there are out there, what affects they can have on people and not to take them when they are offered to you, but keeping them indoors as much as possible and trying to keep them away from the temptations that are out there will only make them more anxious to experiment and try drugs. also the more you mention drugs the more it becomes interesting, so after you have had a discussion with your children about drugs try not to bring the topic up so much. It is important to know that know matter how much you tell your children about drugs and how they should avoid them, it is your child descision wheather or not to take them or not, not the parents. The best thing parents can do is prepare their children, becuase when it comes time, it is the childs choice. it depends on how much inner strength your child has to say NO!



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sadielady
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | sadielady
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...
I think that Ecstasy is on the rise with teens--as well as prescription drugs.  As the mom of teens, I am aware and worried about these potential risks.  I read an article recently that I found to be very interesting and I thought I would share it, http://www.connectwithkids.com/tipsheet/2006/264_jan18/ecstasy.html.  This was written by a company called Connect with Kids, www.connectwithkids.com.  They produce programs that are reality-based and feature real kids discussing real issues.  All of the programs have one focus; to improve the lives of children and the help parents become better parents. 


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      robalman
April 2008 | robalman
Re: Illegal Drugs and teens...Marijuana...Ecstasy...

Great link.

Drugs are a sad part of many lives and this is why we need to know as much as we can because it is just that...a part of many lives and it affects us in many dirrect and indirrect ways.

Robert



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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | hermy
marijuana
the statement about psychotic symptoms occurring in an individual.......they are so true and its not always nessesary for there to be a family history......my own brother smoked the staff so much that in the end it wrecked his life......he has finally stop smoking this drug and is finally getting his life back.....one thing he will never get be without though, is his mental illness.....that will stay with him till the end, only cause he abused pot so much.......everyone should be aware of the damge marijuana can cause......great advice Angie......xxx


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      robalman
April 2008 | robalman
Re: marijuana

I wish I had a sister like you when I was smoking and dealing.

One thing I did find out though was when I gave it all up I suddenly had no friends. The funny part though is that gave me a chance to meet people outside that fatal circle.

The second best decission I ever made.

Robert



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winja
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | winja
drugs in your own backyard
too many of my friends dont drink on our nightclubbing nights anymore they get into th bickies(pills) and ping off their faces all night, none of them see a prob with it they can stay up all night and go to work the next day and continue their weekend with no effect as far as they can see, the  thing is these are my friends that are not low income most of them had their first homes by 21 they work good jobs they have great social lives and are close to their families, no one will ever know because on the outside these look like perfect ppl and i look like the screwup even tho i dont do drugs im a low income single parent .  the saddest thing that i know for certain though is that even though these are smart ppl who know the risks one will have to die for the rest to stop and it breaks my heart.


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      robalman
April 2008 | robalman
Re: drugs in your own backyard

This is an expensive price to pay and makes one so sad that you are so true.

No matter what they do in life they are still someones children, friend, partner etc...someone will shed a tear for the loss.

Now this may seem harsh but if that persons life means that they save the rest of the friends then was it a waste...I don't know, just asking the Question.

Robert



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August88
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | August88
drugs
You have done it again. Great piece. It is amazing how acceptable marijuana is now. It is really hard to get our kids to see that it is a bad thing if a lot of their friends parents use it all the time. Plus a lot of these teen movies have teens using it as if it is the norm to do. I feel I am up against a lot of competition in keeping them away from this drug. I know a lot of people that think it is a soft drug and want it legalised. It is a health issue for me as I don't even want people smoking cigerettes around my children. I want them to respect there bodies and play sport and not waste money etc.
Anyway I can go on forever about what I want! What was it you said about the jelly? Ha ha


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      robalman
April 2008 | robalman
Re: drugs

Yes we have been blinded by the social acceptability of pot.

Wish people would realise that the 60's and 70's have gone.

Robert



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madchanny
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | madchanny
people have got to get with the times to detect
any sort of effects from drugs, these articles are great Angie, i know i have already commented below, but i just wanted to inform everyone that my 16 year old sisters friend has just overdosed on Ecstasy and ICE, she is ok now but i wonder how she started doing it after knowing her brothers are still on the crap and they are just withering away.

The mother wants to blame her cousin for introducing it to her, but its not the cousins fault, its hers for being a follower (another victim of peer group pressure). People have got to understand that all you need is one pill or snort or whatsoever to OD, this girl is lucky she called the ambulance on her friend who was O.D.ing first before hitting the floor, fitting and throwing up, because if she didn't she would be dead by now.

my b/f's brother has been amitted to the psychiatric ward through smoking Marijuanna causing drug induced psycosis, he is out now but man, paranoid as hell, he thinks everybody is talking behind his back, stealing his things, and thinks his own family is picking on him.  i really hope he quits and gets better soon.

xx channy


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      robalman
April 2008 | robalman
Re: people have got to get with the times to detect

Kids just are not scared about anything.

This is the last one I am going to read today, the whole subject is just so sad and depressing.

There is more to life than Drugs.

