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Don't be afraid to ask for help

pfallerj by pfallerj Proud Parent(June 2006) (rank 95th)

Today's Tip - Don't be afraid to ask for help

Most people I know have a thing about asking for help. It's probably human nature or something deep seeded like that. But when it comes to raising a baby, you're going to need help at one point. And you should

never be afraid to ask, especially when you're asking family.

We're lucky enough to have great parents who adore our son. We're in a bit of a pickle this Friday, our day care has an "in-service" day, and both of us have to work. Rather than one of us having to take the day off, my wife's mother is driving a couple hours to come down and watch the baby for the day. And, so we wouldn't have to pay $200 a week in day care costs, my mother practically begged us to let her drive two hours every week and stay with us two days to watch him. Grandparents love their grand kids, and chances are they'd love to help out any way they can. As long as you're comfortable with it and they're not intruding on your parenting style or your personal space, there's no harm in letting them do it.

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youngmumof2
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | youngmumof2
Asking for help
Great advice. I was a young mum 19, when i had my first and thought i had to prove that i could do it all on my own. Which i did but had i've asked for help, i probably could have coped even better. i find there is a lot more pressure on young mum's to prove themselves as parents than there is on older parents.


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ssedgar
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | ssedgar
Well said

When i had Zac i didn't ask for help, it was the mother in me wanting to prove to everyone i could be the perfect mother and do everything on my own. It is impossible.

When i had Jacob i accepted any help offered and asked if i needed it, it helped keep me sane LOL



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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Jessgore
I wish my ma would do this..
But she lives across the ocean.. But hubby's mum rings me up and asks me if I want a day off and she takes him for the whole day.. I love it and she loves the fact that she can be so involved...


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dolphins30
October 2006 | dolphins30
grandparents

They are good to have around and do adore their grandkids. I let my parents see my daughter as often as they like. they adore her to bits



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upinchina
3.43 (Average) | June 2006 | upinchina
lucky
you're lucky to have parents around to help. We don't have our parents so trust me when I say to treasure them!  Cheers!


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