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Being an example to your children

mcm by mcm Young Parent(June 2006) (rank 5th)

The best teacher your child will ever have is you as a parent. They spend the first five years primarily with you. I think being an example to your child is the best way to teach them. If you want your child to eat their vegees, eat your vegees, and

sit with them. If you want your child to enjoy reading books, allow them to catch you reading. If you want your child to speak openly with you, then be honest with them. In other words respect your child, as you would like them to respect you.

People say children have no manners. Maybe they haven't been taught. People say children are rude. Maybe adults are rude to them. For an example, when we go shopping, I notice people ignore my children or they push past them instead of saying "Excuse me". I think if we want our children to be polite then we should teach them through example. Treating all people with respect should be foremost in our thoughts, whether they are elderly or infantile.

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Jessgore
October 2006 | Jessgore
Could not have said it better myself...

It is so true... I was amazed to hear an 7 year old girl talk about black people like they were nothing, I was horrified... Then I listened to her parents... That is where she got it from... I could not believe that parents would teach there kids stuff like this.... Or at least let them listen to stuff like that....  Needless to say I no longer talk to these people....

Monkey see, Monkey do....

 



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JadieLady
August 2006 | JadieLady
respect

Not only respect for each other andeveryone else- but respect for ourselves too! If we dont respect ourselve,s how can we expect anyone else to?

But here is where i differ. my husband and i DO fight n front of our son, but our arguments are never heated but always discussed. we figure its good for him to see how to responsibley solve a disagreement.



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daddy-o
4.08 (Good) | August 2006 | daddy-o
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I agree ! spot on!


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TheMentorMom
4.00 (Good) | July 2006 | TheMentorMom
Excellent
I have to agree.  Parents are their child's first and most important teachers.  "Do as I say but not as I do" doesn't work.  Your observations are spot on.


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Alania
4.07 (Good) | July 2006 | Alania
Agree so much

When an adult pushed passed my daughter (7) the other day she said "excuse me but it would have been nice to say excuse me and i would have let you go by " . Now adult said " how rude" and I said "if i would have just pusdhed past you you would have said the same thing she just did and said children have no manners maybe if you showed some they'd learn ". Adult then apologised for pushing past my girl and being rude herself .

So this goes to prove that if you tell them enough it does get through even if you think it's taking forever.



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Izzy
3.00 (Average) | July 2006 | Izzy
absolutely agree

You are very right.  Children are sponges and will absorb whatever they see on a regular basis.  I've been teaching my son please and thank you for a while now and it's been paying off. At 16 months, he doesn't talk yet, but I've been teaching him "thank you" in sign language. One day, I asked him to say thank you to someone and he actually signed it. I was so proud! He may not know exactly what it means, but he is going through the motion, so it should be (I'm hoping) automatic by the time he is older.

Reading is the same way. If we never read to our children, how do we expect them to pick this habit up when they're older?

 



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      wildrose
4.54 (Excellent) | July 2006 | wildrose
absolutely agree
I'm agree too. The first/basic teacher for them is us the parent. The will copying what ever we do at home. That's why my husband and I always watch our languages and body language in front of our children.


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