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Is that movie too scary for your kids to watch?

commonsensemedia by commonsensemedia Talking(January 2007) (rank 500+)
 

By the Editors of Common Sense Media

December 22, 2006

Q: How can I tell if a movie is too scary for my kids -- before I see it?

A: There is no "right" age. Every child is different, and only

you know what's right for yours. Not all kids can distinguish between fantasy and reality -- even if you tell them "it's not real" -- as Joanne Cantor points out in her book, Mommy, I’m Scared: How TV and Movies Frighten Children and What We Can Do to Protect Them.

Are younger kids ready for a Night at the Museum? That dinosaur in the trailer sure looked life-like -- kind of like those "friendly" sharks in Finding Nemo that give many young kids a start.

For so many parents, figuring out what's too scary for their kids is a frighteningly daunting task. Yes, frightening movies can be fun. But for younger and more sensitive viewers, movies with scary images, intense peril, loud noises, and, above all, blood and gore, can create all sorts of disturbances including anxiety, sleep disruption, and fears about certain situations.

So before you take your kids to the Museum or the latest spookfest thinking they just might be able to handle it, ask yourself if the film is age-appropriate. Our reviews can definitely provide you with some guidance. Getting scared can be fun -- if kids are truly mature enough to handle what's scaring them.

Check out a few additional tips below:

Ages 2-4: Nothing scarier than “boo” for this age unless you want nightmares.

Ages 5-7: Spooky cartoon situations with haunted houses and friendly ghosts are fine, but peril involving parents, siblings, or similar-aged kids is not. Kids at this age still can’t easily recognize situations as fantasy, so they will respond as if what they are seeing is real. Be very careful with monsters, skeletons, aliens, and zombies.

Ages 8-10: Some psychological suspense with happy endings is OK, as is physical jeopardy, ghoulish faces, and phantoms, as long as there's no blood or gore.

For other ages, please visit the complete article at:  http://www.commonsensemedia.org/parent_tips/commonsense_view/index.php?id=188 .

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HeatherM61
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | HeatherM61
Just remembered
I have just remembered an interview with Steven Spielberg I saw a few years ago. He has a large family and he made the comment that he doesn't allow his children to see some of his movies, I think that says it all really.


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HeatherM61
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | HeatherM61
Traumatising kids through entertainment
I think where most parents go wrong is that they get caught up in the hype of a new movie or whatever, and because it is the 'latest' thing or 'everyone is seeing it' they think they have to take their kids to see it too. Movie makers are out to make money, a profit, plain and simple. they don't care if your children are emotionally scarred for life because they have reacted badly to a scene in their movie, they follow the popular  formula and make big bucks out of doing so. Most movies actually appeal more to the adult parents than the kids and that is why they are dragged along to view something that will likely give them nightmares or panic attacks for years to come. I would suggest that a parent go to see a movie and analyse it from a childs point of view BEFORE they subject their children to something that might seem like nothing much to an adult but would be traumatic to a child. I would also suggest considering the CHILD itself rather than trying to slot them into an age group. Children are all different and their reactions and reaction times vary. I would also take note of how a child reacts when they have seen a movie, and this could take some time to come to the surface, days or  weeks or even months perhaps, then make sure you never subject them to that kind of thing again if they have a negative reaction to it. Our children rely on us to protect them from harm and we owe them a childhood of love and joy and happiness. Sometimes the price they pay for popular entertainment is just too high.


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moondust
January 2007 | moondust
some good advice here.
Great advice. Thank you.


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lexiw
3.00 (Average) | January 2007 | lexiw
Good advice
Some parents do like to see ideas of guidelines for what their children should be watching. Thank you for the article.


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