I am sorry, I know that this isn't parenting advice but this is the only place I know that it will be read.  It is more of a request, and  I am not saying it to be mean.  When people write Advice it would be really nice if you keep the writting simple.  It is really hard to read writing that is CAPITAL letters and Italic.  I hope i dont effend anybody it is just really hard on the eyes to read the advice and it gets by past.