Robert (ex drug user)



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           Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2008 | Jessgore
Re: people have got to get with the times to detect

It really hits home sometimes doesn't it...  I have a BIL and SIL in trouble.. and there is nothing we have tried to do that has worked to help them....  They need to want to help themselves now it is in their hands, we tried... We are still there for them, but the rest is up to them..



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                robalman
April 2008 | robalman
Re: people have got to get with the times to detect

I cant keep away.

You are right.

But it doesn't make it any easier on you to see the people you love hurting themselves so much.

You just have to get on with YOUR life.

Robert



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Wendigo
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | Wendigo
Not harmful - yeah sure!

I've heard many people of all ages comment that marajuana isn't bad for you, or at least it's not as bad as tobacco, and isn't addictive. Bolloks!  I'll write more on that later.  I haven't time to go into it now.



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nell18-3
4.68 (Excellent) | February 2007 | nell18-3
Great
Well done Angie
Informative and well written as always
xxx


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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | Kellzacar
Here we Go again

Damned great writing Ang - I love to know your secret! . . . . . . .

 



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Gypsie
4.68 (Excellent) | February 2007 | Gypsie
Well Done

Great article...........

Thankfully my communication lines are open with my teenager, and she has told me of what a lot of teenagers get upto on the weekends  and not all of it is drug related.

I can't even get my girl to take a panadol for pain relief let alone her taking any other drug, so I'm grateful I  have nothing to worry about........yet  



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lexiw
4.68 (Excellent) | February 2007 | lexiw
OMG

I didn't comment on this article angie SORRY mwah

 Lexi xxx

P.S great article

 



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MadMel
4.53 (Excellent) | February 2007 | MadMel
I myself have experimented.
I have smoked marjuana which turned into an issue for me.I have also tried E and magic mushies. I admit it as stupid. It was not peer pressure more of an escape from the crap that was happening in my life.
I dont regret these decisions. I am lucky i came out ok.
Now i am anti drugs. I have kids to think of and putting them in a situation where they may be left without a mother is stupid. This is the reason I quit.
I will be teaching my kids young about drugs and what can happen. I will also be telling them that they can come to me about anything and dont have to hide it. I know most kids try drugs at one point or another and I would prefer to know what is happening in their lives and try and stop it then get a call from the hospital saying something has happened.
Great advice as always Angie.


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Jessgore
4.68 (Excellent) | January 2007 | Jessgore
I don't understand.
I have seen the way people act on drugs, the way it can effect a persons life. I have seen documentaries.
What I can't understand is I am so sure I am not the only person to see this, yet there are thousands if not millions of people doing it still every day..

Oh I won't get addicted, no I am strong willed.. Just once I want to know what it is like.. Yet in all the documentaries I have seen the people always say "It only took one time, my friend said try it and I was hooked."  

Drugs in general scare the crap out of me. I have seen what it does to others, and I swear if my kids even touch the stuff (and I am lucky enough to find out about it) all hell will break lose.  Or at least they won't be on it for long. I'll be on them like a ton of bricks like it or not..... With any luck they won't go there....


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      exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | exquisite-flower
I don't understand.
I agree.  I have been offered drugs a total of three times in my life, and all three people knew me inside out and know I would never touch them.  Why did they bother?  I dont know. 
I dont get the whole why either, because it does only take that first time to get hooked, and then there is all the hurt and pain that a person inflicts on those who are closest to them.  Sometimes having the knowledge is not enough I guess.  I just wish that people would listen first and then use logic.  But with all things forbidden there is allure,but the facts are overwhelmingly bad.  I am with you Jess. If i found out drugs were in my home there would be no place to hide.
This is a great article, and a great education.  Thank you for taking the time to write it.
Peace
EF.x 


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ssedgar
4.68 (Excellent) | January 2007 | ssedgar
Drugs
What a great article ,we as parents need to know as much as possible about drugs to try and keep our kids off them. I know first hand (from my partner) the effect of speed on a person as he is highly addicted to this at the moment and is trying to get clean. This drug is highly addictive it gives the person motivation as i have heard it. When my partner is on it he goes into a cleaning frenzy as he can't stay still he has to keep moving. Once he is coming down off the drug he get really angry and has lashed out, never at us but at the house he has put his fist througha  window and taken the door off its hinges through punching it.


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chargehand01
4.68 (Excellent) | January 2007 | chargehand01
drugs, dope, yuk
I know a lot of people who use dope whether it be weed, speed or whatever, these people used to be friends. they have various problems ranging from paranoia to suicidal tendancies depending what they are on and you cant tell them any different, especially teenagers, they think it be right. All we can do is tell them the dangers over and over but regretably it is up to them whether they want to try it or never touch it. there needs to be more education on the issue and how to identify the drugs


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blackwidowkate
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | blackwidowkate
druggy teens
Hi
Told ya what i am going to do.
I am going to dress like a police officer and confiscate them........for myself
Heheheheheheheh
Only joking
Luv Deb


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lindterbean
4.76 (Excellent) | January 2007 | lindterbean
More!
Thanks! I especially like your resource for identifying the tablets so easily mistaken for candies or such.  Would love to hear more!


