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Kids and drugs part 3

lexiw by lexiw Young Parent(January 2007) (rank 15th)

these are my experiences and I hope they help.

Money is a fairly big factor when it comes to drugs. All drug dealers are in it for the money and no other reason. They want something in return for what they know you want when you are an addict.

The sick thing is that a successful drug dealer usually dosn't do the drug themselves they just prey on people who do. And it is not just money that they will ask for sometimes it can be that they want sex in return for the drugs. I never resorted to this but I know people who have felt that they are that desperate for the drug that they would do anything.

This is how kids get caught up in theft and other illegal practises to try to make themselves money to support their habit. I have watched so much of this that it makes me sick to remember. I was badly addicted to marijuanna but I had my kids to think of, and I know it dosn't sound right because they knew I was doing the drug, but thinking of what would happen to them if I did steal something and get caught was what stopped me from doing anything stupid to get the drugs. I was in alot of debt though and dealers can be very nasty when it comes to getting the money owed to them.

I believe that again trying to be as open with your children as possible can help with this. If your children are not afraid to come and talk to you about things then you are more likely to know if something happens where money and drugs are concerned and that may help prevent your child from doing something stupid and ending up in jail.

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emmysmum
March 2007 | emmysmum
drugs are a bad thing
It is really scary with what money hungry drug dealers will do for that $10 that they are owed! Like wendigo said, it isn't just the drugs that are dangerous....it's the dealers too!


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Wendigo
March 2007 | Wendigo
A bullet for $25

I've known of people to be killed because they owed a lousy $25. The extremes that some dealers will go to is amazing if they are owed money. Teenagers enter the adult world with a "it'll never happen to me" and an over-trusting attitude, and if they aren't aware of this danger, it can get them a long stay in hospital or worse yet, killed.

It's not just the drugs that are dangerous.

Well done Lexi.



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OzBinky
January 2007 | OzBinky
Drugs are a killer

Well done Lexi..

I had nothing to do with drugs for the best part of my life....well until I met Nigel, then that chaged a whole lot more than I like to admit...

His ex-wife was a heroin addict and did some pretty nasty stuff......

all I can say is....educate, educate and educate some more....

Thank you for sharing matey

 



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jbcet66
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | jbcet66
i feel i did my best

it is really nice to be able to talk to other people about my son in remand. I still don't know really how bad a mess he has got himself in. I've never had a love one in the jail system before and it breaks my heart.

The info i have at the monent is he was 1 of 20 people arrested may 2006 and has been in remand since then. they say he was trafficing drugs, his stupid father thinks that brendon being one off the top people is cool, but for me, i'm sad, disappointed and really just in shock that when i sent him at 14yrs to live with his dads parents ( as he always scared me with his temper, but as he got bigger and taller, i got scared more) i had to think of the other 3 kids i have all from the same stupid father.  Brendon has always been a handful, but nothing prepared me for this heart ache.

in sept 2005 i flew him over to us to help him with his drug problem( he had texted me asking for help). he had a job in my brothers shop, was going to get car and fork licence. was going to use one of the shops cars. But he decided his friends ( so called friends, i found out later all drugies.) in victoria were where he wanted to be. I do know i did the best i could for him. but it still really hurts. while he has been in remand his had 4 different jobs inside, lost them all for fighting. and of recent lost his contact visit, ( had non contact visit) instead. that up set his grandparents who drove 1.5 hrs each way to see him. well i do feel better that i have written it down. my family and friends have been great and they are hurting too. but as his mum i feel guilty that i could have done something better. cheers jenny



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breannababy
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | breannababy
Vermin
Obnoxious people dealers,vermin plain old vermin.Very good article Lexi thank-you regards Merle


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ShellyT
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | ShellyT
always open
thats a good thing to always be open with your child, and i agree with you, it does make them feel better about them selves and stops less crimes etc.


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