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Teaching and Learning

exquisite-flower by exquisite-flower Young Parent(January 2007) (rank 14th)
I was just struck by how E and I often teach each other things - and yet we do it from our own perspective and understanding, and when the other learns this thing we think it is from our perspective, but it isn't always.  This came to me anew today
when we were having a bathtime.  We have a bath puzzle of the Fimbles.  Each piece of the puzzle has an outline, and that outline matches the background of where the piece fits. (as shown in the pictures)

Today as I realised this I as struck by how E, with her appreciation for colour and her age most likely worked out how to do the puzzle based on the colours matching, whereas I have done it from an adult perspective of the size and shape of each piece.  We can both do it from memory now, but have had this puzzle for about 3 years and it is still one of her favourite bathtime toys.  Each character takes on a new name and so on, but at the end of the bath each has to be put in the right place and we still test each other on where each piece fits into and why.

This is an easy example for this, but it works for every age and every teacher/learner relationship.  We always learn from our own stance and viewpoint and think when others learn the same thing they also see same perspective to us, but especially in life lessons it is not like this.  However, this does not negate the learning achieved, it compliments both teacher and learner that  they have expanded their life experience and should encourage them in their learning and sharing of the knowledge they have.  And each adds to the foundation that they are learning from and so build upwards and outwards regardless

Conclusion: As the teacher we have a much to learn as those we are teaching.  There are many instances in our lives where we teach or learn and maybe we dont see it that way because the experience comes under a different guise.  I wish you all heaps of fun teaching and learning with your children regardless of their age. 
Peace
EF.x 
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mcm
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | mcm
My children teach me
I have noticed the more I teach my kids something, the more I learn myself - its amazing and wonderful!


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      exquisite-flower
February 2007 | exquisite-flower
My children teach me
Yes. E often prompts me to teach her even the health and safety things that are 'common sense'.  She is so much fun and I just adore playing with her and spending time with her.  The best thing is that she enjoys playing with me too, so I doubt things will change for a while - yay!  Years more of playing together....how cool....now to think of a game for family games night, hmmm
Peace
EF.x 


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Raine
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | Raine
Teaching and Learning
there's an old expression that 'you are never to old to learn....' & contrary to popular belief you can teach an old dog new tricks, they just have to be open to the learning experience.. I know that every time I've set out to instruct my kids on something new, I've been amazed at the insight they exhibited. As I'm getting older they are always teaching me how to adapt to this expanding world... I think I'd still be in the dark ages if it wasn't for the kids. I find life is more interesting when you are open to learning new & original ideas & concepts...


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      exquisite-flower
February 2007 | exquisite-flower
Teaching and Learning
You always word things so well Raine.  I love this. It is so true.  There is always more to learn, if not then what is the point to live?  There is always something else that can make life better and more fun
Peace
EF.x 


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OzBinky
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | OzBinky
Whose teaching who?

Well written EF....

Even the littlest on earth can be the biggest teachers...

I really did enjoy reading this...

Cheers

Lavinia



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Bambie30
4.46 (Good) | January 2007 | Bambie30
I Agree
I am actually growing up myself with my children as I still have so much to learn from them as they do from me.


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      exquisite-flower
January 2007 | exquisite-flower
I Agree
Isn't it so exciting learning from our children?  There is never a dull moment when there is so much to share and explore.  Certainly stops life from being narrow and blinkered!!!
Peace
EF.x 


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MelodyS
4.46 (Good) | January 2007 | MelodyS
Learning from my children

As a homeschooling mom I have learned more from my son in the past few years than in all my years of school.  We need to listen to our children for many reasons...they've a lot to teach us.

Love the article.



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      exquisite-flower
January 2007 | exquisite-flower
Learning from my children
Thank you for the support.  It is amazing the little things we learn from our children and in turn how we can turn those lessons back onto them!!!

E teaches me how to be a good mum.  She suggests she wants to wear a hat outside on a sunny day, and I say - "What a good idea"  and go on to expound the health and safety to her.

Another time it was holding my hand as we crossed the road.  "That is very good E.  You are very safe when you cross the road holding my hand"  Why didnt I think of this first?  I am meant to be the parent....lol.  Or maybe we had done it before and I havent remembered.  LOL. 

These examples were of course when she was very young.  but they humbled me and made me realise what a responsibility I have and how sometimes i cannot be everything and i do need help from wherever it is offered, regardless of whether I take it or acknowledge it. 
Peace
EF.x 


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metrozing
4.46 (Good) | January 2007 | metrozing
stated very eloquently
I really enjoy this post; I have a funny story about my son sort of related to *me* learning from *him*.

I always say, 'The world is your oyster" meaning everything is out there just waiting to be opened up and enjoyed.  For some reason, he misunderstood what I've been saying for years and said, "mom, the world is your toy store" when I was hesitating over tyring something new.

I like his version so much better!  The world is our toy store.  We have a lot to learn from our sons and daughters.


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      exquisite-flower
January 2007 | exquisite-flower
stated very eloquently
I like his version also - how cool.    It certainly adds a new perspective to any new venture.  Thank you for sharing that.  I am gonna borrow it and put it on my fridge. 
Peace
EF.x 


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jenlemen
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | jenlemen
i'd give this ten votes if i could!
this is so good and i agree wholeheartedly.  my children are my best teachers.


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      exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | exquisite-flower
i'd give this ten votes if i could!
Aww, thank you.  Seems my little inspirations appeal to people much more than the ones i give thought and research to. 
YAY!
Peace
EF.x 


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breannababy
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | breannababy
teach and be taught
I loved reading this,I learn from Breanna every-day.top article regards Merle


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      exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | exquisite-flower
teach and be taught
Thank you Merle.  I am so glad you all liked it!  I really hadnt a clue what i was writing - just that it seemed like a good idea to share my little brainwave. 
Peace
EF.x 


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lexiw
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | lexiw
Great article

It is so true and we so often don't think of it this way because we think only in adult ways.

 Lexi xxx



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      exquisite-flower
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | exquisite-flower
Great article
Lol...no kidding lexiw. 

The first time I had this epiphany was when i was talking to a teenager - which is what amazed me so much when I realised I had this simple example yesterday - it was mad!  I was like - gotta go online and write this up before i forget it....yada yada, and it still took me a couple of hours to get online and achieve it. 

I think we often assume we are only teaching our children when they are little,because we are their main teachers then whereas later on they are in school and it is not so noticable each time we share info with them that they are learning something.
Anyhow, I gotta shurrup and get to bed. 
Peace
EF.x 


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