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OzBinky
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | OzBinky
Fantastic!!!
This is a brilliant post.....

I have dealt with drugs for a long time, in others mind you and they are everywhere, new ones nearly every day, they are getting nastier, more lethal and you can never be too informed when it comes to such a subject.....

Again, FANTASTIC article!!


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madchanny
4.74 (Excellent) | January 2007 | madchanny
great article
i am 20 years old, i have tried dope a couple times, but im so against the lab drugs!! for example, my older sister (which i am not talking to) takes it all! speed, ecstasy, ice, burnable speed! she has 3 children! honestly she looks like a junky! and she will lose them kids one day if she doesn't stop what she is doing,
my partner used to be a constant bong smoker, $30 a day habit... he was addicted to the crap through puberty which gave him problems in the long run, i told him i wouldn't be with him if he smoked it, and he quit.... for me
of course, we went through night sweats and tantrums but once totally out of his system, he put on a healthy ammount of weight and we got along so much better.
i think that any parent should show their child this advice, as this could be a matter between life and death. pop one pill and you could die... it has happened.
xx channy xx


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angelmum
4.65 (Excellent) | January 2007 | angelmum
Brilliant
This is such a great article,  you could write another 10 articles and still not get through all the drugs that kids are into these days such as Ice, we have had to deal with someone on this and its a horrible horrible drug.  Another name I have learnt in the last 12 mths for a joint is a splif, marijuana is considered this lovely soft drug that takes away your worries, its just as bad as any other drug, don't like admitting it but I was addicted for many years and it nearly destroyed my life.  I have never touched any other drug but have dealt with friends and family who have, they kill they destroy and every single one of them are evil.  I fear my kids growing up, hopefully I will be able to steer them in the right direction.  Once again brilliant article


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      cookclan
4.68 (Excellent) | January 2007 | cookclan
Brilliant
I know but I do not know enough about the rest of them really to write an article about them. Maybe you could write something about another two and so on I think it would be great if some one could write more about drugs and teens because from what I can see there is a younger usage now to when I was a teen. I did a search for something like this before I wrote it and could not find a thing on it in advice. I am really scared at the moment about the usage of ecstasy in our area that is why I wrote about it. Thank you so much for adding your personal experience too and congrats on getting out of it.
Have a great night
Cheers
Angie


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breannababy
4.70 (Excellent) | January 2007 | breannababy
SCOOBIE DOOBIE DOOO
Another name for a reefer is scoob(joint) I think this is a must for parents to read.12 years ago my Son started high school.......with in the first week he was offered a joint.He came home and asked me if he could par-take of one in the future(he rejected the one offered) I really didn't know too much about weed back then.He was 12, and these weed heads told him he was a pussy for refusing.I wanted to keep the lines of communication open so I said to him seeing as I did not know too much about it other than it was illegal and stunk I would talk to some people I knew and find out about it for him.In the mean time I felt he was way to young to experiment with most of those substance related things.I recommended that he wait until he was older and could make a more mature decision.My point here was to remain calm discuss the topic openly and make him realize I was genuinely interested in his standing with the in crowd and willing to try and find out about the drug in question and any way we could help him through his delima.I knew a person who tragically has a brother on heroin I let Bill visit her home when her brother was coming down from the high,Bill has never touched drugs.It totally turned him off drugs forever he was just mortified.It came home to him cause the sister told Bill her brother started on weed and progressed from there.Great article Andie regards Merle


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      cookclan
4.68 (Excellent) | January 2007 | cookclan
SCOOBIE DOOBIE DOOO
Drugs scare me alot Merle and especially the ignorance alot of teens today have about them. In a conversation I had with some of Aidans mates who take pills they just believe they are indestuctable. It wont hurt me. Stuff like that. I have had Aidan on the net and showed him alot of the drugs but he was the one who told me all the names for the ecstasy pills. He does not do the pills but I have had my suspicions about pot. I have talked to him he has tried it but I think the whole drug psychosis thing scares him especilly since he has a mental illness. I think if you have a situation like you did made available to you it is the best way to help kids to make the right decision and say NO...
Cheers
Angie


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           breannababy
4.68 (Excellent) | January 2007 | breannababy
SCOOBIE DOOBIE DOOO
I hear you Angie,The trouble with these party drugs is that they give these teens(no matter what they say)a false sense of confidence and bravado.It covers up a multitude of teen insecurities.Then they are worse on the way down as all the above is magnified along with side effects of these nefarious drugs.Tell Aiden from some-one who knows first hand that weed is a big no no to us who have bipolar.I had a little fling with weed to try and numb the pain of losing my Son and I can tell him that the highs he loves get to be non existant you are just on big lows that get worse as time goes by.I did not become addicted to weed as I stopped after 6 months of using.But I had to nurse some-one who was  addicted and it was really heartbreaking to see what they go through. regards Merle


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